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bratz81

and I'm not sure why some of that is bold sorry!

Ginger_Poodle

bratz81 wrote: »

I've read this whole thread....and didn't want to comment more on the rows as it's not what the OP asked for. But all I can say is thatleos-mummy makes me ashamed to say I'm from NI

OP, I hope you get the advice you need

Please dont be ashamed when she is not your responsibility. I dont think anyone believes she says what she does simply because she lives in NI. I have something in common with her too - I am a mother and I deeply love and do my best for my child, just like her. However she seems to believe (I get this from several of her comments) that this means that I should agree with her views. I don't. I really, really don't.

Good luck to anyone reading this who is facing such a difficult decision x

moonsugar

Ginger_Poodle wrote: »

Please dont be ashamed when she is not your responsibility. I dont think anyone believes she says what she does simply because she lives in NI. I have something in common with her too - I am a mother and I deeply love and do my best for my child, just like her. However she seems to believe (I get this from several of her comments) that this means that I should agree with her views. I don't. I really, really don't.

Good luck to anyone reading this who is facing such a difficult decision x

Seconded.
And I'd like to point out my sarky-ness was aimed at the troll and her ilk only. I am very pro-choice, but I have a great amount of respect for those with opposing views who have come here and wished the OP the best and been mature, kind and above all reasonable with their posts.

Good luck OP and anyone else who finds themselves in this situation x

building_with_lego

melancholly wrote: »

well if we focus on the word 'reasonable', this thread shows how someone with an extreme view can't just post once and be done - they have to go on and on about it in an aggressive manner, insulting all who don't agree being incredibly insensitive to other people...... i think more discussion is a good idea, but in the same way as you don't try and reason with a toddler (you just tell them!), you can't reason with some people who are so militant that they can't give an inch. there have been some sensitively phrased posts from those who are pro-choice, showing that it can be done though! gives some hope.....

I may be taking this thread another step too far but...
http://mypage.direct.ca/w/writer/anti-tales.html
...Interesting....

Good luck OP