Boyfriend help

brians_daughter

OP i have been thinking about you! Hope you are OK.

All i can say to you is ask yourself is he worth it?

You say you dont feel you can leave/do anything bacause you have put up with it in the past... but can you put up with it every few years from today onwards? I know i couldnt. I also couldnt live with someone (who seems from yoru posts) to have little reagrd, or even regret for his actions (regardless of past, present or future)

One saying srpings to mind 'the straw that broke the camels back' ie it doesnt have to be a major thing, just one tiny occurance that makes you realise things cant carry on as they are.

I am all for making relationships work, goodness knows we have had very trying times, but if you arent going to be happy at the end of it is there any point?

Hope you can find the strength to either make it work or make the break