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Dilemma :)

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  • Meepster
    Meepster Posts: 5,955 Forumite
    sweetme - don't leave it till later in the week. Text him NOW.

    (if you don't, you may find your FB wall get's spammed VERY QUICKY) :D
    If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, we have at least to consider the possibility that we have a small aquatic bird of the family anatidae on our hands

  • Sublime_2
    Sublime_2 Posts: 15,741 Forumite
    Any news yet? I'm not nosey. :rotfl:
  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
    Chutzpah Haggler
    Meepster wrote: »
    sweetme - don't leave it till later in the week. Text him NOW.

    (if you don't, you may find your FB wall get's spammed VERY QUICKY) :D

    Lol, he is on back shift all week anyway so won't make much difference waiting till then :)
  • Meepster
    Meepster Posts: 5,955 Forumite
    sweetme wrote: »
    Lol, he is on back shift all week anyway so won't make much difference waiting till then :)

    Yes it will. You need to make your intentions clear! He could get another offer in the meantime...
    If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, we have at least to consider the possibility that we have a small aquatic bird of the family anatidae on our hands

  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
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    Foggster wrote: »
    Nooooooooo.

    You text him and say "thank you for a great night on Friday and I hope we can do it all again very soon"!!!

    Please dont leave it until next weekend, poor lad is probably thinking he messed up on Friday because you havent contacted him to say thank you. He was the one who invited you to his and it would only be polite to make contact and say thank you, whether you were interested or not.

    Life is too short and all that......

    I had mailed Saturday morning to say I had a great time, thanks for having me over etc, I got a reply saying god I'm ill, clearly I drank him under the table lol. And there has been a little communication but not the same as it was before, which is putting me off suggesting doing it again. Argh decisions! lol
  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
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    honeypop wrote: »
    Far far far too long to wait if you are interested, listen to the others on here!

    Text him to thank him for the other night, ask how the kitten is doing. When you get a reply, if it sounds favourable, ask him out.

    Waiting is playing games, you are too old for this (ie I assume you are not a teenager anymore, not that you are too old lol!).

    Felt like a teenager on Friday :D, no I'm not too old but your right I am too old for games.
  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
    Chutzpah Haggler
    Meepster wrote: »
    Yes it will. You need to make your intentions clear! He could get another offer in the meantime...

    :eek: never thought of that!
  • Meepster
    Meepster Posts: 5,955 Forumite
    sweetme wrote: »
    :eek: never thought of that!

    I think of everything I do ya know ;)
    If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, we have at least to consider the possibility that we have a small aquatic bird of the family anatidae on our hands

  • make_me_wise
    make_me_wise Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    Must admit the first thing that came to my mind after reading your first post is that he could be gay. You two have been communicating for a while, met up a couple of times, nothing happened and now he has gone quiet. Not the reactions of a guy who is keen on you. Hope I am wrong :)
  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
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    make_me_wise wrote: »
    Must admit the first thing that came to my mind after reading your first post is that he could be gay. You two have been communicating for a while, met up a couple of times, nothing happened and now he has gone quiet. Not the reactions of a guy who is keen on you. Hope I am wrong :)

    I hope not I just mailed. I know he has had girlfriends in the past, and he gets quite a bit of female attention.

    Just said, I had really enjoyed Friday and wondered if he fancied coming here sometime for a drink. May have just made a mistake but better knowing than not knowing :D
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