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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • 2ba3c
    2ba3c Posts: 1,138 Forumite
    Nicki - Good Luck for testing (I'd totally test now!)

    I'm in London. If you don't mind me asking, which clinic did you use and would you recommend them? I have heard good things about all of them apart from the LWC and I would be keen on the Lister.
    Baby 2b born March 2013! :j:j:j
  • Nicki
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    2ba3c wrote: »

    would you recommend them? .

    No, but only because they only did IUIs on weekdays and I surged on Saturday afternoon so the timing of my last one was off. Otherwise they were very nice and professional.

    I think they are much of a muchness. If I were doing it again, I'd look for one which is open at weekends too (some are) and choose the most convenient one with a decent published success rate.

    The FS I saw was based in Harley Street and didn't do his own IUIs but sent me off to a clinic near Regents Park. He did all the preparatory investigations and scans though. He personally is lovely and a very good doctor but he works closely with a nurse practitioner who is frankly an evil cow, and for that reason alone I would hesitate to recommend him, even though he did help us conceive my first child. The NP though telephoned me an hour before I was due to have the IUI and proceeded to have a screaming argument with me (completely initiated by her) which meant I was late for the appointment and arrived stressed and tearful. I'll never know if that contributed to it not working but I to this day begrudge a single penny of the money I paid for it going towards her salary. When I complained to the doctor afterwards, his response was he was aware she could be "brusque" but she was clinically excellent. I would say not so much brusque as mentally unhinged myself!
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Morning.
    TMI moment: Feeling a bit fed up this morning. Was BDing with OH this morning and it went a bit wrong. OH went floppy and that was the end of that. It has happened a few times and he does not know why (or won't tell me why) when I try to get him to talk about it. He said it could have been because he may have needed to pee. Feel like he doesn't find me sexy, and when I ask him he says that he does and he does not know why it happens. Not the best thing to happen around ovulation. And I am not pressurizing him either about BDing, so that is not the reason. The worst bit is that sex with OH is not as good as with my ex but I cannot say that to OH. OH is so much better than ex-OH. And I never had this problem with ex-OH. I am not comparing, I am just unsure why it is happening.

    Anyone had this happen to them?
    Sorry I sound a complete biatch about it, but it is worrying me.
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  • Morning Ladies,
    Did a test this morning 10 miu but negative so I figure I cant have ovulated when the test said I did - which for a digital is a bit concerning!? That said CD9 was ov day but now Im on CD28 - 19 day luteal phase - I think unlikely!! And even if it was delayed a few days Im sure a test would should positive now so Im waiting ! I may continue the Ov test after i get the smiley next month to see whats happening!

    Flee - sorry to hear that but I would try not to read too much into it - maybe he was tired or bit stressed about something he has to do at work today or something - I am sure its something and nothing - try not to worry! xx
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166
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    BFN for me this morning too. Now just waiting for AF to arrive later in the day :(
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444
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    edited 30 September 2011 at 2:01PM
    Testing list

    Fri 23rd Sep - i luv freebies
    Sun 25th Sep - jovichick123

    Thu 29th Sep - trixietoes
    Sat 1st Oct - nicki
    Sun 2nd Oct - Lazalou_true
    Mon 3rd Oct - twigglet35
    Wed 5th Oct - Squ1rrel5
    Fri 14th Oct - Flee

    September graduates - Winner of Aug BFP predictions (7) Gopppers, RebekahR & sexymouse


    Amymo (27) TTC#1 since 08/11 BFP 01/09/11:j
    jennynoo (31) TTC#2 since 06/11 BFP 02/09/11:j
    Klump (26) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 06/09/11:j
    Skintchick (36) TTC #2 since 06/11, MCs 10/08 and 03/11 BFP 07/09/11:j
    LegalBlonde (27) TTC#1 since 08/11 BFP 15/09/11:j
    2 trying to become 3 (30) TTC#1 since 03/10 BFP 16/09/11:j
    Pistachio TTC#1 since 06/11 BFP 20/09/11:j
    norabatty (31) TTC#1 since 01/11 (1mc 04/11) BFP 22/09/11:j



    September BFP predictions

    2ba3c - 7
    klump - 7
    glimmerofhope - 7

    [/s]
    BB1984 - 8
    RebekahR - 8
    QQuaver - 8
    sexymouse - 8
    twigglet35 - 8

    2 trying to become 3 - 9
    mrshappy - 9
    trixietoes - 9
    lemonmelon - 9
    LegalBlonde - 10
    Kaemi - 11
    LittleMissGiggle - 11
  • QQuaver
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    Team Sticky!

    CD28 Tryingforathird - 20DPO :cool:
    CD34 MrsBryan - 19DPO :cool:
    CD35 jovichick123 - 19DPO :cool:
    CD29 trixietoes - 16DPO :cool:
    CD27 nicki - 14DPO :cool:
    CD30 Elelyn - 13DPO :cool:
    CD26 lazarou_true - 11/12DPO :cool:
    CD37 Secretdebts - 11DPO :cool:
    CD39 2ba3c - 11DPO :cool:
    CD28 morocha - ?DPO :cool:
    CD22 TTC40 - ?DPO :cool:
    CD27 Squ1rrel5 - 9DPO :cool:
    CD29 mrs_dave - 9DPO :cool:
    CD22 divorcingjack - 8DPO :cool:
    CD22 sexymouse - 7DPO? :cool:
    CD22 Bezzyk - 6DPO :cool:
    CD17 Primmer - 5DPO? :cool:
    CD19 Kaemi - 4DPO :cool:
    CD32 Jules68 - 4DPO? :cool:
    CD40 BB1984 - 3DPO :cool:

    CD119 x_charlie_x - Awaiting ov :o
    CD74 Derby2 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD71 MrsRogers - Awaiting ov :o

    CD68 Praline - Awaiting ov :o
    CD64 ilovecusions - Awaiting ov:o
    CD43 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD43 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD37 robyn297 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 pokey128 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Jen151* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD27 Maire1 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 countrybum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD19 Triangle - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 esio trot - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 penguin83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 claire16c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Moneysaver12 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 scarly* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Europa - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 The Next Verse - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Flee - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 RebekahR - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 mrsrobertson - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Whattodonow - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 LittleMissGiggle - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 b_girl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 colli - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 GemmaE - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 mrshappy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 i luv freebies - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Dovetail - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov :o
  • Nicki wrote: »
    BFN for me this morning too. Now just waiting for AF to arrive later in the day :(


    I wish my cycles were regularly the same length and like clockwork - I can have 28 day-ers although rare but normally longer - 37 days! The last one was 37 and I can see this going that way although my b*obs are sore.

    I think Ill def do Ov tests daily next month and see what that shows - were meant to be "just seeing if it happens" so I darent start temping and all that in front of OH for fear it will freak him out!

    I guess I can keep a good eye on EWCM and use that as an indicator too!!

    Feel deflated today - that evap line from Sunday's got my hopes up despite saying it hadnt and I was trying to stay level headed - Ahh well onwards on upwards - frustrating that I know Ill have to wait ages for AF I think before starting all over again!

    Harrruuummppphhh!


    Any tips for bring AF on faster Ladies??!
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite


    Any tips for bring AF on faster Ladies??!

    BDing gets mine to happen quicker.
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    Pay all your debt off by Xmas 18 =22% £6661/£29865
  • QQuaver
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    Good morning, another summery day:wave:

    Seems I'm oving soon, I have great ewcm without even drinking grapefruit juice. Pity I can't BD yet again, but good to know I'm oving:o

    MrsHappy, 6 feet at 14:shocked:
    You are lucky to have such a responsible son:)
    2ba3c, for you, IUI would be a great option. NHS won't offer that until further down the line, but it'll time your donor perfectly:o
    You did get pg once before, so so long as you can time the donor perfectly, you should be able to get pg again:)
    Flee, same thing has happened on numerous occasions with my DH.
    It's not because he doesn't find you sexy, it seems to be because of ov.
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