Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrshappy

RebekahR wrote: »

Yea I'm just thinking I need to begin to step back now more from this thread also. Yea i'm useless at secrets!!!!!!!!!!! Mum knows sister knows lol dad and nan dont yet. But think I will give in deffo to dad soon! None of hubbys family know or other friends yet as he is strict on the after 12 weeks thing lol.
How far gone are you again? You might be having twins!:rotfl:

:rotfl:It's just so exciting telling family though! Last time I told my mum and dad the day I found out, but looked a bit daft when they were asking when I was due and I didn't know, the best I could come up with was maybe the end of november My brother and sis in law waited til they had their scan pic to show us-I couldn't keep it from my mum until then, I'm such a blabber mouth!

:wave:hello BB, hope you're doing ok, nice to see you

divorcingjack

QQuaver wrote: »

It depends, if you had a sleepless night then the temp can be high:o
Fingers crossed the temp stays up tomorrow:)

Now don't tell me that QQ!! I did have a sleepless night - hubs work called about some problem and woke us both up. Boooooooooooooooooo.

However, hardly any ewcm today and cervix firmer than yesterday. Wishful thinking perhaps. I don't think I can stay awake long enough to BD again!! :eek:

morocha

waww so many pregnant ladies !! I didnt have a belly till i was around 20-25 weeks and it was still quite small... it used to upset me when people commented on how small i was and if i sure with the dates... Anyway at the end,the last month i was baking cakes every single day and ended up with 14 kilos total pregnancy weight!!.. it started off so well tho... This time around ( when iget pg again) i will look after myself and not indulge in all the crap i want cos i know it was not easy to lose weigh for me.

morocha

I feel like such and idiot posting what i did. My husband just told me he wants differents things in life. I am like such an idiot planning on having a baby, when he does not want to be with me, he is unsure, he does not see this lasting.
I feel so sad, this is not what i wanted.

Nicki

Sorry your having a difficult time tonight morocha. Is this something which was said in the heat of an argument? Sometimes things are said when pushed into a corner which aren't meant in the cold light of day. Hope things look better after a good nights sleep. xxx

RebekahR

Woooo honey ... Whats up babes? Tells us more xx Lots of love xx

morocha

well that he is unsure marriage is what he wants, he thinks he tried to hard to make this work but he thinks it doesnt ? I was just talking about a baby, and he just said all of this. he keeps changing his mind, and i dont know what to do, all i want right now is to be back with my family, iam looking for flights, £1200 return for me and dd. It is a lot but i can put it in my credit card, its been three years since i saw them last time, i so want to be back home now.
i feel like a child doing this, but when things go wrong all i can think of is going home, my husband and dd are my only ties with this country i guess i feel like this because i left everything behind to come here for him.
Anyway it would be for march 2012, i have two nieces that i dont know, i have been planning going home next year, but as we were talking about having a baby, i thought i couldnt just spend all that money.

bigzippy

Thanks qq, mrshappy, bb

Morocha, I hope you get things sorted, I really don't know how to help, sorry


P.s. Sorry about moaning about the fertility appt etc I know there are ladies on here who've been trying longer than me:o

vesper

:grouphug: Hope you get things sorted Morocha. Not sure anything I could say would help.

Don't worry bigzippy, I think it's great that we have somewhere we can rant.

Feeling like utter crap today, my back is still aching. No idea why I've not been lifting anything heavy, and its only a dull ache so I don't think I've pulled something. It's just more annoying than anything else. And now have a lovely aching throat to go along with it.

mrshappy

Looks like CD1 here