Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

Sa-ra-ra-ra wrote: »

I'm assuming my cycle is going to be a bit up the spout for a while, but am going to keep an eye out for EWCM and start counting my dpo after that I think - probably the best option.

Welcome back:wave: How was the holiday? Any pics?:)

mrsrobertson wrote: »

Boobs seem fine and the men in my office still look pretty bad!!! :rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Flee wrote: »

It seems to be a bit of a problem for OH that happens every once in a while.
I have tried different things when it has happened i.e. oral and things that I know turn him on, but once it is floppy that is it.

Don't worry, it happens to people very often. Nothing to do with you.
I'd just let it go. Once it's floppy, that's it for DH.
Though on occasions when he has to produce (for fertility testing/procedure), he has managed to produce something, after 2 hrs:shocked:

There's C*i*a*l*i*s, v*i*a*g*r*a etc for that.

jennynoo wrote: »

Also I just noticed that Candlewax is still on the BFP list but she reported on the 12weeks thread that she lost the baby a while ago.

Everything still going well for me, just had my booking appointment.

You are right, I've amended the list, but left it on the first page.
Good luck at the booking appt:)

lazarou_true wrote: »

Somebody needs to slap me, I went out and bought a couple of Boots tests today, couldn't wait so have just done one - BFN (obviously, it's the pm and probably too early). I've been SSing like crazy too (sorry). Will have to try and hold off from testing again till Sunday now, what a waste. I'm also wishing I bought first response instead of boots own brand but they were double the price. Oh well, time will tell.

Good luck on Sunday:o

Plans_all_plans wrote: »

Is the fact that it showed positive 7 hours after taking the test to do with the fact that I read the result for a second time after 15 mins, or could I actually be pregnant?

You should test again tomorrow morning using FMU (first morning urine). I've had extremely convincing evaporation lines, so I wouldn't get too excited yet:o

Nicki wrote: »

No sign of AF yet. So it was perhaps a bit presumptuous to start the period party early, and hit the shops with little man this morning

Great choices:cool: Are you planning on wearing the dress to something special?:)

Nicki

QQuaver wrote: »

Great choices:cool: Are you planning on wearing the dress to something special?:)

I am going out tonight with OH to the theatre in the west end, and am contemplating wearing it tonight if AF stays away. It is quite hot on, and no harm in some practise BDing before the next cycle start . I know it is quite dressy but if I don't go overboard on the accessories I think I might be able to get away with it without looking like I think it is a command performance and I might be presented to her maj!

RebekahR

Wowser have you won the lottery Nicki LOL. I just remembered something funny I was going to tell you all.

Last night I was in the bathroom as you do. And I was just wiping after a wee when hubby walked in. I had jelly like cm which was mainly like clear egg white with some white in. So just turning from creamy to eggwhite I guess lol. And he saw it on the paper as I was taking a peek. And his eyes popped out his head! He was like what the hell is that LOL. I burst out laughing and said that dear is the fertile mucus that carrys your spermies. He still didn't look amused lolol.

phunkles

Just thought id pop back and mention something Ive just thought of. Obviously the month we got preg we werent actively ttc we sort of were ntnp (nearly 2 years of ttc and nothing so seemed little point in being careful!!!) so we werent doing opks for the first time in ages. And I had in my head i had oved on the weds - online calculators placed it at the the Friday - actual scan dated baby as being concieved on the Tuesday. So my ewcm and my ov pain where a day out from my actual conception? As in I oved before the key signs appeared :S Just thought it might help someone maybe dunno really.

RebekahR

mrsrobertson wrote: »

I think there's some definate EWCM going on, does that sound about right for CD11?

Potentially if your on for an early ovulation What did it look like?

QQuaver

Nicki wrote: »

I am going out tonight with OH to the theatre in the west end,

Lovely:happyhear I love dressing up for theatres, been to Lion King last week:)

mrsrobertson wrote: »

I think there's some definate EWCM going on, does that sound about right for CD11?

Sounds perfect!:j

RebekahR

phunkles wrote: »

Just thought id pop back and mention something Ive just thought of. Obviously the month we got preg we werent actively ttc we sort of were ntnp (nearly 2 years of ttc and nothing so seemed little point in being careful!!!) so we werent doing opks for the first time in ages. And I had in my head i had oved on the weds - online calculators placed it at the the Friday - actual scan dated baby as being concieved on the Tuesday. So my ewcm and my ov pain where a day out from my actual conception? As in I oved before the key signs appeared :S Just thought it might help someone maybe dunno really.

This is good to know! Thank you. x

euronorris

*de-lurks*

Lovely dress and jacket Nicki!

Plans - test again with FMU. But you may want to wait an extra day just to be sure.

*waves* hello at everyone! Sending SBDTA!

*re-lurks*

euronorris

Flee wrote: »

OH does not know when I OV so it is not that, that is not the problem. It seems to be a bit of a problem for OH that happens every once in a while.
I have tried different things when it has happened i.e. oral and things that I know turn him on, but once it is floppy that is it. Sometimes it hurts as well as he is floppy and it hurts me inside, so that makes him paranoid.
Oh well, OV is due any day.

I find this happens with OH when he is very stressed out at work, or worried about a meeting the next day, or worried about his brother and so on and so on.

He'll tell me he's fine, he isn't worried about anything, and then that happens and it becomes clear that something is bothering him.

Also, (TMI ALERT) if he enters quite deeply, he has told me that there is less friction then. Like the area kind of opens up I guess, and so he is no longer getting enough stimulation and can sometimes lose 'it' then. Is it possible that this is happening with you guys?

QQuaver

RebekahR wrote: »

He still didn't look amused lolol.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

phunkles wrote: »

actual scan dated baby as being concieved on the Tuesday. So my ewcm and my ov pain where a day out from my actual conception? As in I oved before the key signs appeared :S Just thought it might help someone maybe dunno really.

Hi there, how are you?:wave:

When I was pg (mc), it was dated 3 days later than I thought I ov'd. Also when I had scans, and I seem to ov a day or two later than I thought.
So you are right, one needs to BD before & after possible ov date:cool:

euronorris wrote: »

Also, (TMI ALERT) if he enters quite deeply, he has told me that there is less friction then. Like the area kind of opens up I guess, and so he is no longer getting enough stimulation and can sometimes lose 'it' then. Is it possible that this is happening with you guys?

Don't know, he hasn't explained the reason for it. You could be right.