what are the best value dating sites?

jdp1970

LisaB85 wrote: »

They all seem charming, funny,and great until you meet them then many show their true colours.

Enjoy it but be careful x

Well thats the same as meeting someone in the pub tho...seem charming when they're buying you a drink for the first time, but then... well you know.

I am a good judge of character, as it happens.
Even when they are online.
I can spot the married ones a mile off, the weirdos in 5 mins and the ones with not so good intentions after one conversation.

But this guy is so different...something about him! Cant explain it...

Peater

have you met him?

jdp1970

Peater wrote: »

have you met him?

Not yet! Just been chatting...

Peater

Not trying to be a killjoy, but temper your expectations.

I find it's better to meet people asap before you go making a mental image of them that will usually get shattered upon sight of them in the flesh.

Good luck.

jdp1970

I agree Peater....I won't get my hopes up! Well I will try not to.

samuelthomson240

hi im on pof but ive heard its pretty seady does anyone have any advice id like a good profile im a member of meetup thats really good for socialising some people have met their partners through it so advice please best site free or pay to join and advice on profiles oh and im 42 male single and prefer women cheers john

SailorSam

samuelthomson240 wrote: »

hi im on pof but ive heard its pretty seady does anyone have any advice id like a good profile im a member of meetup thats really good for socialising some people have met their partners through it so advice please best site free or pay to join and advice on profiles oh and im 42 male single and prefer women cheers john

If you want some help to brush up your profile on PoF, go into the forum there. There's a thread that's dedicated to just that and other users both male and female will tell you what you're doing right ...... and wrong.

prudent_princess

samuelthomson240 wrote: »

hi im on pof but ive heard its pretty seady does anyone have any advice id like a good profile im a member of meetup thats really good for socialising some people have met their partners through it so advice please best site free or pay to join and advice on profiles oh and im 42 male single and prefer women cheers john

Try to think of your profile name that sums you up.
Read other guys profiles ....see which ones you think are good and the ones that are terrible.

Type a few lines about yourself.
Then you'll find that you'll go back again and again to edit it, cos you'll think of something better to put down.

I have met a really great guy through POF. I thought the site was awful...lots of seedy men and weirdos, but there are diamonds in the rough i can assure you.

LisaB85

samuelthomson240 wrote: »

hi im on pof but ive heard its pretty seady does anyone have any advice id like a good profile im a member of meetup thats really good for socialising some people have met their partners through it so advice please best site free or pay to join and advice on profiles oh and im 42 male single and prefer women cheers john

Whats your username?

Don't go into the profile review forums on POF it is full of yanks and their idea of dating etc is different to ours.

olibrofiz

Well, I've been bumbling around the pof website for about 3 days now, have been exchanging msg with a few normal seeming guys one of them is, superficially, my type (where's the drool icon??) :rotfl:

Am a bit out of touch - what, in terms of relationships, are 'head games'? (no sexshual comments please)

EDIT: Still waiting with anticipation for an unacceptable msg