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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    Today I must admit I am feeling a bit frustrated. Still a big fat zero on the OPKs, although I missed last night which may have been the prime time. I tested this morning, but got nothing, and then again nothing tonight. I got a normal result on the CD21 test before, so I know I am ovulating, so maybe they are just not sensitive enough. I am always pretty well hydrated, so perhaps the test is too diluted.

    Anyone got any advice? I am using boots OPKs.

    But, BD'ing anyway! Finger crossed it's the OPKs that are wrong and not me.

    How long are you holding your wee for? Are you making sure not to drink during that time?
    I've put a link in in white as I'm not sure how to link it with just one word & I didn't want the full title up. Please only visit this forum if you are not easily upset

    :o:o I haven't posted on this type of forum yet. It's taken me a good 4-5 months (well years really) just to look (thanks to some encouragement) and even to annonymously admit that I need to look.:o:o

    I just want to say how brave I think this post is. It's amazing that when you go through this you feel so very alone and like the only person who has ever gone through it. It's not until you start looking around for help/understanding that you realise how dreadfully common it is.

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    fannyanna wrote: »
    Zippy – sorry you’re really struggling with your nerves at the moment (it really does sound awful). I remember taking my Husbands SA to the hospital for drop off. His also travelled in my cleavage lol.
    It may've been you that inspired me ;)
    :o:o I haven't posted on this type of forum yet. It's taken me a good 4-5 months (well years really) just to look (thanks to some encouragement) and even to annonymously admit that I need to look.:o:o
    Well done SD :T I know how hard this is/has been for you 01e36ee156c741f1d445102ad5ce0d812309d89a.jpg

    Welcome to Little Miss Sunshine :wave: Did the doc only want you to go back 6months from now, or 6 months from starting TTC?
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • AbFab
    AbFab Posts: 205 Forumite
    claire16c wrote: »
    I went there on Saturday was lovely and sunny so a great day for it. I went on the big slide there was quite fun! My niece and SIL came with us, shes only 2 but loved the slide. The man asked my SIL how old she was, and so she said 3 as we were worried they might not let a 2 year old on. Then as we walked past she said 'Im not 3 mummy, Im 2!' :)
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Bless 'em, they can drop you in it, hey! :rotfl:
    The Helter Skelter looked ace and retro, but we just had a couple of rides on the Carousel, DS is only 14 months, and at £3 a pop, it is not cheap! :money: Going to start saving NOW for next year, when he will probably be all That ride, again, more!
    :starmod:I'm a SAHM to a smiley snuggly adventurous cheeky bundle of b:male:y b.Oct10. :j
    We're a vegan family. We do cloth nappies/wipes, dabble with ECing, use toiletries without parabens/SLS etc, co-sleep, baby-wear, BF, BLW, eco-ball laundry, and we plan to home educate (ideally not at home too much - we want to travel the globe).:starmod:
  • AbFab
    AbFab Posts: 205 Forumite
    fannyanna wrote: »
    [*]Soy isoflavones - natures clomid - anyone know the recommended dosage?
    Ooh. Is soya milk and stuff good enough, or are isoflavones something different and special? I have a lot of soya, being vegan. <hopeful>
    :starmod:I'm a SAHM to a smiley snuggly adventurous cheeky bundle of b:male:y b.Oct10. :j
    We're a vegan family. We do cloth nappies/wipes, dabble with ECing, use toiletries without parabens/SLS etc, co-sleep, baby-wear, BF, BLW, eco-ball laundry, and we plan to home educate (ideally not at home too much - we want to travel the globe).:starmod:
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    How long are you holding your wee for? Are you making sure not to drink during that time?

    What do you mean not drink? I am not drinking while testing :eek: but do you mean drinking too much water before? Or alcohol... I have been having the odd glass of wine... could that be it?
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    What do you mean not drink? I am not drinking while testing :eek: but do you mean drinking too much water before? Or alcohol... I have been having the odd glass of wine... could that be it?

    For the two to three hours that you hold your wee prior to using the OPKs you should try not to drink anything (alcoholic or otherwise) so to allow a good concentration of LH in your urine.

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    For the two to three hours that you hold your wee prior to using the OPKs you should try not to drink anything (alcoholic or otherwise) so to allow a good concentration of LH in your urine.

    xx

    Ahha... you mean read the instructions! Crazy talk!!

    Ok, I'll try that. I did test this morning (which they say is unreliable) and I had a fair bit to drink before testing this evening.

    I feel like I may have missed the test this month, so QQ can you put me at a tentative 1BDO as I am too late now not to have ov'd. Plus I've had a few other symptoms. I'll change it if something shows up on the test!
  • AbFab
    AbFab Posts: 205 Forumite
    tinkwings wrote: »
    Wow. Awesome info, thanks! :T:T:T
    :starmod:I'm a SAHM to a smiley snuggly adventurous cheeky bundle of b:male:y b.Oct10. :j
    We're a vegan family. We do cloth nappies/wipes, dabble with ECing, use toiletries without parabens/SLS etc, co-sleep, baby-wear, BF, BLW, eco-ball laundry, and we plan to home educate (ideally not at home too much - we want to travel the globe).:starmod:
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    Ahha... you mean read the instructions! Crazy talk!!

    I know it's a really out there idea ;)

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    I know it's a really out there idea ;)

    xx

    Maybe the problem is I am actually a guy. ;)
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