Dilemma :)

jackieglasgow

Why do people on here always ask if a man is gay if he hasn't been a bone -jumper. Not a dig at you make me wise, but people tend to say this quite often on here. My husband has gone off sex. "Maybe he's gay?" My husband bought a crew neck jumper "Maybe he's gay?" Maybe he's just not very experienced as has no idea how to make the first move? Ask him out. On a date. Say, would you like to go out on a proper date, out in public? If he says no, then you will know he's not interested in you, that way. He could very well say yes. Good luck

Meepster

sweetme wrote: »

I hope not I just mailed. I know he has had girlfriends in the past, and he gets quite a bit of female attention.

Just said, I had really enjoyed Friday and wondered if he fancied coming here sometime for a drink. May have just made a mistake but better knowing than not knowing

You'll be fine, I'm sure

sweetme

Meepster wrote: »

You'll be fine, I'm sure

Well if I'm not I have a wee girlie night out to look forward to on Saturday anyway

Meepster

sweetme wrote: »

Well if I'm not I have a wee girlie night out to look forward to on Saturday anyway

Whooo hoooo

Dont be doing anything I would...

Bettybigboobs

Has he replied

sweetme

Yeah just saying "of course hun". Pretty vague reply so I'm guessing he doesn't like me the same way, ne'er mind

Jesswithwings

Ah don't lose heart - the best relationships start with a good friend basis. Just make sure you look fabulous and sexy when you do have that drink

tasha-debt

If he is busy and saw your email he prob thought, don't want to ignore you so he replied quickly. Don't read so much into words on an email/text as the context is different depending who reads it.

Of course Hon meant to me that he has already assusmed that you would be meeting up soon as he wants to see you gain.

Ask him to yours for dinner, have a few glasses of wine and just tell him.... I have always fancied you, if he looks horrified just say but now I know you I see us as friends... but if he looks pleased well this could be the start of a beautiful relationship.

xxx

P.S I hate text games, if he texts you, just reply, I don't see the point in waiting for a certain period of time....... (im 29 and have never played games).

Falafely

I know it's hard not to, but trust me that analysing every word is really not a good idea. I used to do that and nine times out of ten I was completely wrong about what I thought it meant :mad:

Ziggazee

My advice is to leave it. If he was interested he would have picked up that you clearly are. Have you ever thought that maybe he just wants to be friends? My bf had a very good female friend whom he used to meet up with for drinks, etc, but never ever saw her as anything more, despite her practically throwing herself at him.
Have a really good night with the girls this weekend and remember, there are plenty more fish in the sea :-)