Stormybay's Thread a bit of comfort in a hard world

AnW'sMum

Morning everyone

Just feel like crying today, everything seems so unfair. Went out with the guys from work last night, my boss is moving branch so it was his leaving do. Had a good time but felt really sad driving home knowing Ian would not be here.

Anyway I shall keep busy today got loads I need to do.

Friday is my first day back, just doing 11am to 2pm to start with.

Hope you all have a good day.

HUGS

xxx

twink

mandymoo, i thought i was really good getting up at 6am hope you get on okay at drs
AnWsmum hope you feel better now, some days are like that, hugs to you, mostly when i am shopping it doesnt bother me then it does, seeing all the couples

hugs to stormy and everyone xx

jbatista

AnW'sMum wrote:

Morning everyone

Just feel like crying today, everything seems so unfair. Went out with the guys from work last night, my boss is moving branch so it was his leaving do. Had a good time but felt really sad driving home knowing Ian would not be here.

Anyway I shall keep busy today got loads I need to do.

Friday is my first day back, just doing 11am to 2pm to start with.

Hope you all have a good day.

HUGS

xxx

I am so sorry that your feeling like this, my thoughts are with you, take care and good luck with work. You will feel better once you are back in the midst of things again.
mandymoo hope you go on ok at the doctors.
twink-i thought i was a goody awake at 7am:D
Stormy glad to hear that you are ok,i was beginning to worry.
I went back to work today, it was hard work!!! Shattered when I got home, off to bed now.
Hugs and kisses to you all
xxxxxxxxxxxxx

miggy

AnW'sMum wrote:

The rector has been round and we have been talking about a memorial service for Ian. He thinks it's a great idea and we hope to get all the kids involved So whilst not a productive morning in the conventional sense I am pleased.

Lovely idea
I hope/believe it will be helpful for you all.

twink

morning all, big hugs to everyone for today xx

nursemolly

mollytrundle wrote:

hiya, i have been reading this thread and it is amazing what other people are going through. it makes me feel not so alone with my own thoughts.
eighteen months ago i met a wonderful man. he is 49 and with 2 young children and had full custody and was bringing them up alone.
everything was going so well, i got on well with his kids and visa versa.
he went into hospital for a minor op but never made it home.
he had a massive stroke shortly after surgery.
to cut a long story short he cant talk or walk, is fed via a tube in his tummy, and no control over his bodily functions. but he is still all there. he is now in a nursing home over 40 miles away but i go and visit him each week, and i am still in touch with his children.
i love him so much and some days i find it so hard to cope with.
but after reading this thread i don`t feel quite so alone today.
so many many thanks
molly
xx

hello, i added my own personal story to this thread a few weeks ago.
but i lost him on monday. he was just tired of living an existance and not being able to be a proper father. in last the few days he became very sad and crying a lot and passed away in his sleep sunday night.
he was such a gorgeous man and an amazing father. i will miss him so much, he brought so much into my life but at least he at peace. he was 49 years old .
god bless
xx

anniestar

Molly I am so sorry for your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with you. ((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))

Mrs(no)money

My thoughts are with you too Molly, i just dont know what to say except i am so very sorry. with love and hugs xx

Dumyat

molly I am so sorry.
what a dreadful thing to have happened. as you said at least it was peaceful which is always a blessing, but you must be devastated.

nursemolly

thankyou. i still doesnt feel real. its feels like i am looking in from the outside. he put up a brave fight for 6 months. he lived for his children, they were his world. always smiling whenever i went to see him. i often took the kids too. we always turned it into a mini party in his room. it looked like a bomb had gone off as we always took some games to play with.. it probably gave him small taste of normality.
he had a wicked sense of humour and his funny lopsided grin (post stroke) will stay with me always.
thankyou
xx