Trying for a Baby Part 7

tinkwings

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2WW

enough said

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QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 3rd Oct - twigglet35
Mon 10th Oct - Secretdebts
Tue 11th Oct - Triangle
Fri 14th Oct - RebekahR
Fri 14th Oct - LittleMissGiggle
Mon 17th Oct - Sa-ra-ra-ra
Wed 19th Oct - Flee
Wed 19th Oct - Tinkwings
Wed 19th Oct - MrsRobertson
Thu 20th Oct - Lily_the_legend
Wed 26th Oct - Nicki

October graduates- Winners of Sept BFP predictions (8) BB1984, RebekahR, QQuaver, sexymouse, twigglet35

jovichick123 (30) TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 03/10/11:j
Plans_all_plans TTC since 08/11 BFP 04/10/11:j
Kaemi (26) TTC#1 since 05/11 BFP 07/10/11:j
BB1984 (27) TTC#1 since 01/11　BFP 11/10/11:j

October BFP predictions

Lazarou-true - 6
QQuaver - 7
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7
b_girl - 7
Sexymouse - 8
MrsHappy - 8
Whattoonow - 8
Triangle - 8
Secretdebts - 9
Rebekah - 9
Flee - 9
Countrybum - 9 (incl self)
BB1984 - 10
MrsRobertson - 10
Tinkwings - 10
robyn297 - 11
Kaemi - 12
2ba3c - 13

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD41 Jen151* - 26DPO :cool:
CD50 Secretdebts - 24DPO :cool:
CD29 twigglet35 - ?DPO :cool:
CD32 Triangle - 16DPO :cool:
CD24 mrsrobertson - 12DPO :cool:
CD24 LittleMissGiggle - 12DPO :cool:
CD24 Whattodonow - 11DPO :cool:
CD23 robyn297 - 11DPO :cool:
CD25 RebekahR - 11DPO :cool:
CD28 Moneysaver12 - 9DPO :cool:
CD21 colli - 8DPO :cool:
CD24 tinkwings - 8DPO :cool:
CD26 Flee - 8DPO :cool:
CD22 Lily_The_Legend - 7DPO :cool:
CD20 mrshappy - 6DPO :cool:
CD28 claire16c - 6DPO :cool:
CD27 scarly* - 3DPO? :cool:
CD13 nicki - 1DPO? :cool:
CD10 TTC40 - High CBFM :cool:
CD13 2ba3c - High CBFM :cool:

CD87 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD84 MrsRogers - Awaiting ov
CD81 Praline - Awaiting ov
CD77 ilovecusions - Awaiting ov:o
CD56 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov
CD56 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov
CD50 robyn297 - Awaiting ov
CD43 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD35 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD35 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov
CD34 fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD30 esio trot - Awaiting ov
CD28 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD27 Europa - Awaiting ov
CD26 The Next Verse - Awaiting ov
CD23 b_girl - Awaiting ov
CD22 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD21 GemmaE - Awaiting ov
CD21 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov
CD19 i luv freebies - Awaiting ov
CD19 Dovetail - Awaiting ov
CD19 MrsBryan - Awaiting ov
CD18 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD18 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov
CD14 Elelyn - Awaiting ov
CD14 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD13 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD12 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov
CD11 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov
CD8 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD8 sexymouse - Awaiting ov
CD7 Tryingforathird - Awaiting ov
CD7 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD5 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov
CD4 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD4 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD4 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD3 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD3 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD2 Jules68 - Awaiting ov
CD1 pot8o - Awaiting ov

QQuaver

Good morning:wave:
Haven't caught up yet but so far:

emsbet, good luck getting the letter signing you off from the doctor. Otherwise take colli with you:p
Flee, hope your flu is better today:o (Unless it was an early pg symptom:p).
Pot8o, hugs for AF

So CBFM missed a peak:(
Hope CBFM will catch it this cycle:o Keep an eye out for the second line (pee end). The latest it'll ask for the sticks is CD9.
mrshappy, congrats on your job:T
Great timing for a baby:cool:
Rebekah, your temps are still looking good. Relax, step away from Google and let the bean have a chance:p
squ1rrel, I don't have dryness but why not use a baby friendly lube next time? (((hugs))).

Nicki

Hi sararara

I felt exactly the same as you after my first miscarriage. This time round though I am far easier to take on board that it could have been an issue with either me or DH or a combination of us both, and that we really are in things together. I don't know whether this is because we now know that he has higher than normal morphology which can be a factor, or because we now have a child with a disability which is likely to have been caused by a genetic malformation (not an inherited one) which could have come from either one of us (chromosomal and genetic problems with the baby are also a possible cause). And of course I am older now, so it could be my elderly eggs not his doddery sperm.

The point being that there isn't any way of knowing what caused the loss, so no way to ascertain fault, even if blame lies at all in these circumstances which short of deliberately trying to damage your baby, I don't believe it ever does.

The only way I can keep positive about trying again is by believing that this was just dreadful luck for us both, and there is no reason to suppose it will happen again.

As for where your body is, have you been using OPKs and do you know when your HPT turned negative again after the loss. I tested negative 2 days after my bleeding stopped and had a positive OPK 10 days later. My AF was 15 days after the positive OPK.

TTC40

i_love_holidays wrote: »

ttc40 - can you not just say you cant afford it? or that you are saving up for something?

meant to say on my last post
hugs for CD1's and anyone else thats need them

No - it's a holiday we have been talking about for a while and they know we can afford it. They also know (like you) 'I love holidays'.

What they don't know is that we have had an about turn on whether to have a baby.

I don't want to tell them as the statistics are not in our favour and I can do without pressure of people knowing and sympathy if it doesn't happen.

I'm realistic not pessimistic!

TTC40

And I've been meaning to say since I joined this thread, how amazing is Q for keeping the sticky going? Not to mention the knowledge she shares ( although that also applies to many others too).

What a great place for us all to hang out!

RebekahR

Here marks a big temperature drop as predicted. No spotting since 1st thing yesterday morning.

twigglet35

Morning all,

I'm now 8 days late to my normal cycle

But still no pg ss or AF ss so I'm in limbo

and i have been in a bad mood for the last fue days, i was on one (as my OH calls it) last night, told them all if they didn't buck up they could all move out and leave me alone :rotfl:. i can laugh now but i was very series last night.

I hate not knowing whats going on .

Sorry to have a rant.

Big hugs to all that need them xxx

RebekahR

Amen!! I slept alrighty last night LOL!

lisa26 wrote: »

I'm here lurking at this stooooopid hour! i'm on nightshift though so I have an excuse! Nearly hometime!

Just wanted to say that I think Emsbet is an amazing person. you've been through so much recently yet here you are offering advice and support to others. Sorry to hear your work are being unsupportive but hopefully a docs note will put a stop to that.