abortion cost

Tinsle

Ada_Doom wrote: »

You didn't come across as arsey, just quick to judge another persons decision, and a really hard decision at that. Women do not terminate without alot of soul searching.

Some do.…..

leos-mummy

i know what i said may not hav come across correct as it wasnt gramatically correct

emsywoo123

dmg24 wrote: »

This thread is horrible. Would it not be a good idea for everyone to leave it?

(Get me, being all diplomatic! )

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: You do make me laugh

*max*

leos-mummy wrote: »

not about bein perfect its about expressing my opinion and just because more people on the forum are pro choice than life it doesnt mean im not entitled to speak.

Wherever did you see this thread as inviting opinions??? The OP asked a question, wanting factual answers - NOT opinions, and, I should think, especially not opinions likely to upset her at this difficult time.

I think this thread should be closed now. I sincerely hope the OP stopped reading it a while ago.

brians_daughter

op... hope you are still reading after the utter s**t thats been posted on your thread.

Go see GP - they will ref you. Or call BPAS directly and they will/should be able to tell you if you can self ref on the NHS.

What a terrible position for you to be in, i do hope it all gets resloved for you as soon as possible.

Pls ingore the posters who feel they must force their opimions upon you - its your life, not theirs. I shant post my viewpoint here, as it really doesnt amtter..just wanted to wish you well.

emsywoo123

leos-mummy wrote: »

i may not have been thanked hundreds of times but theres enough that i know deep down some people on here do care about protecting the innocent. thats all i care about

Why did you join? Genuine question......MSE. Money saving. Most people come here as they are in debt/need financial help etc.

emsywoo123

*max* wrote: »

I think this thread should be closed now. I sincerely hope the OP stopped reading it a while ago.

I have PM'd the board guides.....

leos-mummy

leos-mummy wrote: »

the only thing disgusting here is people not considering the unborn child. how a mother can b a disgustin human being is beyond me. a figure of love and care to her children. i realise my opinion may not suit everyone but when on a forum were no1 seems to realise the severity of the situation and the childs life and is more concerned about the cost of an abortion then someone has to speak up. i write all this as i watch my 22m old son play with his toys, babble away to me... wot chance wud he hav had at life if i just deemed him a blob of cells and decided to abort him. we have to protect those who dont hav a voice

nowher did i call the OP disgusting

brians_daughter

emsywoo123 wrote: »

I have PM'd the board guides.....

i have reported also

blue_monkey_2

My friend had a terrible experience with her doctor just like some of the posters on here. We started speaking about it when walking the dogs and I said if I found out I was pg then I'd be straight off to the clinic - I assumed it would be easy. I actually never realised that some doctors can stop you having an abortion. It's not like they are going to be buying you a bigger house to live in or give you more money to live on is it? What gives them the right to make that choice for you?

And if so, should you then have the right to sue the doctor for making that choice for you. Pigpin, I am speaking to you here - consider this, see if you can find a no-win no-fee solicitor and see what they say. google Irwin Mitchell.

Do they make the same right to stop people who smoke, have asthma treatment, or fat people have surgery I wonder??

As for the 'unborn child'. It is a bunch of cells living on a host, it cannot survive on it's own. Whether you choose to want to nuture those cells should be your descision. Not the descion of some fruitcake who thinks it 'wrong'.

I think a lot of things are wrong but I don't stand there chucking paint over people and hurling abuse at them all. Some of those women could be at the clinic for a medical reason or because their baby has died in the womb yet they do not think about any of this do they? No they just keep on hurling their ignorant abuse at whoever walks in.

To the OP, this is the right thing for YOU to do so I hope that all goes well for you today. If the doc is against it then maybe go to your local family planning clinic and speak to them there. I think that you are doing the right thing if you feel this is the right choice for you. Mistakes happen.

A question for Leos-mummy - if you got cancer tomorrow would you have surgery to remove the tumor which, by nature, is growing inside you? Because after all and as you have quoted, what is meant to be, is meant to be. Isn't it?? Or is this when you decide that God has made the wrong desciion by choosing you? It was just a thought.