Trying for a Baby Part 7

bigzippy

Have you gone through the finances to see if he has cause to worry? Do you want to TTC again so soon because you're worried if you leave it longer you'll miss your window (with OH's age/compliance)? Are you broody cos you can see your newborn isn't as newborn any more, or because you want another baby/child/teenager in your life? (I might sound blunt, but I hope you know how I mean it )

Nicki

I dont know if this helps BigZ but found this site which has WW points for all the F and B options. I assume the lower the points, the lower the calories/fat, so whilst you might not be able to calculate exactly what you'd eaten, at least you could choose the best option of what you fancy?

http://ukladyluck.co.uk/frankie-and-bennys/

bigzippy

Thanks Nicki, I'll check it out!

Secretdebts

bigzippy wrote: »

Secretdebts I feared as much, but are you on the waiting list now, at least? You're not a loony! Well, at least, if you are, I am!

:wall: who knows? I got referred & emailed them two days ago & heard nothing yet?

bigzippy

Secretdebts wrote: »

:wall: who knows? I got referred & emailed them two days ago & heard nothing yet?

Sounds annoyingly familiar :cool::( Tbh, you might be as well to look into specific charity type set ups, as NHS have monster waiting lists and tend to only offer a 6 session block to begin with and then decide whether they think they'll give you more sessions. It turned me right off.:cool: I think I sent you some links a few months ago?

Secretdebts

I emailed the one you were talking about (& several other charity type ones) & they sent me the info for the local (charity) place who I'm waiting for - if they reply. I'm not convinced though! I've not been near the NHS yet. I refuse to go to my doctor cause he's a scary old man lol. If we get to a year without conceiving I'll have to change doctor lol.

mrshappy

:jIt's Friday:j

I've had a stinker of a week at work, AF and an essay for uni, so will be chilling out tonight after I've been to Tesco!

Primmer-glad SA was good, hope you're feeling okay, the whole "who's fault?" way of thinking is horrible to go through, remember that sometimes it just takes longer than average to concieve.
I know how awful I feel when mrhappy talks about it being his fault and that he can't give me what I/we want. I feel really guilty for putting him through the tests and he must feel even worse-it really is a horrible slippery slope to tears and tantrums. Take care of yourself and I'm sure he didn't mean to be so tactless x

moneypuddle-what a lovely way to tell your DH

Stupid AF caught me out today-it has only been lasting a couple of days since I had the implant removed and I was down to spotting yesterday so just wore a liner today and got caught up with stuff at work out the office, I was sitting in someones house when I had that horrible gushy feeling when you know there is loads, yuk, had to wait til I was back in the office to get myself sorted, (my clients aren't generally ones where using their bathroom would be a pleasant experience) it was disgusting!:o

Oh yeah, I'm also a wee bit annoyed, I ordered 30 IC's and today a parcel with 25 ov sticks and 5 pregnancy tests came instead of my IC "security blanket" I hate not having a huge stash of them

hope everyone is good xx

Primmer

MrsHappy and BZ - thanks I feel better now I think it's was just way DH tactlessly put it although I am sure he didnt mean it. I am pleased that his result is ok and I will wait and see what doctor suggests next I think she mentioned possibility of a scan to have a look at ovaries and tubes etc. It is a real rollercoaster of emotions and gp did say that once you start down tests and possible treatment route it is even more upsetting and stressful, but it will all be worth it if I get our baby at the end of it.

abis21

Crikey - this thread moves really fast!

I had a little excited moment when I saw my name on the list for those people testing next - eeekk! Starting to get excited which is a bad idea, cos then no doubt I will be more upset when AF comes. I keep getting all giddy thinking in a few days I will know one way or another - and then I think about it more realistically and think, oh, what happens if it is the other My poor head - am surprised it doesn't hurt with all these silly thoughts buzzing around in it!

Had an absolutely fabulous massage today - feeling very relaxed and lovely now. Car is dropped off at the specialists now, so theres no more we can do but wait for the bill - just hope they are kind to us, lol!!

What a lovely way to tell your OH moneypuddles I loved reading other peoples ideas too. I test in a morning when my DH is in the other room, so I think I would just be squealing if it was a + result :rotfl:

Derby - that sounds so hard to deal with! Hope you are doing ok.

tea_lover

It's so cold!!! Am always cold at the best of times so am really feeling it today. Am reminding myself there are people far worse off than me - I'm inside my warm-ish house, with enough hot water for a bath later and 3 (!!) pairs of socks on - but it's not helping me feel any warmer yet.

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend, and here's to some more bfps over the next few days. Am off now to check the testing list to see where we're up to. Am absolutely convinced it's not our month, but then I tell myself I need to stay positive, then I tell myself not to get my hopes up... then I realise I'm massively over-thinking and need to focus on something else, like biscuits.