Fresh Air for dinner if I carry on like this.....

lucielle

Sorry to hear about the neddy. Good luck with ebaying.
L

freshair_2

Having a shocking time at the mo, just don't seem to be able to do anything. The worst bit os moving out, not sure I can, really don't want to but OH doesn't really seem receptive to the idea of talking let alone having a proper discussion.

Sounds a bit lame, but big fat broken heart, and nothing I can do about it except cry, and that certainly isn't helping....

Tomorrow is a new day, and I am sure that it will be all the better,

Long_tall_sally

Have just read your diary from the start & didn't want to leave without a comment to your last post. Today is a horrible day for you I guess but once the move is done, you can start looking to the future. Hope you get through it ok. Sending big virtual hugs to you!

freshair_2

Haven't been around for a day or 2, work has been manic but all worth it, finished my probationary period at work today, and whoop whoop a 3k payrise, that has given me the boost i needed to get out of the rut and start climbing out.

Even though I haven't actively been paying debt back, minimum payment still going out, that is still going down haven't added to it.

Unfortunately haven't sold the lorry yet.

Think I might be moving this weekend, and me and OH are getting on better, smiling and laughing again so maybe just maybe that might all work out as well, i feel like it is right.

happy mseing everybody, we back on it again now

thanks for all the support everyone x

MrsMoo2U

Sorry I missed your posts, seem to have lost your thread for a while. There will be up and down days. The hard thing is learning to go with the flow. Sorry to hear about Neddy, was it just an over cautionary vet or did you suspect this? Will it add to your costs in the longer term?

freshair_2

MrsMoo2U wrote: »

Sorry I missed your posts, seem to have lost your thread for a while. There will be up and down days. The hard thing is learning to go with the flow. Sorry to hear about Neddy, was it just an over cautionary vet or did you suspect this? Will it add to your costs in the longer term?

Thanks Mrs Moo, I know there will be bad days just seem like there are more than good at the moment. With the horse I thought that there would be something as she is old but thought it would be respiratory because she had problems when she was younger, oh well, vet has advised of a few things we can try before the expense of x-rays corrective shoeing so will try that first.

Feel a bit better today, more looking forward to having my own home again, but still going to miss OHish. Not sure if it will be strange after i move with OHish so have taken the precaution and have spent on mail redirection just incase I have missed anything. Sorted leccy, oil, council tax, electoral form coming out, tv license, buildings and contents, need to do broadband and phone, more or less everything packed this end, and some of it has been moved.

Bit scared to tbh, thought i had sorted the forever thing

Have officially signed up to NSD day challenge 10 to find, that should help keep me on track while i'm sorting myself. Have managed 1 and that was today....its a start :rotfl:

freshair_2

ooo and should really remember helping the old man break into his car in tactos, he was really really grateful, skinny arms are useful for something, it was his car so thats ok as well

freshair_2

mmmm £90 tracking from quidco for insurance, and broadband +++ all to go to the big furry debt monster. when he is fully fed he will leave :rotfl:. few more bits and pieces to sort out, but fingers crossed I think at the moment, it will be very very tight in a sort of not comfortable way, not too much of an issue that neddy hasn't found a new home yet, well it is really because of the afore mentioned debt monster, but maybe I can tame it temporarily.

Apart from that nothing too exciting to report, think I was right on the original no going forward with OH, PS3 seems to hold more interest than the rest of life :cool:.

freshair_2

next step of my monster slaying, have applied for a 0% bt card hopefully to transfer egg to, checked my credit record before doesn't look like anything too horrendous, but think what the £83 :mad: per month interest could actually do

freshair_2

Just did my snowball.....err debt free time of 193 months!! thats 2027, 16 years! that does include my mortgage though, would it be complete insanity to make that 10 years? that does mean finding an extra £500 per month. :rotfl::rotfl:at the moment that seems laughable, but if my earlier plan of rehoming my baby girl had gone to plan it would seem like such insanity.

Still plan 1 is to get rid of virgin, only a meer £375 pounds, £90 tracking on quidco, so that makes another 285 to find. Wish I wasn't moving and ridicuosly busy with that or I might just manage it, but as close as I can get by the end of the month and I will be happy. There is £100 in my savings account but that was really for emergencies, but if it clears the interest payments then I should be able to replace it sooner rather than later. So that would be only £185 to find. :think:

Is that the right thing to do though? so confused....