Trying for a Baby Part 7

2ba3c

QQuaver wrote: »

Good morning, another summery day:wave:

Seems I'm oving soon, I have great ewcm without even drinking grapefruit juice. Pity I can't BD yet again, but good to know I'm oving:o

MrsHappy, 6 feet at 14:shocked:
You are lucky to have such a responsible son:)
2ba3c, for you, IUI would be a great option. NHS won't offer that until further down the line, but it'll time your donor perfectly:o
You did get pg once before, so so long as you can time the donor perfectly, you should be able to get pg again:)
Flee, same thing has happened on numerous occasions with my DH.
It's not because he doesn't find you sexy, it seems to be because of ov.

I'm not eligable for it, because of DS.

morocha

BB1984 wrote: »

I have an enhanced maternity pay package, and in my contract it states that I would have to go back to work for at least 3 months, otherwise I'd have to pay back all the enhanced pay (above SMP).



I once ov'd on CD6, and had a 12 day LP, making the whole cycle 18 days. It does happen! As long as you have between about 10 and 16 days LP, you're good.



ahhhhh! That is sooo cute! :T




Well I have had SUCH a stressful day at work today, but luckily I think I managed to sort a major issue just before I left :j
Yesterday and today have had some mild AF-type pains, hope it's not a bad thing!

Need to do some research re strenuous exercise, as I have a trainer session tomorrow and it's always very hard core! Keen not to relax it though, as I want to lose weight and I really enjoy it. A quick google shows me that basically everyone disagrees with each other, so I think I'll just carry on as normal! Also, since when does walking on a treadmill constitute "moderate exercise"?! :rotfl:

BB x

Are you losing weight and at the same time trying for a baby ? i had to go to the gym today, i need to lose 1 stone to be back to my old self, but i feel like i have to choose between having a baby or losing weight right now. i decided not to go, and instead go for a long walk to the beach... i go mad when im at the gym.:D

QQuaver

Nicki wrote: »

BFN for me this morning too. Now just waiting for AF to arrive later in the day

(((Hugs))), hope it won't:o

Tryingforathird wrote: »

I wish my cycles were regularly the same length and like clockwork

Me too, I think mine is going in the way of late 30s this cycle:(

I think Ill def do Ov tests daily next month and see what that shows - were meant to be "just seeing if it happens" so I darent start temping and all that in front of OH for fear it will freak him out!

TTC can get obsessive:o

Feel deflated today - that evap line from Sunday's got my hopes up despite saying it hadnt and I was trying to stay level headed - Ahh well onwards on upwards - frustrating that I know Ill have to wait ages for AF I think before starting all over again!

Harrruuummppphhh!


Any tips for bring AF on faster Ladies??!

(((Hugs))). BDing brings mine faster too:p

2ba3c wrote: »

I'm not eligable for it, because of DS.

I wonder how much a monitored cycle without IUI will cost?
If you could get an ultrasound few days before possible ov (say a week before), it can pretty accurately predict ov.

morocha wrote: »

Are you losing weight and at the same time trying for a baby ? i had to go to the gym today, i need to lose 1 stone to be back to my old self, but i feel like i have to choose between having a baby or losing weight right now. i decided not to go, and instead go for a long walk to the beach... i go mad when im at the gym.:D

I love long walks, you are lucky to have a beach near you:happyhear

mrsrobertson wrote: »

Looking out for ov signs, nothing so far

What are your ov symptoms?:)

morocha

i live here http://www.cemaes-bay.co.uk/attractions/beaches.htm, it is lovely, the beach is quite small tho x

2ba3c

I had a temp dip, AF is due tomorrow if the last 5 months are anything to go on (I've always had my period start exactly 14 days after the first cbfm peak)

colli

Flee wrote: »

Morning.
TMI moment: Feeling a bit fed up this morning. Was BDing with OH this morning and it went a bit wrong. OH went floppy and that was the end of that. It has happened a few times and he does not know why (or won't tell me why) when I try to get him to talk about it. He said it could have been because he may have needed to pee. Feel like he doesn't find me sexy, and when I ask him he says that he does and he does not know why it happens. Not the best thing to happen around ovulation. And I am not pressurizing him either about BDing, so that is not the reason.

try not to take it personally, I know you aren't pressurizing him but maybe he's putting the pressure on himself? Even if you don't tell him when you ov men pick up more than we think they do :cool: Is there anything else worrying him like work? I know if I'm stressed about anything I'm much less likely to be in the mood but it's less obvious with us girls iyswim . Though if someone knows how to just "relax" when TTC please let me know!:)

RebekahR

Flee wrote: »

Morning.
TMI moment: Feeling a bit fed up this morning. Was BDing with OH this morning and it went a bit wrong. OH went floppy and that was the end of that. It has happened a few times and he does not know why (or won't tell me why) when I try to get him to talk about it. He said it could have been because he may have needed to pee. Feel like he doesn't find me sexy, and when I ask him he says that he does and he does not know why it happens. Not the best thing to happen around ovulation. And I am not pressurizing him either about BDing, so that is not the reason. The worst bit is that sex with OH is not as good as with my ex but I cannot say that to OH. OH is so much better than ex-OH. And I never had this problem with ex-OH. I am not comparing, I am just unsure why it is happening.

Anyone had this happen to them?
Sorry I sound a complete biatch about it, but it is worrying me.

We had the opposite problem back in June. Where hubby would have done the deed before he was even in the door! And it happened a few times. Was like oh wow is that it lol. And I think he began to worry - I deffo did. But he said he had needed a wee before hand. So the next time I made him wee even if he didn't want one and then he was ok. I guess it may have been that the more you worry the worse it will get. If it happens after ovulation try other things like oral and sensate focus to take his mind off intercourse just incase it is linked to that unconsciously.

RebekahR

Egg white last night and today. Time for more rumpy pumpy ...

RebekahR

mrsrobertson wrote: »

Morning all :wave:

Nothing exciting to report here - on CD11. BD'd last night, won't manage tonight as OH is working but hopefully BD Sat & Sun too.

Looking out for ov signs, nothing so far

SBDTA xx

Good to see you will be in bed all weekend like us at it :rotfl:Cd 12 today so its every day from here in until the 2nd day of temp rise. Not trusting 1 day's rise with this weather ... :eek:

RebekahR

mrsrobertson wrote: »

I don't know yet :rotfl: Just looking out for EWCM, cramps etc in the next couple of days

Have you had any cm at all from down there?