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Just a coincidence?

Please let me start by saying that I'm not normally a worrier, but I've just had a strange experience that has really freaked me out.

In real life, I have an unusual first name, spelt in the way that the French would and a rare, but English surname. I have set up numerous free email accounts using them and have never had any problems with someone getting the name first. The combination of first name and surname I've always thought were pretty unique. My first name is unusual enough that most people in work don't know my surname.

I was in the biggest Sainsbury's this afternoon and heard my name being called over the tannoy to go to the front of the store. This isn't my regular store, nor would I have been there at that time normally. I went to Customer Services, thinking maybe I'd dropped something like a card, identified myself, and was pointed to a lady who had asked for the announcement to be made. I wasn't the right one..... but this other person spells her name in exactly the same way as mine.

It wasn't until I was driving home that thoughts of identity theft started to spring into my mind. For two people with the sames combination of unusual names to be living in the same area seems to be a little bit too much of a coincidence to me. Am I over reacting, or should I start checking my credit rating? What else should I do? Please help, I'm really freaking out about this!
Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
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  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    You're over-reacting. The name thing was a coincidence but you're on a roll with the identity-theft bit. Get a grip!
  • charlie792
    charlie792 Posts: 1,744 Forumite
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    Well for a bit of fun enter your name here http://www.yournotme.com/ tells you how many people in the UK apparently have the same name as you.....
    I really don't know how accurate it is though but there is apparently 13 of me (I have an unusual surname)
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  • LEJC
    LEJC Posts: 9,618 Forumite
    charlie792 wrote: »
    Well for a bit of fun enter your name here http://www.yournotme.com/ tells you how many people in the UK apparently have the same name as you.....
    I really don't know how accurate it is though but there is apparently 13 of me (I have an unusual surname)

    OH MY...theres 29 of me ...but 481 of my husband....this is addictive..who shall I try next!...34 of my MIL.....UMMMM
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  • MrsAtobe
    MrsAtobe Posts: 1,404 Forumite
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    Apparently there are three of me in the UK, shame it doesn't allow middle names! So two of us live in the same area, wonder where the third one is?
    Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

    If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
  • charlie792
    charlie792 Posts: 1,744 Forumite
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    LEJC wrote: »
    OH MY...theres 29 of me ...but 481 of my husband....this is addictive..who shall I try next!...34 of my MIL.....UMMMM

    Haha yeah Ive been trying everyone I know now...
    8 of my sister...
    Apparently my friend doesn't exist though :eek:
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  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Yes, you are over reacting and over thinking, forget about it and move on.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • January20
    January20 Posts: 3,769 Forumite
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    I am unique but there are 2 of my DD lol!
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  • mummyroysof3
    mummyroysof3 Posts: 4,566 Forumite
    there is only 1 of me, not sure if thats a good or bad thing really lol
    Have a Bsc Hons open degree from the Open University 2015 :j:D:eek::T
  • MrsAtobe
    MrsAtobe Posts: 1,404 Forumite
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    Oh lord, I've just put in what my name will be when I marry Mr A, and there's only one of them in the country -I'll be the second! Told you I had an unusual first name;) his surname is really common (sorry, love!).
    Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

    If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
  • libra10
    libra10 Posts: 20,055 Forumite
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    Fantastic site - there are 6 of me, using maiden name, and 12 using married name.
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