Trying for a Baby Part 7

Kitten_Pie

Hi all,

Not sure if anyone remembers me, I joined earlier this year and was fortunate to not be here long.

A little bit of background.

We were told about 4 years ago that it would be almost impossible for us to have children, we were trying for over 2 years before joining here and managed to get pregnant with twins soon after.

Unfortunately 2 weeks ago (19th November) our twins were born sleeping at 31 weeks.

Not quite ready to start trying again as much as I think I want to but will have to let my body recover from the labour first before we can consider it (so will probably just lurk for a while). We were so close to having our family that I am not ready to give up on the dream.

You guys were all so nice and supportive last time I was here and hope you will welcome me back.

Hollyx

RebekahR

colli wrote: »

That's an AMAZING idea :T:T. I'd sign up for that

(((hugs))) Mishka and DJ. CD1's the worst but I always feel a lot better by CD2

Hope work isn't too bad for you Emsbet, do you have a nice relaxing evening planned?

Smiley face on the OPK for me yesterday, OH super hungover so I had to [STRIKE]throw a strop[/STRIKE] persuade him to bd. Going for another one tonight so SMEP still on course

Anything to add? Oooh how about hot tubs! Red juicey medium steak! This room is turning into a mansion ... :rotfl:

SMEP went tits up for us on Saturday. Sat nights bd was at 3am ... couldn't decide whether to call that a Sat bd or a sun bd so figure Sun would work. Plan was to do more yest morning but our visitor decided to get up early so hubby got up to keep him company and then I thought ok he will go after breakfast. Many hours later ... he didnt go til evening! Had had no eggwhite all day so figured I would have already oved during the day so didn't bother with more last night. A half temp rise today so i'm guessing I have already. Until I just got a pain on one side like thats like sharp ovulation pain ... that said its doing the same on the otherside. That's IBS I guess or i'm about to have twins lol. It's sharp and stabby throbby.

QQuaver

mishka & divorcingjack (((hugs))) for CD1

I know you are upset dj, but don't panic just yet, you are still young, your temps looks brilliant, you have a great chance of getting pg very soon:) Try to forget about TTC (easier said than done I know:p).
Tryingforathird, some get BFP at 7DPO, but you'll be pg at 14DPO too:money: Remember, there's such a thing as chemical pregnancies, where one is only pg until around 14DPO:o
sexymouse, blood test can pick up hcgs earlier than urine tests:cool:
emsbet, (((hugs))) for spotting, but glad the day is going OK for now:o
Rebekah, I love the AF room idea:o I'll be in there definitely in 10 days. No BD = AF:(
I know it is inevitable, but still I'd probably feel down when it comes:o
alessi, nah, just follow from now on, this thread is a full time job to catch up:cool:

emsbet

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Hi all,

Not sure if anyone remembers me, I joined earlier this year and was fortunate to not be here long.

A little bit of background.

We were told about 4 years ago that it would be almost impossible for us to have children, we were trying for over 2 years before joining here and managed to get pregnant with twins soon after.

Unfortunately 2 weeks ago (19th November) our twins were born sleeping at 31 weeks.

Not quite ready to start trying again as much as I think I want to but will have to let my body recover from the labour first before we can consider it (so will probably just lurk for a while). We were so close to having our family that I am not ready to give up on the dream.

You guys were all so nice and supportive last time I was here and hope you will welcome me back.

Hollyx

I'm so so sorry for your loss Holly.

xx

GemmaE

Hugs DJ, I feel your pain. Felt like that too. We have been TTC since March so about the same as you.

My best friend (who I know was also TTC, this is her month 2) has told me today that she is pg, so so so pleased for her, but it's so bloomin hard isn't it. and then you feel like the worst person in the world for being a bit jealous. Silly thing is I knew she would get pg before me. And I know it shouldn't be this hard as I have DD.

So, I have just bulk bought ov tests, a basal thermometer and a load of books on conceiving! Need to hide from DH. DH will be knackered from doing up the house so will need to be specific about when we BD so think I need to try and retrieve some of our 'night time entertainment items' from storage to treat him.

Welcome Tea

Hugs for the CD1s out there, SBDTA xxx

RebekahR

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Hi all,

Not sure if anyone remembers me, I joined earlier this year and was fortunate to not be here long.

A little bit of background.

We were told about 4 years ago that it would be almost impossible for us to have children, we were trying for over 2 years before joining here and managed to get pregnant with twins soon after.

Unfortunately 2 weeks ago (19th November) our twins were born sleeping at 31 weeks.

Not quite ready to start trying again as much as I think I want to but will have to let my body recover from the labour first before we can consider it (so will probably just lurk for a while). We were so close to having our family that I am not ready to give up on the dream.

You guys were all so nice and supportive last time I was here and hope you will welcome me back.

Hollyx

Soo soo close! :eek:I'm sorry for you loss honey Would you like to enter the AF room to use the facilities foc? You don't need to bring any thing with you. Lots of hugs. Can't imagine how your feeling so i'm not going try xx

QQuaver

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Unfortunately 2 weeks ago (19th November) our twins were born sleeping at 31 weeks.

I remember you, so sorry for your losses (((hugs))):(

We were so close to having our family that I am not ready to give up on the dream.

Don't give up, lets hope we'll all be mummies soon.

RebekahR wrote: »

Sat nights bd was at 3am

:shocked:

A half temp rise today so i'm guessing I have already. Until I just got a pain on one side like thats like sharp ovulation pain ... that said its doing the same on the otherside. That's IBS I guess or i'm about to have twins lol. It's sharp and stabby throbby.

Fingers crossed you caught the eggy:)

RebekahR

QQuaver wrote: »

Rebekah, I love the AF room idea:o I'll be in there definitely in 10 days. No BD = AF:(
I know it is inevitable, but still I'd probably feel down when it comes:o

Awww sweetheart. What do you want to add to the room?

Jim jams! How could we forget ... warm ... snuggly ... on the heater ... waiting for you to put them on ... jum jams!!

GemmaE

hugs, kittenpie. take your time to recover, look after yourself xx

RebekahR

QQuaver wrote: »

:shocked: Fingers crossed you caught the eggy:)

Would you have done more? How would you have labelled the 3am bd lol. Had to wait 30mins for so til we thought the people staying was asleep lol. :rotfl: