14 year old son in a strop-again!

rachbc

I think if its double standards not to let her stay of he is allowed other mates over and understand why he is in a strop - he's being penalised for having a female friend as you treat her differently.

C_Mababejive

If hes going to bone her,he'll bone her at your home or somewhere else. Far better to have his father have a grown up discussion with him about the safe and proper use of these things..

Amanda65

mrshappy wrote: »

assj and amanda65-I am aware that they could get up to anything anywhere if they were going to, however I just don't think mixed sleepovers are appropriate at their age.l

Which, if you read my earlier post, is exactly my sentiment. I was trying to say (perhaps not very cleary :think:) was that I am not naive enough to think nothing will happen just bcause you don't allow a sleepover, but there's no need to make it easier

mrshappy

Amanda65 wrote: »

Which, if you read my earlier post, is exactly my sentiment. I was trying to say (perhaps not very cleary :think:) was that I am not naive enough to think nothing will happen just bcause you don't allow a sleepover, but there's no need to make it easier

Apologies Amanda, I didn't mean for that to look as if I disagreed with what you posted earlier, when I totally agree with what you said, reading back my post doesn't quite sound how I meant!