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Help....not sure what to do.
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Thanks for all of your replies.
Firstly, like a few of you have already pointed out(!), I did think why on earth have I posted under a different name yet given away some obvious details! doh! If he comes on MSE it will be for Motors/Money/Holidays.
I have rang a solicitor today who is calling me back for when I can go in and see them for a 1/2 hr free session. I think once I know my options and what is availbale I can then make a better decision.
Someone once said to me that because he is not physically/sexually abusing me then 'it is better to stay put as the grass is not always greener on the other side'. I believe that to an extent but always felt that I would never stay just because of the kids. Surely if you have drifted so far apart, there is no trust etc then it is better for all to seperate. He says he loves me and I believe him but if I am not sure then it is not fair on him for us to stay together but he wants that even knowing I do not feel so strong towards him.
I always thought that when I took my marriage vowels that I would stick by them foe life no matter what...maybe we just got caught up in all the excitement and married too quick without REALLY knowing each other. I don't want to keep looking back and seeing this as a regret as that wont help anyone. I just need to somehow sort how I feel out and deal with it.0
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