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How to believe it's really over?

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  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    yvonne13 wrote: »
    Do you think there is a possibility she wants to be with someone else?
    milkybar wrote: »
    No possibility at all. Just had another text asking how I am and that she can't stop thinking about me and it's making her worry. I just replied not to worry and that I'm ok.

    Definitely no chance of anyone else. She can't stand people in general, prefers the company of a book than an actual friend!

    OP, the others are telling you as it is, and you only seem to want to hear what you want to hear (or read) , how are you so sure someone else is not filling her up whilst you are away? What's the betting that at the end of the month the planned seeing each other will be cancelled leaving you in the lurch for the bank holiday? You are being mentally abused, run for the hills whilst you still have your sanity, we don't want to read about an ugly episode in future newspapers :o
  • January20
    January20 Posts: 3,769 Forumite
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    edited 21 August 2011 at 3:33PM
    milkybar wrote: »

    I cried, so what?

    Crying is ok. Begging is not.
    You said you were begging her. You said you would only end the call when she said she loved you. Words she was reluctant to utter. If she loved you, you wouldn't have to blackmail her for her to say it. I'm saying this for your own good. Not that you care because I'm not saying what you went to hear!
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  • DUTR
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    January20 wrote: »
    Crying is ok. Begging is not.
    You said you were begging her. You said you would only end the call when she said she loved you. Words she was reluctant to utter. If she loved you, you wouldn't have to blackmail her for her to say it. I'm saying this for your own good. Not that you care because I'm not saying what you went to hear!

    This sounds dangerous practice in it self, hmm will look out for the headlines in the papers :o
    They now sound as bad as each other :o
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    OP, why are you still texting her? You are merely prolonging the agony.

    Ask yourself what is so special about this girl. I think you want a stable relationship and would try to make a go of it with anyone.
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

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  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    January20 wrote: »
    Crying is ok. Begging is not.
    You said you were begging her.

    Time for another tune I think...
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

    Hope is not a strategy :D...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!
  • RichGold
    RichGold Posts: 1,244 Forumite
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    30 days of space? It sounds like she wants her head looking at.

    She sounds like someone you can do without.
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  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    It's the 30 days notice I don't understand. Why 30 day's!!!
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    Maybe it's a cylical thing....or she's a werewolf ;)
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

    Hope is not a strategy :D...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    VfM4meplse wrote: »
    Time for another tune I think...

    I think http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N36csz8_sPY is more appropriate :o
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    DUTR wrote: »
    I think http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N36csz8_sPY is more appropriate :o

    Time for an independent test methinks.
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

    Hope is not a strategy :D...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!
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