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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • (((hugs))) to eleyn and nicki, keep up the pma guys. You having a period party? X
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    (((hugs))) to eleyn and nicki, keep up the pma guys. You having a period party? X

    I had mine yesterday when I got my BFN on day I was expecting AF. And wore my beautiful new superclingy dress last night as promised, with the desired effect :D At least I may be able to wear it for a few more weeks, as I don't imagine it will fit again and still be in fashion if I do get my BFP and go to term...

    OH is firing up the barbecue, I have steak and chicken marinating, and I am going to have a nice glass of wine with lunch. And then back on the straight and narrow for attempt 2 post miscarriage.
  • Nicki wrote: »
    I had mine yesterday when I got my BFN on day I was expecting AF. And wore my beautiful new superclingy dress last night as promised, with the desired effect :D At least I may be able to wear it for a few more weeks, as I don't imagine it will fit again and still be in fashion if I do get my BFP and go to term...

    OH is firing up the barbecue, I have steak and chicken marinating, and I am going to have a nice glass of wine with lunch. And then back on the straight and narrow for attempt 2 post miscarriage.
    Bet you looked amazing in your dress. Glad you had a good time. Bbq sounds like a great idea. You've got to make the most of this weather! Off to the inlaws for a chinese later. Have a fab day everyone! sbdta X
  • maire1
    maire1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    I'm tentatively putting myself at 5 dpo and crossing my fingers with all my might!

    My mc experience was made worse by having to wait ages in a waiting room, cramping, bleeding, crying etc in full view of about 20 happy heavily pg ladies. Why there isn't an epu waiting room I don't understand.

    On the plus side the hospital, a and e and epu were great. Apart from the phone call I got a week after mc from midwife congratulating me on my news and offering me a booking in apt. Poor woman was mortified when I told her I'd miscarried but why hadn't she been informed?
  • 2ba3c
    2ba3c Posts: 1,138 Forumite
    CD1 here too!

    Exactly as predicted. I swear that's the only thing I can bl00dy well time!

    Oh well, off to get rat arsed tonight and spend some time with my lovely wife and friends :D
    Baby 2b born March 2013! :j:j:j
  • 2ba3c wrote: »
    CD1 here too!

    Exactly as predicted. I swear that's the only thing I can bl00dy well time!

    Oh well, off to get rat arsed tonight and spend some time with my lovely wife and friends :D

    Massive (((hugs))) 2ba3c. Hope you have a lovely night! X
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    2ba3c wrote: »
    CD1 here too!

    Exactly as predicted. I swear that's the only thing I can bl00dy well time!

    Oh well, off to get rat arsed tonight and spend some time with my lovely wife and friends :D

    Huge hugs - enjoy the celebrations tonight and fingers crossed for next cycle x
  • moneysaver12
    moneysaver12 Posts: 2,088 Forumite
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    Hi everyone, sorry not been around, i have been busy, i started back at uni this week.

    I am on day 16 of my cycle and ff is saying that i haven't ovulated yet, i have discharge, but not egg white, yesterday and day before it was watery and today, its sticky. I have been getting pains, would someone be able to look at my chart please and tell me what you think, can you ovulate with out getting the egg white My Ovulation Chart
    Married 09/09/09
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Hugs to those on CD1. Having a crafty beer to cool down.
    Tested for OV and still negative. No cm discharge yet either. Hope my body is not out of sync after last month.

    On the plus side I am watching OH failing at Fifa 12, which arrived this morning.
    Halifax CC £1029/£2490, Tesco CC [STRIKE]£0/£3203[/STRIKE], Tesco loan £15431/£15808, Carloan1 £6743/£8241, Carloan2[STRIKE] £0/£3813[/STRIKE]

    Pay all your debt off by Xmas 18 =22% £6661/£29865
  • RebekahR
    RebekahR Posts: 5,987 Forumite
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    Hi All - Had a very emotioanl 24 hours! Spent more time on the edge of tears than not! Been trying to go for the SMEP this month and failing big time at the doing it every day bit! Last night was cd 12 and the start of every day for us. Bed time came and he didnt want too as was too tierd. As I can sometimes ov on cd 13 I was most keen to get a topping up on last night and today.Looking back on it now it seems stupid but I got really upset and angry. He went to keep and I laid there for hours just mulling things over and working myself up. Looking back at the previous months when we have only done it once or twice and not been sucessful and feeling annoyed at not getting more in. And at that rate I would never get pregnant. Fast forward to morning and he suggested we have sex before going to town. So I was most keen and said yes. I went upstairs and I waited ... and I waited ... and waited. He had been on his laptop so thought he was finishing something off. 30 mins past and I said arn't you coming then? And he said coming for what. That just made me blow my top. Not only does he suggest sex but he forgets?! to come up for sex?! When does a man forget!! I was so angry he got naked and got on the bed and I just got dressed and stormed off downstairs. So I was feeling really emotional and trying not to cry too much. First he doesn't want it and then he "forgets" - Really made me feel great thanks!To cut a long story short we eventually had some this afternoon but he was barely in the door before he came again. I felt most of it run out. Whatta waste after all that hastle to get it in the 1st place. Sigh. This game is too emotional for me i'm taking next month off. The pressure I put on us and the timing etc is immense and just not worth it.
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