Benbenandme's Next Installment ...

benbenandme

I do think he's struggling with not seeing ds, I do think he's a bully and is used to bullying me to get his own way, and I do think he's used to not hearing "no" ...well, about time he got used to it

Buffythedebtslayer

Too bloody right. he really needs to accept responsibility for his actions (as movie of the week as that sounds it is the truth)

xx

Ellidee

Sorry benben didn't want to read and run - am :mad: at your ex on your behalf. Don't let him spoil your Christmas - selfish !!!!!! :mad:

pinkladyof66

I cannot believe the bear faced cheek of your ex - so say missing ds - what about when ex was working and g/f was having ds - did he miss him then - NO

Your ex has got some bl00dy cheek and I cannot believe he thinks you will fall for it - he is where he is for a reason - if your ds is not asking to see his dad then there is no reason why it should even be brought up - it is all about was ds wants not what his bl00dy father (if you can call him that) wants.

You almost want to say to ex - made your bed lie in it (were you worried about ds when you committed fraud and brought ds and you into it).

I would be seething with anger especially as it is right on xmas !!!!

benbenandme

It has really upset me tbh, I can't afford solicitors but don't really have a choice anymore ... lets see what ds appointment brings this afternoon

pinkladyof66

benbenandme wrote: »

Woohoo, just got ds a new winter coat for next winter (via the grabbit board), reduced from £26 to £3 :beer: BARGAIN!!!

what grabbit was that ben ben was it boots ?

vasseur

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

sorry Benben, I just think he is such a manipulative git. I can't help thinking he has a motive.

I am inclined to agree with buffy.

Try not to let it spoil your xmas. Hopefully your meeting with the solicitor will reassure you and also if he knows you have taken legal action he will stop throwing his toys out of the pram.

Selfish git :mad:

nanto3girls

Hope all this doesn't spoil Christmas for you and ds.

benbenandme

and so things change for the better .... back from camhs, ds spoke to her about it and told her he doesn't want to go and visit anyway so she's told him to tell him that when he calls tonight and ...

CUTIE TEXT ME :j :j :j Asked if I'm free to go for a drink on friday ... Um ... YES YES YES !!!

Ellidee

Whoop :T :j !