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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Afternoon all,

    QQ my prediction for September is 8 please. Hope you're well?

    2ww going slowly - bit worried that delayed OV will scupper our chances this cycle, as I'm not sure if bean will have enough time to implant? I've got a 27/8 day cycle, so only 5/6 days left to go, and only on 5/6 DPO. Maybe this cycle will be longer too due to the EPO. Will just have to be patient and wait and see.

    Welcome too all of the newcomers - sorry I've not kept track of names, as there seem to be quite a few of you who have joined in the last few days, but I look forward to getting to know you all.

    Hugs to all who have been visited by AF, and for those going through tough times.

    sexymouse xx
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Hi everyone :wave:

    Some of you may remember me - I was part of this thread up until about September/October of last year when I took a break to plan my wedding and to take a step back from TTC - we haven't actively tried since end of last year but haven't prevented either.

    I got married last Saturday and so I am now back :j

    I am Primmer, I am 37 and I have been trying on and off since October 2009 for baby number 1.

    Will have to familiarise myself with whats happening but I have kept an eye on the thread even if I wasn't posting!
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Congratulations on your wedding Primmer, and fingers crossed that you get your BFP soon.
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • colli
    colli Posts: 669 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    If you are talking about arousal fluid, the same thing, if you put it in the water, cm will sink to the bottom, while arousal fluid will dissolve in water.

    Goodness me! Is there nothing you don't know :rotfl:

    Try not to stress about your periods LMG, I didn't have a clue what was going on when I came off cerazette. I seemed to have bits of random bleeding all over the shop. It will settle down soon enough (took about 3 months for me).

    Congrats on the wedding Primmer, hope your BFP isn't far behind :D
  • colli
    colli Posts: 669 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    You have no idea what it's like not to BD when I have +OPK & Peak CBFM:(

    It must be so hard for you :(. Things are generally ok for us around that time but it does sometimes feel that the whole month is wasted if we miss ov for whatever reason :o. Feels like you are out before you've even had a chance. One day though, everything is just going to fall in to place and the timing will be perfect :)
  • QQuaver
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    sexymouse wrote: »
    Maybe this cycle will be longer too due to the EPO. Will just have to be patient and wait and see.
    It may be, fingers crossed your cycle will last 9 months:D
    Primmer wrote: »
    Hi everyone :wave:

    Some of you may remember me - I was part of this thread up until about September/October of last year when I took a break to plan my wedding and to take a step back from TTC - we haven't actively tried since end of last year but haven't prevented either.

    I got married last Saturday and so I am now back :j
    Of course I remember you, I'm still here as always:o
    Congratulations!!!:T:T:T
    How's married life? Have you been to your honeymoon yet?:love:
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    colli wrote: »
    One day though, everything is just going to fall in to place and the timing will be perfect :)
    One day:happyhear
  • LegalBlonde
    LegalBlonde Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    RebekahR wrote: »
    Same here. I was brought up christian and am only going back to it now. Hubby isn't a christian but I am. So caused big issues and I left the church when we moved in together. As they asked me to leave ...
    We were both virgins on our wedding night. Him because he had never met anyone as I was his first girlfriend!:eek::DAnd me partly due to my belief and a massive amound due to the fact I was sexually abused by my father so had massive hang ups about it and wanted to make sure that he was the right one. Didn't want him to have rumpy - find it rubbish and leave ... or something ...
    TBH best thing and worst thing we ever did. The first year of marriage was hell as I suffered from Vaginismus and had to get over that . And of course he had waited for 8 years bless him!So I felt just aweful when it was nothing but pain for me. And the fantastic side was we were learning together. Neither of us had an advantage over the other or knew any better. If one was a virgin and not the other think the one who was would have massive hangups :eek:

    Thank you for sharing Rebekah, I (obviously) had no idea. You seem so settled and grounded you have done so well for yourself after all that.

    Roll on BFP for you both :)

    PS I did my OV test which was positive, so finally OVing.....OH always goes out on a Thursday so I will have to stay awake :rotfl:I have visions of telling his friends when I have baby safely in arms how much my heart would sink when I OVed on a Thursday as they go out every Thursday together without fail!
    Debt Free Wannabe by 1 January 2016 :o


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  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Awww... sweet:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    But lucky you to have such a great performing DH:o
    You have no idea what it's like not to BD when I have +OPK & Peak CBFM:(
    I know I'm lucky. :A He does have his blips, but usually if he's fed, rested and had ...inspiration ;) he'll succomb ;):D:o
    Sorry you're having to tough it out though. It must be very very frustrating.
    so think will say im 2DPO to be sure but i think thats means my LP will be 21 days and not 14 this month??!! which isnt right so im gonna be OPKS starting tomorrow morning to see if actually my CBFM was wrong or not
    Your LP should always stay pretty much static, so your cycle should be shorter this time if you really did ov then.
    sexymouse wrote: »
    2ww going slowly - bit worried that delayed OV will scupper our chances this cycle, as I'm not sure if bean will have enough time to implant? I've got a 27/8 day cycle, so only 5/6 days left to go, and only on 5/6 DPO. Maybe this cycle will be longer too due to the EPO. Will just have to be patient and wait and see.
    See above ;)
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • LegalBlonde
    LegalBlonde Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    bigzippy wrote: »
    Consider it done. I thought it was a bit... dodgy? of a comment, but didn't bring it up cos I know you're not malicious or anything (and I tend to just leave things be) from your other posts :) Thanks for explaining. :)

    Thank you :) Just shows that if you are a generally nice person, people don't jump and turn on you when you speak without thinking :rotfl:

    Anyway!!
    Debt Free Wannabe by 1 January 2016 :o


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