Pregnant as a result of rape

candie_gill

Would just like to say sorry to the OP for everything they have been through, i have been following this thread and although a miscarriage was out of your control it also means you dont have to end a life- i'm not saying you where wrong to do so as i would of done the same however i have had an abortion and its not a choice thats the easiest to live with. Hope your feeling ok and best of wishes

Whattodo??_2

Violetta wrote: »

I do agree with make me wise & Wonder if once you had decided you didn't want to continue with the pregnancy your body ended the pregnancy for you, the body does strange stuff sometimes.

I wanted to come back and thank you 1,000 times over for this. It is truly the most comforting thing I've had said to me since the miscarriage.

Thank you.

I have taken the rest of the month off work. I explained the situation to my boss on Monday morning and she told me I didn't have to come back until I was ready.

My boyfriend has been amazing. He's barely left my side. My Mum hasn't been so great, telling me what a relief it is. It certainly doesn't feel like one, but I do understand why she feels that way:o

I think this will be my last update But I hope nobody minds if I come back if I need a place to vent again:o

Thank you to each and every one of you who took the time to post here or PM me. It helped so much. MSE is a wonderful place.

^ hormones all over the place as you can see:D

xx

squibbs25

Hi op, im so sorry for everything youve been through.
I have been following your thread but felt i had nothing positive to add that others hadnt already said.
Your mum, probably thinks it a relief that her 'baby' (you) doesnt have to endure the pain and possible trauma of a termination as you miscarried naturally (i don't meant to offend)
It must be heartbreaking for her to know that someone has hurt you and there is nothing she can do to take away your pain, other than to be there for you.

I'm glad your taking the rest you finally need.

All the best x

NickyBat

Hugs to you op, hopefully this "chapter" in your life can be put behind you (as you had started to do), the body is an amazing thing and has certainly worked in a strange but hopefully positive way for you.

Your life will never be the same as it once was, but you may now go forward in a different way but hopefully better way for you and your new partner.

I wish you the best of luck, i really do.
x

Violetta_2

Whattodo?? wrote: »

I wanted to come back and thank you 1,000 times over for this. It is truly the most comforting thing I've had said to me since the miscarriage.

Thank you.

I have taken the rest of the month off work. I explained the situation to my boss on Monday morning and she told me I didn't have to come back until I was ready.

My boyfriend has been amazing. He's barely left my side. My Mum hasn't been so great, telling me what a relief it is. It certainly doesn't feel like one, but I do understand why she feels that way:o

I think this will be my last update But I hope nobody minds if I come back if I need a place to vent again:o

Thank you to each and every one of you who took the time to post here or PM me. It helped so much. MSE is a wonderful place.

^ hormones all over the place as you can see:D

xx

Oh darling you are so welcome, glad it helped. Look after yourself xx

PixieRae

Just want too send you huge hugs n love xxxx

squibbs25

I apologise to anyone who was offended by my previous post, it should have read ( i dont mean to offend) not ( i do mean to offend)
i have ammended my post.
Sorry.

jaibaby

OP, I am so sorry

I wouldn't have any clue what to do, I feel the same.

But (and I haven't read every comment, so apologise if this has been said before), I think that a father has to earn the right to be called one. If your current boyfriend sticks by you and brings up the child as his own, then I think he is more a father than the sperm donor.

I really hope things work out. Big hugs xxxxx

Elle7

jaibaby wrote: »

OP, I am so sorry

I wouldn't have any clue what to do, I feel the same.

But (and I haven't read every comment, so apologise if this has been said before), I think that a father has to earn the right to be called one. If your current boyfriend sticks by you and brings up the child as his own, then I think he is more a father than the sperm donor.

I really hope things work out. Big hugs xxxxx

You might want to read the rest of the thread

NickyBat

jaibaby wrote: »

OP, I am so sorry

I wouldn't have any clue what to do, I feel the same.

But (and I haven't read every comment, so apologise if this has been said before), I think that a father has to earn the right to be called one. If your current boyfriend sticks by you and brings up the child as his own, then I think he is more a father than the sperm donor.

I really hope things work out. Big hugs xxxxx

Think you need to read the OP's updates and change your post!