Needing some advice..... Things not going well

meritaten

I have to wonder if his grandparent is using the 'peedo' card to get this child away from the OP. He sounds mentally unstable and totally selfabsorbed (and the mum is no better). While I would hate for anyone to be unfairly accused and found guilty - I cant help feeling that this child is perhaps better off away from these two sad excuses for parents.

pearl123

If you treat a child like this your mentally ill if you make a story up like this your mentally ill.
It is shocking beyond belief to treat a child this way.

busiscoming2

I have just sat and read this thread and feel so sad for that poor little boy.

Both you and the boy's mother don't deserve to be parents or step parents.

You know nothing of unconditional love and regardless of whether you are guilty of this offence or not you are completely guilty in my eyes of not being fit to be a parent! How callous is it to 'kick out' a tiny child including 'flat packing' his wardrobe and as soon as he is gone re-decorating his room. Most parents would be inconsolable at the 'loss' of their child.

I really hope he is happy with his grandparents.

abacus73

EverythingsNotOK wrote: »

As of last week, the son was "kicked out" of the house for making such a malicious allegation. Son is 6 years of age. I would like to point out that I was questioned for inciting a child only, no sexual contact was ever accused. It was only suggesting an activity take place.

EverythingsNotOK wrote: »

6 years old, 16 years old, 60 years old, it doesnt matter to me anymore. He has a brain, he has been taught right from wrong. If he hasnt got the damn common decency to think "no thats not right" then maybe he is best off finding a nice foster family to live with.

OP you are a really nasty piece of work. Im glad you are being investigated. I dont believe for one minute that this little boy is making things up. You come across as a really sick and vicious individual lashing out at the one little person who you have finally lost control of.

If you had done nothing to this kid he would be at home with his mum, you would have moved out. You would be fighting tooth and nail to clear your name and not be saying such wicked, horrendous things about your stepson on an open forum.

Yours is classic behaviour of an abuser. I bet you couldn't believe your luck when the sick individual who is your partner decided to choose you over her son. It doesn't make you look innocent. It makes her look involved.

All we hear about through this whole thread is the hell you are going through. What about that poor little boy. The way you and his mother have treated him is nothing short of child abuse.

Ronaldo_Mconaldo

Is this another nut case post, where the original poster is just makingnup the story from thin air?

Darlyd

I think most of you on here must be smoking some pot, Paranoia that this is not true. And the fact the mother should of picked her son over her husband, Well I dout if the alligations about mother was involved would allow the child to stay with just her anyway.

Must be some right sicko to come on here to make this up !!!!!! !

I do feel for you op, And I feel for you because my best friend went through the exact same as you, To the point where she does not want to know her daughter what so ever !!

She had 2 Daughters and a Son. Her eldest (who is now 16) From the age of 4 was a nightmare for her, When she met her now husband, The eldest let's say child 1 was poisoned by her grandmother (mums mum), And she said she was abused by my friends now husband, Ofcourse all kids were taking off her, elsest stayed with grandmother and the other 2 were put into temp care. after a few months the 2 youngest returned to her care, partner moved away back to the north (they all lived down south), but they still carried on seeing eachother as they new alligations were not true. She got pregnant with his child, and they moved in together up north. Child 1 stayed with her grand parents still being poisned, case got dropped. But mum has had nothing to do with her family or child1 since the child was 7. Even now she tried to contact her siblings and poison then, pass on what her grand mother has said to her. BOLLOX

The thing she regreted the most was not fighting more, and making sure child 1 was placed into temp care so the truth could come out. The only way truth came out in the end was the great grand mother who knew of her daughter inlaws imagination.

If child 1 would of gone into care rather than the poisonous family child 1 and mum would be ok now.

Do hope things work out for you all. But I think giving up is the wrong thing to do, Your step son will now probably start to hate you and think something did really happen.

pearl123

That did not make alot of sense darlyd. Have you been smokin pot?

Darlyd

pearl123 wrote: »

That did not make alot of sense darlyd. Have you been smokin pot?

No just can't believe how judgemental people can be towards people coming on here for serious advice/help.
I been reading this thread with interest, and had to hop in with experience of my friend.
I know plenty of kids and families who dislike step parents, and will go to lengths to get rid! So unfair.

pearl123

darlyd wrote: »

No just can't believe how judgemental people can be towards people coming on here for serious advice/help.

The coldness/ dyfunction of the OP seemed pretty clear to many posters.
Without a doubt many posters found it deeply unsettling and upsetting that a 6 year old could be treated in such a way.

My sympathy/ concern is with the vulnerable. And that would be the 6 year old.
And to be honest what you wrote really did not make alot of sense.