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  • and so things change for the better .... back from camhs, ds spoke to her about it and told her he doesn't want to go and visit anyway so she's told him to tell him that when he calls tonight :D and ...

    CUTIE TEXT ME :j :j :j Asked if I'm free to go for a drink on friday :D ... Um ... YES YES YES !!! :D:D

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    CUTIE TEXT ME :j :j :j Asked if I'm free to go for a drink on friday :D ... Um ... YES YES YES !!! :D:D

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    Good result..............
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    My fabulous friend is having ds for a sleepover on friday night, one crate of Smirnoff Ice heading her way :D:D

    Off to WW in a bit, judging by my scales I reckon I've put on about 3lbs :o:o but its xmas and hey, cutie wants to go for a drink with me so what do I care anyway?? :rotfl:
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  • BenBen

    just wanted to say can't believe the ex has put you in this situation again just before Christmas - does he think that your life still revolves around him?
    Hope DS is ok and appointment helped

    Have a great time on Friday

    Stressed xx
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  • So glad the day finished better than it started :)

    DTxx
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  • benbenandme
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    He's just hphoned ds ... ds told him he doesn't want to visit and he interrogated him about why he's saying that, saying that if he wants to go then he can, not to listen to me, mummy is brainwashing him etc ... Really can't believe the nerve of him ... ds kept saying "but I dont want to come and visit you" and he kept telling ds that he didn't really mean it and that I had told him to say it ... ds was insistent that I hadn't and that he just didn't want to go but he didn't want to hear a word of it :mad: :mad: :mad:
    Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1587
  • So how did the call end ben ben did ex get the message



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