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13 Moons part 2 - Freebird & Frugabulous

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  • Karmacat
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    Hi Lula! I think anything repetitive for so long has to be boring ... and hurray to being out in the garden, I think you should also adopt my plan of never doing any housework in the evening - or at least, never on holiday days!

    Glad you liked the alternate week thing - tho I have just spotted one teeny flaw in the plan. I'm still in the middle of digging down at the patio border underneath the kitchen window - and I just can't leave it like that for a whole week, its just not on, so I'll have to extend this "week" slightly :o and I might just pile up the "soil" to be disposed of later, rather than as it gets dug out of the ground.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Lula-Hula
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    Nom nom nom ( excuse the munching - bacon sarnie with apologies to veggies )

    Karma my dear, I can assure you that I try to never do chores in the evening other than the kitchen floor ;).

    There are now 2 loads of laundry billowing on the line & I've just completed the previous few days worth of ironing. Well, I had to now that Souk's back :p.

    DD is now slowly working her way through all the drawers & we've both shorted out a load of clothes to be charitized. My offerings are a jacket ( ebay last year) 2 tunic length dresses that I'll never fit into again, another dress (ebay last year) that I wore just once & then decided makes me look 'mumsy' :eek:, a top that I've worn so much I'm bored with it & 3 pairs of linen trousers that are a bit too loose to look good & I don't want to be tempted to grow into them.

    The grass doesn't look long enough to be cut & I'm too busy pottering to do anything that productive. I've retrieved a mini chest from DDs lair & plan to paint it this afternoon & then use it for storing crafty bits in.

    Off for a wander round the diaries now & then a bit more ironing when washing is dry.
  • Lula-Hula
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    Bonjour bonjour,

    well yesterday ended up being a bit of a washout. Out of nowhere there was a sudden torrential downpour so WE (DD was quick to help out this time :D) ran to the garden & gathered all the stuff in as quick as we could.

    Such huge raindrops that a lot of stuff was very damp. I had to do some emergency ironing & then hang it all up in the airing cupboard. Plans to go out for a ride along the canal were shelved & we had a wii dance session instead. I've decided not to worry how I get my 30 minutes daily exercise as long as it happens.

    Due to rain, there was no gardening & no bulb planting either so that's on the to-do list for either today or next weekend. We always seem to manage to occupy ourselves when at home & love just pottering & planning little projects to do. DD made a new sign to go on her door & I was allowed to use her gold pen to go round the edge of the letters :).

    It was a NSD yesterday but I did end up winning an item on ebay. I'm very excited about this as it's a lovely little cupboard with a couple of oak leaved with acorns carved into it, very individual :).

    It will be perfect for storing my spiritual books & other treasures & bits n pieces. That's another area of my life that has been somewhat neglected of late & I'm hoping that having an area to focus that energy will bring me back to that path.

    The seller is local to me so I'm popping round there later to collect & paying cash from my pocket money so it won't affect budgets & CC payments. Seems a very appropriate day to do this as well.

    The washing machine is due to finish doing a load of towels & then I'll get the bedding in & will be done for another week.

    Whilst it is bright & sunny out at the moment, the grass looked dewy first thing & there's a definite nip in the air. I can almost smell autumn & with it being 10 weeks past summer solstice no wonder.

    Enough pondering, I need to get dressed to venture outside with washing & maybe collect some more blackberries too :D

    Bye for now
    xx
  • Lula-Hula
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    Crumbs it really is fresh out there today. The sun is lovely but more clouds are gathering & the wind is a bit savage & bitey. The grass is still wet so I'll not risk cutting it today.

    I've put a coat of of paint on the frame of the drawer unit & each of the 6 drawers. I've painted one drawer in the same blue as the frame & then 3 others in a lighter pale turquoise colour & then the remaining 2 in a colour called morning mist, which is just on the greyish side of white.

    It feels great to be doing something creative again & while the mood takes me I've decide to take the rest of my pocket money to craft shop this afternoon & see if there are any items that grab my attention. I have to have a spend day anyway so might as well get it all done in one go.

    Time for another coat of paint :)
  • Karmacat
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    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    I have to have a spend day anyway so might as well get it all done in one go.

    Excellent reason to do the spendy thing :j:j:j
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Lula-Hula
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    It's a bit late but I need to report in to stay focused.

    I did end up cutting the grass as it was sunny when I collected washing in & goodness knows when I'll next get the chance to do it so it took 50 minutes, but is now all done & looking less scruffy outside.

    We went to craft shop & much as I was transfixed by yearning to try various different crafts ... I can't afford them. The start up costs of learning a new skill are high, so I came away empty handed. DD bought some bits & pieces so was happy, & as she paid with her own money, so was I :D.

    We went in to the pc shop to check out different ones & she now has a good idea of what she would like. Sales assistants were hovering like flies, but I made it quite clear that we were on an exploratory journey only. Like I'm going to buy from a shop when there's quidco cashback to be had :p. I wanted a mouse as I'm now getting constant pain in my right wrist & arm when on the lappie & I think it may help. I could have bought a wireless one that matches the lappie ... for £50 :eek:. No chance, I'd be forever charging up batteries & losing the thing, so I popped next door to argoose & bought a little wired one for £7.99 instead.

    Went to collect the ebay cupboard & it's even nicer in reality :D. I could have cried when the chap said he's just waxed it for me this morning :( I wanted to paint it & wax is a pain to get off, but the wood is actually quite mellow & full of cracks & character so I might leave it as it is for now. It's beautifully proportioned, very unique & the carved acorns are just lovely. A bargain at £30 I reckon :)

    The mini drawers are now all painted & I'm pleased with how that looks too & I spent a happy hour filling the drawers with ribbons, buttons & other bits n pieces.

    Watched a bit of tv then had a soaky bath, cup of licorice tea & then did half an hour of yoga.

    I reckon I should stick with evenings sessions. I'm more relaxed so find I can flow a lot better & I'm so stiff in the mornings & struggle to get up that half hour earlier just to fit a session in.

    I do find my mind wanders too much though, will have to try to clear my thoughts beforehand in future.

    Yeughck to work tomorrow, but only 2 days this week, & 2 days next week as well due to cunning holiday planning.

    Best get to bed now

    G'night
    xx
  • Karmacat
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    That cupboard sounds lovely, Lula - glad you had some outside time too, even if you were mowing the lawn :) and yay to the yoga!
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • taxi73
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    sounds like you've had a lovely weekend and the furniture sounds lovely
  • Lula-Hula
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    Gosh it's been an age since I posted.

    I've had a ridiculously busy week. Tuesday & Wednesday just passed in a blur of dropping DD at lovely childminders, scooting to work, collecting DD, coming back to complete home-job & then collapsing into bed. Needles to say, no exercise has taken place :o.

    Thursday was like a military manoeuvre. First stop was Tatco where I paid £6 cash to lovely car wash man, then in to the shop to stock up on toiletries at £29.35 & groceries at £24.90. I also bought a couple of willow veg planters as they were reduced to just £10 each. Total spend was £79.62 on the CCCCC.

    I then got 100 euros for DDs holibob/birthday pressie & only paid £92 for them so felt like I was getting a bargain :rotfl:

    Collected my newly re-heeled shoes & boots and got some new insoles and a front door key cut for DD - she's been very excited about this being a very grown-up thing. At £7 I made it very clear that if she loses it, she pays for the next one :p. I opted for hard wearing heels as I've decided I'm not buying new work shoes or long boots & will just wear what I have until they're worn out. Total spend in there was a scary £35.85 on the CCCCC

    Re-fuelled the car on the way out & that was another £44.37 on the CCCCC.

    Went to uniform shop to see if pre-ordered & paid for card was in stock yet ... it wasn't but we bought a pe kit bag for £8.95. Cash only :D.

    Next stop was to collect films & that was another £9.98, also cash. Then on to pay lovely childminder, before returning home to unload shopping & then start on the horrendous home-job. I pointed out to driver that NO WAY would I be able to do that volume of work on a normal work-day, who agreed that we're not going to be able to cover other worker for long :(. I was so exhausted when I finished that night, that I cleared away, left all the washing up, avoided the bathroom & just fell into bed at 10.30 :o.

    Yesterday was all about washing, sorting through new school paperwork - filling in forms etc - & dealing with my own finance stuff.

    Rather fed up with it all & desperate to simplify life, I opted to march down to the post office with bags of coins from the 'clearly-no-longer-sealed-at-all-in-any-way' pot & the money from the sale of old lappies organs, stopping briefly at the cashpoint to withdraw all the laptop savings from lloyds/quidco account on the way.

    I paid in £541 :eek::j:D which was in some ways quite gratifying; in that I can actually stash away a fair bit with no real effort or hardship involved (other than having to pay for a whole new lappie)

    I then came home & after calculating how much the total CC balance was after the previous days spendathon, I scooped up everything available from my currrent account too & whacked it all over to pay the Custard Coloured one.

    Balance now owing is £150.

    This doesn't reflect that fact that I still have to purchase & pay for a lappie for DD but at least the situation is now very clear & current & I will paying for one item.

    From what was left in my current account, I swept £150 into the funds which are now looking 'progressive' :

    Gas & Electric = £200
    Car Tax = £ 40
    Service/MOT = £ 40
    Car Insurance = £240 .

    I have a paltry little £6 in the lloyds Quidco drip fund account but this will soon be joined by another £38 for my lappie purchase :D.

    I have £16 in my re-sealed ish Jasper the Cat £2 coins pot & will now put just £2 coins in there.

    My cash funds are completely & utterly depleted. Not a sausage to be seen anywhere. I do have £55 of my pocket money stashed away that may be used for nieces 18th if I don't get enough from home-job over the next 2 weeks.

    I've written out cheques for £25 to the school fund & another £60 for DDs lunches for the month & also have to keep enough in my account for charitable donations.

    Since starting the DFW journey, I cancelled all regular donations & have just given a few pounds here & there or via my phone when I can. I was recently invited to support st. johns ambulance with an annual donation & as I wholly support their aims to get local schools to have training sessions, I agreed. It feels good to be in a position to do something like that again :D.

    Interestingly, I was soon karmically repaid by lovely childminder reducing her hourly rate on the basis of DD being no trouble at all & actually a great help with entertaining & helping with little ones :). I've already booked DD in for half term & also told home-job boss that I won't be working that week :p.

    DD1 came over yesterday afternoon & we sat out in the garden with tea, chatting & being very silly playing on the swings & skipping. she was really delighted with her euros & looking forward to her holibob next week. I am so off cooking that we ended up going for pizza which was pretty cheap as she gets the nhs discount, but not that great for my diet :whistle:. DD has finished off the remaining slices for breakfast today so temptation has been succesfully removed.

    I got all the washing - bar one load of towels - done yesterday so just have to iron it all today. DD seems to have a cold looming & is keen to potter at home today so I shall do the same. My energy levels are so low at the moment, I can barely manage the thought of housework. Will put in valiant effort & hopefully go for a bike ride later.

    As of monday I'm on a weekly cash-only regime until lappie paid for & am allowing £40 a week for groceries & household stuff.

    Next week's home-job wages will see the start of new funds; I've not yet decided which ones & how to use CB money either. I may have it paid to the lloyds/quidco account from next month & then use that for holiday fund.

    Off to update sig to reflect changes, & if you've got this far ... excellent perseverance :T

    bye for now
    xx
  • Karmacat
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    Wow, Lula, what an amazing post! I'm sorry you were so tired from home-job, but I love the bit about simplifying .... thats brilliant :)

    And of course, you have DD2's adolescent stuff going on, but long term, she's so lovely the childminder lowers her rate! Says it all, actually :)

    I'm not a fan of tiredness either (as you know, I'm somewhat lurgified myself at the mo) but your afternoon with both your lovely DDs sounds gorgeous :)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
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