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DreamerHelen's New Diary - "Ad Astra per Aspera"

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  • DreamerHelen
    DreamerHelen Posts: 2,629 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    Thank You Guys that means so much to me....

    No news yet....but I think it would be a miracle if they came back this early with a Verdict....

    I just have to wait....and let's face it I could be waiting until Monday if they take their time to get a Majority Verdict....but hopefully it will be today...

    I'm not sure what I will do if they come back with a "Not Guilty" Verdict....but I'll just have to face that when I come to it....IF I come to it....so we'll see....

    I just have to hope for the best....
  • crimson.addict
    crimson.addict Posts: 1,198 Forumite
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    DreamerHelen wrote: »
    I'm sat here catching up on my TV for the Week....still hoping to Work tonight but we'll see how I'm feeling....I can cope with the snotty nose and the sore throat but I can't have a sneezing fit when I'm trying to talk sexy on the Phone with some Guy!! LoL :rotfl: "Oh yes sir, I'd like to do this and this" SNEEZE "and this" SNEEZE "oh and I sound soooo sexy don't I?" SNEEZE!!! :D

    I wouldn't put it past some blokes to be into that HAHAHA!
    DreamerHelen wrote: »
    I'm not sure what I will do if they come back with a "Not Guilty" Verdict....but I'll just have to face that when I come to it....IF I come to it....so we'll see....

    I just have to hope for the best....

    You'll come on here and you'll tell us and we will do our best to make you feel better :) simple x
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    I love LC2 and Jakes-Mum :rotfl:
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  • DreamerHelen
    DreamerHelen Posts: 2,629 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    LoL Crimson Addict....well there ARE a lot of weird Guys out there...so it's possible....I've already come across a couple that have a farting fetish...LoL.... :D

    I know you Guys will try to help....and I know you are all here for me....I'm just frightened that he will come back to finish me off....he knows where I live and I'm really scared that he will come back....although the Police said that in all the Years they have been doing this they have never known that to happen...But if he comes after me with a Gun or something I'm going to be dead and that's not going to do me much good!!

    But I know I know, I'm just panicking for no reason....I just have to wait for the Call and hope for the best....and if it's NOT the best then I'll deal with it....with the Support of my Family and Friends and you Guys....

    I'm going to try and get some sleep this Afternoon as I'd like to Work tonight if I can....So if I don't respond straight away then you all know where I am....xxx
  • The_Dragon
    The_Dragon Posts: 9,749 Forumite
    Have a good sleep and I hope it helps get rid of the cold.
    Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for thou art crunchy and good with catsup :D
    NSD 15/20, OS WL 21-6 (4) :(C.R.A.P R.O.L.L.Z #44 Twisted Firestarter, VSP #57 - £39.43
    :p Every Penny's a Prisoner :p
  • DreamerHelen
    DreamerHelen Posts: 2,629 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    The_Dragon wrote: »
    Have a good sleep and I hope it helps get rid of the cold.

    Thanks hun....Just about to turn off my Computer....and see if I can get some sleep.....I'll Chat to you all later xxx
  • DreamerHelen
    DreamerHelen Posts: 2,629 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    So, I got the Verdict.

    He got found "not guilty" of the Rape and "guilty" of the Robbery of my Netbook....which basically means that he will be out of Prison in about a month or so....

    I'm sat here in tears....absolutely gutted....I can't believe it....

    The Police were shocked and couldn't believe it either as they thought I had a really strong case....

    I feel like now no one is going to believe me....like well he was found "not guilty" so that means he isn't guilty...and Helen was making it all up....

    Well I DIDN'T make it all up....I told the truth....and that's all I could have done....

    But I don't know what to do now....

    My Flat feels like a prison now....I feel like I'm not going to be able to go out in case he comes back to finish the Job...and I know the Police say that's unlikely but what if they're wrong?!?!?!?!

    I'm absolutely terrified now....feel horrendously sick....sat here crying my eyes out....and just generally feeling rubbish....and that's a mild word to use!!

    Someone please help me feel better about this cause right now I don't know where to go....or what to feel....
  • The_Dragon
    The_Dragon Posts: 9,749 Forumite
    Oh !!!! it! I am so very, very sorry hun :(
    Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for thou art crunchy and good with catsup :D
    NSD 15/20, OS WL 21-6 (4) :(C.R.A.P R.O.L.L.Z #44 Twisted Firestarter, VSP #57 - £39.43
    :p Every Penny's a Prisoner :p
  • DreamerHelen
    DreamerHelen Posts: 2,629 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    The_Dragon wrote: »
    Oh !!!! it! I am so very, very sorry hun :(

    Thank you....I still can't believe it....

    I'm going over to my Mum's for a few hours....I don't want to be alone....and I know he's still in Prison for now at least so I guess I'm safe until 7th June....

    Can't seem to stop crying....

    But I guess now it's over....and I can move on....I know what happened and what he did to me and that's the main thing....

    But still completely gutted here....it's going to be a rough few days....
  • niknok_2
    niknok_2 Posts: 228 Forumite
    Oh hun thats awful {{{hugs}}} go and see your mum and she might make you feel even the slightest bit better. x
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  • crimson.addict
    crimson.addict Posts: 1,198 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    We believe you hun. Your family believes you. Anyone that doesn't you don't need in your life!
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    I love LC2 and Jakes-Mum :rotfl:
    Star's from Sue :staradmin x28
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