I am done

scooby088

I think you want a man that treats you mean to keep you keen, and then you can come on here and ask to take him for a ride again!! Maybe you are suited to being single and why is there ever a need to settle down. I would seek help through counselling either with your husband or by yourself, in all honesty i dont think you know what you want.

Darlyd

scooby088 wrote: »

I think you want a man that treats you mean to keep you keen, and then you can come on here and ask to take him for a ride again!! Maybe you are suited to being single and why is there ever a need to settle down. I would seek help through counselling either with your husband or by yourself, in all honesty i dont think you know what you want.

She defo needs some counciling for herself. You will end up a lonely woman if you don't seek some help and find yourself.

cte1111

It takes a while for anti-depressants to work. You say you've been on them for a few weeks, maybe you could put your plans on hold for a while to see if you feel differently once they start to help you.

Feeling the need to 'run away' is a classic symptom of depression. It does sound like thats what you are trying to do, as you can't seem to justify why you don't want to live with your husband any more, other than that you're not happy as things are.

Have you talked to your husband about how you are feeling? If your relationship was good before, then it could be good again in the future. Counselling as a couple or therapy for yourself could be tools to help you both move forward in a positive way, rather than focussing on ways of accessing an escape fund as you are currently doing.

I'm not saying that people should stay with someone who isn't right for them just because they have a child together. However in this case, from what you've told us, it sounds like your relationship is worth a second chance, particularly given your PND.

pearl123

sarah_23 wrote: »

[FONT=&quot]Hi All,[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]I have hurt my husband a few times in the past by cheating on him in the first few months of our marriage[/FONT]

OP - Now you say that you did not physically cheat but spoke to a few men over the phone. Do you understand what the word to cheat is ??
Now either you are mentall ill - in which case go to the doctor or you are a troll - in which case also go see a doctor !

Real or make believe - you have not come accross well with your story.
One way or another book an appointment.

I by the way still believe you are a troll. It's impossible to take you seriously.

HisDoris

sarah_23 wrote: »

I did nto physically do anything I simply spoke to a few guys on the phone and over the internet.

Having talked to with the correct people today I am entitled to half. also all women settle so why can't I?

Do ALL woman treat their husbands the way you have done?

I doubt that VERY much!

You dont deserve anything!

Shashwoo

Either admit to trolling or grow up!!!

jolfc

I am starting to think this is a wind up now, as I am amazed at the ops posts! Ah well at least they got a reaction I suppose.

Padstow

sarah_23 wrote: »

I did nto physically do anything I simply spoke to a few guys on the phone and over the internet.

Having talked to with the correct people today I am entitled to half. also all women settle so why can't I?

You were told wrong then. A marriage of just five years is considered to be a short one by the courts. You both then would take out what you brought to the marriage. In your case £5,000.00. You would only receive a portion of child maintenance dependent on how many days the father has the child.
If your H divorces you for unreasonable behaviour, you will have to pay the divorce costs.

Amanda65

OP - if you are for real, and your husband is the wonderful father that you say he is, why on earth would you need to 'control' half of HIS savings for your daughter when it is very likely that all of it would go to her anyway.

If you genuinely can't live with your husband and want out then I think you should sit down and discuss it with him and work out how you are going to make it work financially, practically and emotionally for all of you.

Oh and when you move you might want to consider not making those of us on here who work pay for your daughter just because you are bored and think the grass will be greener !!!!

Littlemadam83

Totally a guy with a vendetta against his wife and seeking reassurance that she's a cow while only providing one side of the story....

Very, very sad

And I really wish people would think twice before bringing a child into an unhappy miserable relationship.