Trying for a Baby Part 7

trixietoes

LittleMissGiggle wrote: »

Am I allowed to SS yeh with only 4 sleeps till AF??

Noooooo SSing is naughty :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: I secretly do it all the time... but am scared of QQ's wagging finger :rotfl::rotfl:

However, the thing is I had all these imaginary symptoms about a week ago and now nowt, nada, nothing. Of course now I am convincing myself that I am the one of the ones that has no symptoms at all ever and I will get a BFP anyway.. total opposite to last week ... I am going slightly insane I think :D

RebekahR

skintchick wrote: »

I think that's amazing. I wish I'd been a virgin on my wedding day. But I'm a born again so I'd already done the deed before I became a Christian.

Same here. I was brought up christian and am only going back to it now. Hubby isn't a christian but I am. So caused big issues and I left the church when we moved in together. As they asked me to leave ...
We were both virgins on our wedding night. Him because he had never met anyone as I was his first girlfriend!:eek::DAnd me partly due to my belief and a massive amound due to the fact I was sexually abused by my father so had massive hang ups about it and wanted to make sure that he was the right one. Didn't want him to have rumpy - find it rubbish and leave ... or something ...
TBH best thing and worst thing we ever did. The first year of marriage was hell as I suffered from Vaginismus and had to get over that . And of course he had waited for 8 years bless him!So I felt just aweful when it was nothing but pain for me. And the fantastic side was we were learning together. Neither of us had an advantage over the other or knew any better. If one was a virgin and not the other think the one who was would have massive hangups :eek:

RebekahR

I'm a going for 8 this month. Including all the conceptionmoons! LOL

LittleMissGiggle

I'm so confused, I *THINK* AF may be here... thats a 24 day cycle?! is a 24 day cycle too short to ov and implant before AF?

RebekahR

Well I wasn't offended so that side was ok :rotfl: I may have thought it was a smidgen sharp but tbh it takes a lot to offend me. I'm so open about everything ,.. remember I have been in trouble on this thread before more than once:rotfl:

Yes I am married for 2 years now. Geeps that went quick!I wasn't with my ex long enough to get any where near lossing a virginity. We hadn't even been out on a date:eek:We were long distance so called each other and wrote letters lots for about hmmmm 4 months. Then I met someone else ... If I hadn't have met someone else then I think he would have been the one for me tbh. I feel so comfortable with him even to this day ... well til I next see him with this girl ... that would be the end of that. Lots of lovey dovey comments to each other on facebook today. Urgh. I just keep thinking what could have been but I shouldn't!! Maybe more so because he is a christian and my husband isn't. Any way enough bout that its not rumpy pumpy related so not for this thread. :rotfl:

LegalBlonde wrote: »

I am sorry SkintChick I want to nip this in the bud straight away. I am really sorry it offended you, it was a flippant comment in one of the many mid afternoon chats about nothing that I tend to have.

I was brought up a Catholic and did in fact think on afterwards as to whether it had offended anyone.

I am sure Rebekah will not mind me saying, she is not a virgin and she has met the partner she wants to spend the rest of her life and make babies with. Like many others, she was a bit affected by her ex's new fiancee and came on to seek reassurance that this was perfectly normal (which it is)

Knowing more about Rebekah (and everyone'e elses) sex lives and habits thanks to the subject of this thread than you would normally about people on a forum, I think I can say with confidence that they did not share the same sexual views and were therefore not sexually compatible with one another. Which is needed to make babies!

If others can cheer her up by saying well at least the fiancee is not this or that, I think it would cheer her up to remind her of the incompatibilities.

I don't know if Rebekah is married now or not, but she is obviously compatible with her partner and ready to make a new life together.

I know you would have to be psychic to get it from my one line post, but I genuinely meant because she personally is not compatible with him. If she was posting as a virgin and telling me about her playboy ex, I can put my hand on heart and say I would have said the same.

I don't want to open a debate and I haven't read on to see if anyone else commented on this.

This is a friendly thread and I am truly sorry for my flippant comment.

Will come back and post more as usual when caught up with the thread.

Rebekah I am sorry to speak "for" you so much I am really NOT I am just trying to explain my viewpoint at the time of posting (which as I said I accept you would have to be psychic to know, sorry)

bigzippy

Secretdebts wrote: »

This morning I finally got a line on an opk - it wasn't as strong as the test line so I know that means I'm not peaking or anything but what does it mean?

Means you've got enough LH in your system for the test to pick it up. You could peak soon, or it could be a slow rise

Note to self: do not come on this thread and go straight to sleep - I dreamt that I had a strong positive on the opk and was mad at myself for not bding when I got home as qq had said fmu would get the days before reading. In the dream I was shouting at the husband who was trying to leave for work shouting "QQ SAYS WE HAVE TO DO IT NOOOW!!!!"

:rotfl:

colli wrote: »

depends which one of us is doing the talking and whether or not the cafe serves wine :D:D

:rotfl:

Secretdebts wrote: »

Hmm... Disappears off to eBay to buy rubber sheets and blindfold for hubby .... Does this mean we have to bd while I've still got AF?? :eek::eek::eek:That's not good it might scare hubby off for life!:o

Calm down dear.:) It might be a slow rise. I'd be surprised if you ovulated while you were still heavily bleeding...maybe more like spotting though

RebekahR

trixietoes wrote: »

However, the thing is I had all these imaginary symptoms about a week ago and now nowt, nada, nothing. Of course now I am convincing myself that I am the one of the ones that has no symptoms at all ever and I will get a BFP anyway.. total opposite to last week ... I am going slightly insane I think :D

Hahahaha I did that last month! When the symptoms went ... i'm still pregnant as most people don't get any symptoms :rotfl:

RebekahR

LittleMissGiggle wrote: »

I'm so confused, I *THINK* AF may be here... thats a 24 day cycle?! is a 24 day cycle too short to ov and implant before AF?

Forgive me for being dumb ... Are you recently off contraception? I had a 24 day cycle after I came off the pill about hmmm 4 months later. I would say too short unless it was 7-10 days post ovulation.

bigzippy

2ba3c wrote: »

So can you get CM this far in advance, or is it not fertile and a different kind?

I had 10days of fertile CM, so yes. But, that's considered quite a long time, apparently.

2ba3c wrote: »

Yes! It stretched SUPER far! I got a low reading on the CBFM this morning though.

-TMIalert- IF I did the dead last night and went straight to sleep, and then checked first thing, could this affect the results?

Yes, it could be the results of DTD, as they look similar. I vaguely recall QQ saying one sinks and one floats in water, but I can't remember which way round it is lol

LegalBlonde wrote: »

Hope we can just put the above behind us, sorry again to anyone I offended.

Consider it done. I thought it was a bit... dodgy? of a comment, but didn't bring it up cos I know you're not malicious or anything (and I tend to just leave things be) from your other posts Thanks for explaining.

LittleMissGiggle

RebekahR wrote: »

Forgive me for being dumb ... Are you recently off contraception? I had a 24 day cycle after I came off the pill about hmmm 4 months later. I would say too short unless it was 7-10 days post ovulation.

Hi rebekah - not dumb at all. Yes I stopped taking cerazette in July, had light AF start on 15th July then normal AF on 8th August.... so thats 2 cycles at 24 days...