Dilemma :)

sweetme

Ziggazee wrote: »

My advice is to leave it. If he was interested he would have picked up that you clearly are. Have you ever thought that maybe he just wants to be friends? My bf had a very good female friend whom he used to meet up with for drinks, etc, but never ever saw her as anything more, despite her practically throwing herself at him.
Have a really good night with the girls this weekend and remember, there are plenty more fish in the sea :-)

After a lot of thinking you could be right. At least I never threw myself at him

MrsE_2

sweetme wrote: »

and bought with him a scented candle, three bottles of wine and six wine glasses (I don't get the wine glass thing lol). Sat for a while, had a coffee and left. He picked up the kitten last week, and I got a card in the post a couple of days later saying thanks for the kitten luv *****. Then followed a text asking me up for a couple of drinks, and to see how the kitten is settling in.

He's shy;) He's scared to make a move;)

Scented candles, pretty romantic, often used to set the scene for some hanky panky;)

Its pretty easy to give a guy the come on, actually its almost harder not too. Invite him around to dinner, cook things he likes, look your best, you know the rest:D

emsywoo123

sweetme wrote: »

After a lot of thinking you could be right. At least I never threw myself at him

Life is too short! Come on, have you arranged another drinky? :rotfl: :rotfl:

emsywoo123

Any update OP?!

sweetme

I forgot all about this . Well, it turned out, he is gay. Still a very good friend though.

victory

sweetme wrote: »

I forgot all about this . Well, it turned out, he is gay. Still a very good friend though.

Gay? So you found someone else?

sweetme

victory wrote: »

Gay? So you found someone else?

Not yet, working on it though

mum2one

Just read through and going by the date, I thought we've got progress, could it be a mse wedding!! but one thing you've a good friend, xx

sweetme

mum2one wrote: »

Just read through and going by the date, I thought we've got progress, could it be a mse wedding!! but one thing you've a good friend, xx

He wasn't/isn't from MSE. Yes I do. And a friend that also gives a male point of view which is good

Candy53

Did you find out from other sources that he's gay, or did he tell you?

It's just that earlier you said you knew he'd had girlfriends in the past?

I was once told, in my young days, by someone he was gay when he knew I was interested in him. He hadn't of course expected me to bump into him while out one night, where I found him with a girl.

Candy