Stormybay's Thread a bit of comfort in a hard world

mandymoo

Morning everyone,

Molly, I hope all went as well as it could yesterday,we are all thinking of you and yours. And are here for you.

Stormy,I hope you can get your pc sorted, maybe think what John would do and do it. Hope all the family are well.

anniestar,I hope you are well as we have not heard from you for a few days.

AnW`sMum,,twink,jbastista and everyone else I hope you are all ok.

love and hugs
mandymoo xxx

twink

morning mandymoo and everyone, molly, we are all thinking of you and hugs to anniestar too

AnW'sMum

morning everyone

Wet and horrible here today hope you are all well and have a good day.

xxx

nursemolly

hello,
boy what a day yesterday. it was a beautiful service. so personal to him. his eldest son got up and did a reading. it was just straight from his heart, about how he made the best roast dinners, and how he took the mickey out of him and his friends when they were all pogoing to blink 52...
i don`t think i have ever cried so much. my favourite poem `footprints` was read out by the vicar. now the boys knew that was my favourite poem and i am wondering if they asked for it because of that...but i can`t ask them. it feels to awkward.
they were so brave, but it wasn`t until we saw his name on the list of services just outside the crem that they began to get really upset.
i lost it when i got home yesterday evening. i just can`t believe we shall never see him again. he was so gorgeous and i love him so much. he had the most gorgoeous eyes and his smile...........
his youngest son is coming to stay with us at the weekend...he gets on so well with my children i hope he can use it like a second home, some where to come when things don`t go too well.
i feel a strange felling of completeness when his boys are with me..its like he is still with me.
does the pain go away......i feel like i am hurting so much inside that i just want to curl up in a corner.
god bless
thanks to you all
love
molly
xx

AnW'sMum

molly

Glad you managed to get through it yesterday, it can't have been easy.

It's great that his DS is coming to stay, just shows ohw much of a family unit you had all become before and is a credt to you both now

The pain will lessen with time but there will be days when it knocks you sideways for no particular reason. You have shown such strength already, that and the kids will get you all through this. And don't forget we are here as well.

HUGS

xxx

jbatista

mollytrundle wrote:

hello,
boy what a day yesterday. it was a beautiful service. so personal to him. his eldest son got up and did a reading. it was just straight from his heart, about how he made the best roast dinners, and how he took the mickey out of him and his friends when they were all pogoing to blink 52...
i don`t think i have ever cried so much. my favourite poem `footprints` was read out by the vicar. now the boys knew that was my favourite poem and i am wondering if they asked for it because of that...but i can`t ask them. it feels to awkward.
they were so brave, but it wasn`t until we saw his name on the list of services just outside the crem that they began to get really upset.
i lost it when i got home yesterday evening. i just can`t believe we shall never see him again. he was so gorgeous and i love him so much. he had the most gorgoeous eyes and his smile...........
his youngest son is coming to stay with us at the weekend...he gets on so well with my children i hope he can use it like a second home, some where to come when things don`t go too well.
i feel a strange felling of completeness when his boys are with me..its like he is still with me.
does the pain go away......i feel like i am hurting so much inside that i just want to curl up in a corner.
god bless
thanks to you all
love
molly
xx

Molly my lovely, my heart goes out to you, you must feel so proud to have been part of each others lives, I do hope that you can find strenght, support and solace on here and please wen you need a helping hand just shout out and we are here, although I came close to losing my DH it didnt happen, I found this thread by accident when DH was ill at Christams and I was all alone-its only in the last week or so I plucked up the courage to write on here but its such a great help and comfort to all who are here.
I am thinking of you as I do of Stormy,twink,AnW'sMum,mandymoo and all others who write on here.
(((((((((((((((Take care and Hugs and Kisses to you all))))))))))))))))))))))

twink

hugs molly, trust me the pain will go and you will have treasured memories to keep forever, the family sound so caring too i am glad you are going to stay part of their lives, we are all here for you xx

mandymoo

Molly, you and the family were so brave yesterday and well done.
It is such early days, so please don`t expect to much of yourself as stormy has said take "baby steps" and do what feels right for you not what you think people are expecting of you, we are all different and cope in different ways. Me personally I feel that the pain lessons but the hurt is still the same, There are many stages that you will go through, but please remember we are all here for you and each other.

Thinking of you molly

love and hugs
mandymoo xxx

mandymoo

Anniestar, I am sorry things are not so good at the moment for you (looked in at os) as I was worried and I hope you are back with us soon.
You have given us all a lot of support and kind words.
lots of love and best wishes
mandymoo xxx

Elliebell

I'm just seen this thread and felt i had to say something, but not sure how to put it in words to everyone on this threadd, Stormbay, molly etc.

I think what everyone has basically said the just of what i wanted to say.

As for the PC, i know how that feels too, there are plently of people about that would be able to have a look and it and should be able to get everything off your hard drive for you.

I hope that everyone is doing well and my heart goes out to you all. It just put everything in to perspective when you read threads like this.

Hugs to you all x x x x x x x x