Trying for a Baby Part 7

tinkwings

Emsbet Get well soon :A

morocha sending hugs xx

Expecting AF today ......................Well according to FF

Had to be up at 6 to take DD1 to school for a theatre trip to london for two days. Came back and went back to bed!!!

Just wish AF would get here so I can start CD1 and cracked on!!

SO this will be my first month of using CBFM so can i get a idiots guide for how to use it???

Nicki

Did you test today just in case tinks?

If AF does arrive later today, set your CBFM tomorrow when you wake up. You use FMU and you need to set it at the time you will usually be testing. You can either set it as Day 1 or Day 2 depending on what you think is most appropriate. The instructions say to set it as CD1 but if I got full flow before noon, I'd be inclined to set it as CD2 the next day. You will be asked to POAS for the first time on CD6 this month and then for 10 or 20 days afterwards depending on whether you get a peak in the first 10 days. Don't be tempted to stop testing or reuse sticks after you get a peak as I did, otherwise it will knacker your data for the next month and you won't get a peak next month even if your OPKs turn positive

You are likely to get several highs in the first month before you peak and you won't in fact be fertile for all of them. Maybe BD every other day when high just in case, then every day for the 2 peaks and the following high.

GL

robyn297

Thanks everyone.

Rebekkah > According to a due date calculator, 22 July. And congrats to you as well! When you due?

morocha

he is worried about money lately, problem with him is he overspend, i mean if he sells his bikes he can cover all his debts and start clean again, but there you go, men and his big toys. I do only part time, and it is not a problem, we manage fine,i will start the OU in February, and see a fantastic opportunity cos what i want to do it will take me 4 years, so i can study and be at home for baby. Then when she/he is ready for school and can work full time.

We have talked about me being pregnant for 3 months now, but havent really done anything about it, i thought this month was it.He said he does not want only a child.
He is still under stress, i think i need to understand that. He is also working a lot with his own business aside his job.

Thank you so much everyone, it really helps writting it all down. I feel better now.

tinkwings

Nicki wrote: »

Did you test today just in case tinks?

If AF does arrive later today, set your CBFM tomorrow when you wake up. You use FMU and you need to set it at the time you will usually be testing. You can either set it as Day 1 or Day 2 depending on what you think is most appropriate. The instructions say to set it as CD1 but if I got full flow before noon, I'd be inclined to set it as CD2 the next day. You will be asked to POAS for the first time on CD6 this month and then for 10 or 20 days afterwards depending on whether you get a peak in the first 10 days. Don't be tempted to stop testing or reuse sticks after you get a peak as I did, otherwise it will knacker your data for the next month and you won't get a peak next month even if your OPKs turn positive

You are likely to get several highs in the first month before you peak and you won't in fact be fertile for all of them. Maybe BD every other day when high just in case, then every day for the 2 peaks and the following high.

GL

CD1 AF just arrived

Thank you for the CBFM help xxxx

divorcingjack

Hugs for Cd1 tink

dj x

emsbet

Big squishies Tink

xx

QQuaver

Testing list

Tue 25th Oct - i luv freebies
Thu 3rd Nov - countrybum
Sat 5th Nov - Tryinforathird
Wed 16th Nov - Tigerlilly
Mon 21st Nov - Flee
Tue 22nd Nov - nicki

November graduates- Winners of Oct BFP predictions (11) robyn297:T

esio trot TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 07/11/11:j
pot8o (27) TTC#1 since 04/11 (mc 06/11) BFP 12/11/11:j
RebekahR (30) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 13/11/11:j
robyn297 (27) TTC#1 since 06/10 (had a few months off) BFP 15/11/11:j
Europa TTC#2 since 07/11 BFP 15/11/11:j


November BFP predictions

mrsrobertson - 6
Trixietoes - 7
GemmaE - 8
Twigglet35 - 8
Squirrels - 8
ikkle87 - 9
QQuaver - 9
Secretdebts - 9
Flee - 9
sexymouse - 9
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 10
Rebekah - 10
Birdie85 - 10
Tinkwings - 10
MrsHappy - 10
vesper - 11
teaandcakeordeath - 11
TTC40 - 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD52 i luv freebies - ?DPO :cool:
CD48 teaandcakeordeath - 26DPO :cool:
CD40 Tryingforathird - 22DPO :cool:
CD38 T-sil - ?DPO :cool:
CD31 The Next Verse - 16DPO :cool:
CD28 colli - 15DPO :cool:
CD29 mrsrobertson - 15DPO :cool:
CD28 isla_red - ?DPO :cool:
CD24 Student_Mrs - 10DPO :cool:
CD24 trixietoes - 10DPO :cool:
CD? Tigerlilly - 9DPO :cool:
CD26 Flee - 8DPO :cool:
CD25 Sa-ra-ra-ra - 8DPO :cool:
CD19 nicki - 7DPO :cool:
CD25 Aless02 - 6DPO :cool:
CD28 mssas - 6DPO :cool:
CD11 Primmer* - High CBFM :cool:

CD89 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov
CD89 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov
CD75 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD56 b_girl - Awaiting ov
CD44 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov
CD40 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD38 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov
CD37 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD33 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD31 fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD27 Whattodonow - Awaiting ov
CD27 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD25 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov
CD25 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD22 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD19 GemmaE - Awaiting ov
CD18 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD18 Elelyn - Awaiting ov
CD18 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD15 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov
CD15 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov
CD15 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD14 sexymouse* - Awaiting ov
CD14 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD13 walby1993 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD12 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov
CD11 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD11 Birdie85 - Awaiting ov
CD9 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD9 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD8 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD8 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD6 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD6 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD6 emsbet - Awaiting ov
CD5 kittycat1977 - Awaiting ov
CD3 lucyloo77 - Awaiting ov
CD1 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD1 mrshappy - Awaiting ov
CD1 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD1 i love holidays - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

QQuaver

Good morning, sunny day:wave:
Haven't finished reading back but:

Big hugs Tinkwings & MrsHappy for CD1:(

Let's hope you two can squeeze in a BFP this year:o

morocha, (((hugs))). It may be a good idea to spend a bit of time with your family once in a while in your country to see things in different light. I suppose you can't spend the Christmas with your folks?