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Help son looking at websites he shouldnt be

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  • bitemebankers
    bitemebankers Posts: 1,688 Forumite
    An appropriate relationship is a committed monogomous relationship....
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    :AChrist.:A

    That says it all really. :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Meanwhile, back in the real world...
    "There may be a legal obligation to obey, but there will be no moral obligation to obey. When it comes to history, it will be the people who broke the law for freedom that will be remembered and honoured." --Rt. Hon. Tony Benn
  • bitemebankers
    bitemebankers Posts: 1,688 Forumite
    What might suit one family, Will not suit another. The OP has made it clear that she is worried that her child is 13 & watching !!!!!! & she doesn’t like it.

    Sure. I can understand that it's somewhat alarming to find that the little kid you've raised from a tiny baby really isn't a little kid any more. But it's just a normal part of life and the kind of massive over-reaction advocated by some posters on this thread, I find shocking, and potentially very harmful to young people. Certainly, far more harmful an any !!!!!! they're likely to encounter.

    And encounter it they will - there's nothing you can do to stop this. Far better than to prepare your kids for the world as it actually is, rather than how a handful of religious nutters and DM readers would like it to be.
    "There may be a legal obligation to obey, but there will be no moral obligation to obey. When it comes to history, it will be the people who broke the law for freedom that will be remembered and honoured." --Rt. Hon. Tony Benn
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    :AChrist.:A

    That says it all really. :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Meanwhile, back in the real world...


    This is the real world, maybe not your world though. ;)
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • bitemebankers
    bitemebankers Posts: 1,688 Forumite
    "There may be a legal obligation to obey, but there will be no moral obligation to obey. When it comes to history, it will be the people who broke the law for freedom that will be remembered and honoured." --Rt. Hon. Tony Benn
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    Many men have watched !!!!!! or still do but that doen't necessarily make it right though. Also many who have viewed it in the past realise that it is not healthy and have stopped.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • jetta_wales
    jetta_wales Posts: 2,168 Forumite
    There is so many different types of !!!!!!, From mild to dangerous & violent.

    If he is left to watch anything like this, He will truly believe that’s how to you treat a loved one.

    After all, He’s 13 not 18. These sites are listed at 18 or 21 for a GOOD reason!

    I watched all sorts at that age, did I think it was ok to be tied up and assaulted or to that to somebody else because I was too young to understand? No of course not lol. But I did realise that lots of different people like lots of different things and that some adults who have complete trust in each other and use such tools as safe words might well very much enjoy being tied up and spanked etc and that it does make them weird sick or perverted.

    I think from some of the prude and closed minded attitudes on here some people need to be watching some !!!!!! themselves and getting a better idea of how varied some people's desires can be without thinking your teen will be perverted by such things.
    "Life is what you make of it, whoever got anywhere without some passion and ambition?
  • jetta_wales
    jetta_wales Posts: 2,168 Forumite
    Many men have watched !!!!!! or still do but that doen't necessarily make it right though. Also many who have viewed it in the past realise that it is not healthy and have stopped.

    Not healthy?

    Gosh, what ever do you think of the many women that watch it too then? Or the many many couples that watch !!!!!! together? Or write or read pornographic fiction.
    "Life is what you make of it, whoever got anywhere without some passion and ambition?
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    Not healthy?

    Gosh, what ever do you think of the many women that watch it too then? Or the many many couples that watch !!!!!! together? Or write or read pornographic fiction.


    It makes no difference who is watching it male, female or couples. Reading it is also harmful so writing it can't be good.

    I accept though that others don't share these views but it must be kept if at all possible from children.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • jetta_wales
    jetta_wales Posts: 2,168 Forumite
    It makes no difference who is watching it male, female or couples. Reading it is also harmful so writing it can't be good.

    I accept though that others don't share these views

    That's just tickled me pink, I'm quite damaged by now then for sure!

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    "Life is what you make of it, whoever got anywhere without some passion and ambition?
  • Kimberley82
    Kimberley82 Posts: 1,717 Forumite
    It makes no difference who is watching it male, female or couples. Reading it is also harmful so writing it can't be good.

    I accept though that others don't share these views but it must be kept if at all possible from children.

    How is it harmful? I have watched !!!!!! since I was about 14. I can honestly say it has had no negative effect on me at all.
    Shut up woman get on my horse!!!
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