Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

tinkwings wrote: »

DH and I had long talk last night to get ourselves singing from the same song sheet and fingers crossed when AF decided to show (bfn again this morning) then we are on course next cycle.

Glad you are singing from the same song sheet though:o
Let's hope for bumper Christmas BFPs:)

mssas wrote: »

I havent been too well had the flu

(((Hugs))).

think because my MC was in august and i already knew my sis was pg it hasnt been hard or weird.

Hope you'll be a mum soon:)

mrshappy wrote: »

my 14 year old was told that he is a useless lazy waste of space by his French teacher the other week :mad: (I'm the only person allowed to say that about him )

:rotfl:

2ba3c wrote: »

Yup me too! And apart from the huge increase in horn I don't feel anything. Am I supposed to feel something different?

What do you feel QQ?

I'm hoping to have some activity in the ovary area. I usually start getting cramps there soon when I take Clomid.
Not sure if I have any yet, it could be wind:D

walby1993 wrote: »

Yep, swearing at a teacher is not uncommon. I have only been teaching 18 months but have been sworn at at least half a dozen times - the worst being "f*** off you stupid b****" ....

I don't think we were allowed to swear when I was a school girl, am I showing my age?:D

will just have to BD every other day to be sure.. It's a hard life lol

Good luck:D

divorcingjack

Evening all

Back from my mammoth day today - knackered. Sausage and mash for tea, fluffy pj's and a blazing fire is making it all better though.

QQuaver wrote: »

Divorcinjack, 4am tomorrow morning?:shocked:
That'll mess up FF at the crucial time!:eek:

QQ - I KNOW!!!! How bad is that timing eh? :mad::mad: Although, when I took it at 4.25 this morning, it had taken a jump up. Presumably if i'd taken it at the normal time it would have been even higher? Right? I'm thinking I've ov'd if it stays up tomorrow, which would be good as I might have to be away from Wednesday to Friday.

sexymouse wrote: »

. I actually got sworn at today as I told a boy to move his desk forward as he'd moved it backwards and when he stretched, he ended up touching the boy behind him who was trying to concentrate! :eek:

Anyway, I'm looking forward to trying out the squirty cream tonight and I've now got the rest of the day to chill out! I remembered that the Mills and Boon book is sitting on the sofa (thanks to the person who posted about it - can't remember who is was though I'm afraid), so that will be put to use tomorrow in the absence of chocolate sauce.

Hi sexymouse! The cheek of that boy!! Shocking. I've obviously lead a sheltered life so far

Enjoy the squirty cream!! Is it a bit odd that we'll all be asking you how your luuurvemaking went tomorrow? This thread certainly encourages strange behaviour, eh? :rotfl:

Right, nearly teatime - see you all later

dj xx

sexymouse

QQuaver wrote: »

I don't think we were allowed to swear when I was a school girl, am I showing my age?:D

Not at all - we never would have dreamt of swearing at school, even when we were in highschool, although I did go to an all girl's school in highschool, so don't know if that makes a difference. This is an all boys' school that I'm invigilating in. I suppose it's a bit of a culture shock for me as I'm used to primary school children, who generally can be a bit more respectful to adults.

Flee_2

Had 2 glasses of wine tonight after a morning from hell with one of my classes. So glad they are not my main group and that I only teach them for one hour a week.
Feel so rough tonight, going for an early night.

BB1984

Hi everyone :wave:

HUGE congratulations to Rebekah and Pot80! Great news! :j :j

I've been away for a few days as been in London visiting family Also am a bit wary of hanging around too much now I'm not actually TTC...! I am still lurking regularly though as I like to keep a beady eye on you all!

Big ((hugs)) to europa, tink, emsbet and anyone else who could do with one

Rebekah, have you told anyone IRL about your BFP yet? We have been very restrained and have still only told one friend each! I'm going to try and wait until my sister's birthday to tell family, but I'll be 14 weeks by then and it'll be a miracle if noone's guessed, given the size of me already... :eek:

Ooh - 8 o'clock - University Challenge time...!

BB x

bigzippy

Nicki wrote: »

I'm up too. Can't sleep. What's up?

Just sick of not being able to sleep, and everything swimming round my head. Worry over MIL; her ops; whether she'll manage to give up smoking when she's released; the stress on us; on our ttc... (selfish I know) I'm also ruminating on the fertility appts; the tests; whether it'll happen for us; how long it'll take if it does... I feel guilty(?)... DH honestly didn't think we'd need help.

I dunno, there's just a lot going on in our lives right now. And I've just had my flu jab today and it's made me feel lousy and flared my nerve condition up. And I'm sulking now... :cool:

Birdie85 wrote: »

Hope you're feeling a little better now BigZippy, sometimes you need a good strop to get it out of your system!

Thanks

How do you girls cope with OH's with low libidos?! My DH is more than happy to BD once a week, I have been trying to get more out of him and trying to sneak it up to every 2-3 days but it's not always happening like that. We DTD Friday and I tried again last night only to get shot down because he was tired and 'he's not a machine' errr, I'd understand that argument if I was asking for him to BD twice a day but every other day?! I mentioned that he'll have to be more 'active' this weekend as I should be OVing but I can't see it happening TBH and it's frustrating but I can't say anything for fear of putting him under pressure and sounding like a crazy lady only after his seed! He's never been that bothered by sex, as long as he gets 'enough' but I don't know how he expects to make a baby without DTD... he was complaining about it already being over a month (which isn't correct anyway as I only had my first AF last week, but in his mind we've been properly TTC since early October) and I wanted to tell him that babies don't really arrive by stork and require work from both parties!

I bluntly told my DH that he was doing my head in moping every AF when he wasn't necessarily... "cooperating"... at the right times; explained that there's only like a 30% chance even if you do everything "right", so when we don't DTD at the right times/frequently enough our chances are less than that. He's upped the ante since

Maybe you just need to be honest/blunt?

Pot8o wrote: »

I am 4wks+4.

:T Congratulations!

mrshappy

bigzippy wrote: »

Just sick of not being able to sleep, and everything swimming round my head. Worry over MIL; her ops; whether she'll manage to give up smoking when she's released; the stress on us; on our ttc... (selfish I know) I'm also ruminating on the fertility appts; the tests; whether it'll happen for us; how long it'll take if it does... I feel guilty(?)... DH honestly didn't think we'd need help.

I dunno, there's just a lot going on in our lives right now. And I've just had my flu jab today and it's made me feel lousy and flared my nerve condition up. And I'm sulking now... :cool:

No wonder you aren't sleeping well with everything going on I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I don't, sorry, I was right there with the not sleeping last year when my mum was ill, so I do sympathise, it is horrible, and everything always seems so much harder during the night. Hugs xx

QQuaver

divorcingjack wrote: »

it had taken a jump up. Presumably if i'd taken it at the normal time it would have been even higher? Right? I'm thinking I've ov'd if it stays up tomorrow, which would be good as I might have to be away from Wednesday to Friday.

It depends, if you had a sleepless night then the temp can be high:o
Fingers crossed the temp stays up tomorrow:)

BB1984 wrote: »

We have been very restrained and have still only told one friend each! I'm going to try and wait until my sister's birthday to tell family, but I'll be 14 weeks by then

When would that be? How big are you?:D
Exciting times!:j

bigzippy wrote: »

Just sick of not being able to sleep, and everything swimming round my head. Worry over MIL; her ops; whether she'll manage to give up smoking when she's released; the stress on us; on our ttc... (selfish I know) I'm also ruminating on the fertility appts; the tests; whether it'll happen for us; how long it'll take if it does... I feel guilty(?)... DH honestly didn't think we'd need help.

(((Hugs))).

Maybe you just need to be honest/blunt?

Good idea:o

RebekahR

BB1984 wrote: »

Hi everyone :wave:

HUGE congratulations to Rebekah and Pot80! Great news! :j :j

I've been away for a few days as been in London visiting family Also am a bit wary of hanging around too much now I'm not actually TTC...! I am still lurking regularly though as I like to keep a beady eye on you all!

Big ((hugs)) to europa, tink, emsbet and anyone else who could do with one

Rebekah, have you told anyone IRL about your BFP yet? We have been very restrained and have still only told one friend each! I'm going to try and wait until my sister's birthday to tell family, but I'll be 14 weeks by then and it'll be a miracle if noone's guessed, given the size of me already... :eek:

Ooh - 8 o'clock - University Challenge time...!

BB x

Yea I'm just thinking I need to begin to step back now more from this thread also. Yea i'm useless at secrets!!!!!!!!!!! Mum knows sister knows lol dad and nan dont yet. But think I will give in deffo to dad soon! None of hubbys family know or other friends yet as he is strict on the after 12 weeks thing lol.
How far gone are you again? You might be having twins!:rotfl:

BB1984

bigzippy wrote: »

Just sick of not being able to sleep, and everything swimming round my head. Worry over MIL; her ops; whether she'll manage to give up smoking when she's released; the stress on us; on our ttc... (selfish I know) I'm also ruminating on the fertility appts; the tests; whether it'll happen for us; how long it'll take if it does... I feel guilty(?)... DH honestly didn't think we'd need help.

Awwww ((hugs)) bigzippy, I hope you sleep better tonight hun You've got a lot on your plate but everything seems worse when you're tired.

QQuaver wrote: »

When would that be? How big are you?:D
Exciting times!:j

Mid-late December. I'm not THAT big, just can't fit into most of my trousers/skirts anymore! And cos I don't want people to know yet, there's lots of other clothes that I can't wear because they're too clingy

RebekahR wrote: »

Yea I'm just thinking I need to begin to step back now more from this thread also. Yea i'm useless at secrets!!!!!!!!!!! Mum knows sister knows lol dad and nan dont yet. But think I will give in deffo to dad soon! None of hubbys family know or other friends yet as he is strict on the after 12 weeks thing lol.
How far gone are you again? You might be having twins!:rotfl:

I'm 9 weeks. Twins!! :eek: :rotfl:

BB x