Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

Phew, just caught up, only skim read, so let me know if I missed something:o

lemonmelon, (((hugs))). Good luck with the op, and see you back soon.
2ba3c, you take 100mg of soy isoflavones/day for 5 days beginning on CD3. The dosage and the days can differ a little, but this is considered to be most successful dosage/days.
jen77 and Walby1993 welcome:wave:
I've put you both on the first page, let me know if you'd like it changed:)
Temping while on shifts may work or may not work, but only way to find out is to try:p
Hope you'll catch the eggy soon:j
Littlezee, :rotfl:at being jealous with people with AF. Hope you caught the eggy though, and the fertility appointment would be to check the heartbeat of the bean:o
Mishka, (((Hugs))). Pop back often:)

GemmaE

hugs lemonmelon and mishka, I hope you are both OK.

Welcome newbies, I hope (in the nicest possible way) you aren't here for long.

BigZ- I hope you also feel a bit better now, getting help may help put your mind at rest and boost your PMA.

Sorry I'm rubbish at being reassuring, but big fat hugs to everyone feeling a little blue.

Got woken up by our water butt overflowing and making funny noises last night, I think the pipes were blocked or something so a bit tired today. am sat staring at a very messy lounge without any inclination to clean up!

Hope everyone is OK xx

emsbet

emsbet wrote: »

.*whispers* I think it may have almost stopped! I've had very little this morning! :j

xx

I spoke too soon! Back being almost light flow! :mad: At least it took longer to start up today, that must be a good sign, right?

xx

bigzippy

colli wrote: »

There's nothing wrong with asking for a bit of help if you need it :cool:. You've done so well with all the weight loss but sometimes our bodies just need a little push . If you end up pg straight away after treatment then you'll be kicking yourself for not going sooner so go for it!

Thanks (to all you guys for encouragement too )
You're right, I probably would kick myself... I'm just scared, I guess, that clomid wouldn't work either and I'll have to face up to that... I dunno my mind's a silly place I guess :cool:

:eek::eek: for cross training pregnant woman. I don't know if I'd find that inspirational or just plain annoying! Probbaly the latter

:rotfl:

lemonmelon wrote: »

I'm very very sad to say this but I'm going to have to take a step back from ttc. I got some results back and I'm going to have another operation and maybe some more treatment after that. I'm totally gutted because I want a baby more than anything but at the moment I need to focus on fighting this and getting all better. I know I don't post here very often but I read everyday and I'm really going to miss you ladies.
Thank you for all your help and advice in the last few months.

Wishing you all the very best for the future and a healthy and happy pregnancy for each of you. QQ please can you remove me from the list

I'm gutted for you lemon, and I understand if you don't want to come back here, but it would be nice to hear how you get on and would be lovely to see you back here when you're ready/able :) All the very best to you and your OH.

Flee wrote: »

Just ordered some more conceive plus from Amazon. Wasn't sure whether to try the Preseed though. Which one is better?
I like the fact that conceive plus is just used as a lube that you use as and when needed.

I bought Preseed, on the basis that there were applicators if it was too messy, but wanted to use it without. I found that a pea sized amount was enough on the end of the finger and wasn't so messy using this amount either.

On that topic - QQ you might wanna put an * by my name now

QQuaver

Nicki wrote: »

Everyone else had to wait 20 minutes for me to do him a chicken breast with the result he got a nice fresh meal with cold veg, and everyone else got a lukewarm meal.

What I would've done is to give him some ham and cheese:mad:

bigzippy

mishkanorman wrote: »

I've been having a week of wobbles about TTC this week, I have decided to try until the new year and if we are unsuccessful I think that will be it for us.

I have spent all my energy this year trying for a baby, and in total come March that will be 5 years of on/off trying, an early miscarriage, a chemical and then loosing our little girl. Maybe someone is trying to tell me something ! It seems like every time we are in a stable position to try for a baby something else comes along, work worries or relationship problems or health problems . . . . .

Anyway, im still reading but I wont be posting very often as I dont have the correct PMA right now.

Wishing you all the best x x

I really hope this happens soon for your Mishka. I can understand why you'd want a break (I can't remember how old you are?), hopefully it will happen either before New Year, or when you're not expecting it and therefore relaxed, and it's just "meant to be" Would NTNP be any easier on you?

Wishing you all the best too

fannyanna wrote: »

I'm good thanks.

Hoping to be back in the New Year. Hubby has his follow up appointment just before Christmas (although things are still not looking good at the moment) and hopefully by then I'll have stopped bleeding too .


Hey you! Don't be so hard on yourself. And just remember it's getting to that finishing line that's important - not how you got there x x x

Hope Hubby heals up quickly and you get the all clear very soon too. Miss you over here!
Thanks

QQuaver wrote: »

Littlezee, hope you ov'd!:j
I've put you on 2DPO (according to your mood and cm).

Well... I did, but not 2 days ago! I have full flow AF today!! :j:T

PMA back up
I'm still going to go to the docs next week (or when we can get an appointment, my GP is off this week so can't book an appt with him til he's back in (weird system ) and get things rolling.

But this is encouraging! It was a 39 day cycle!!! That's the shortest all year I think!!

Anyone want some PMA? I've got a little to spare! :D

QQuaver

GemmaE wrote: »

Got woken up by our water butt overflowing and making funny noises last night, I think the pipes were blocked or something so a bit tired today. am sat staring at a very messy lounge without any inclination to clean up!

:shocked:
The water butt is outside?

emsbet wrote: »

I spoke too soon! Back being almost light flow! :mad: At least it took longer to start up today, that must be a good sign, right?

xx

Good sign I think:cool:

claire16c

Sa-ra-ra-ra wrote: »

I like that idea, maybe I will! Sounds like a good plan.

I doubt I do actually spend that much, it's just that the last time I went to the supermarket I stocked up on everything cos I'd pretty much run out - so maybe that's why it's in my head. Also, I had a Mirena in for 8 years before TTC, so I now stand in the 'feminine hygiene' aisle looking confused as I still haven't quite got the hang of working out what I prefer to use for AF!

Yeah I used to skip periods on the pill all the time by taking packs together so i probably had about 5-6 periods a year on average. So its quite weird actually having to buy tampons on a regular basis now!

QQuaver

I bought H&B's Soy Isoflavones today.

I've finished the previous bottle:rotfl:
This one should last 4 cycles not that I need that many mind:p
It was on get one get another 1p, but they only had one bottle left, so I take it it's fate's way of telling me I don't need anymore:cool:

Timing wise, I should get AF on around 10th of Nov, so should ov around 24th. It'll be perfect as I'll be with DH from the 22nd:cool:

And yes, I will be getting AF as our last BD was September:o

GemmaE

QQ- yes it collects rain water, i've probably called it the wrong thing tho!

Woohoo BigZ! Yay for 39 day cycle! x