CSA1 Case closed for 5yrs but now REOPENED!

charlieismydarling

So you father a child behind your long term partner's back and spend the next 6 or so years ducking and diving to avoid paying maintainance for your child.

Can I ask who the hell you think should financially support your child?

It seems you have told so many lies and half truths that you are unable to keep track and instead bleat that you haven't lied and deny any deciet. You are only fooling yourself and it seems even there you are becoming confused.

No,I never actually moved into the rented address, but I can prove it was officially my address, even paying the council tax, so they cannot reassess.

Spot the lie!!

The CSA never carried out a re-assessment and now they are looking to charge me for all that time, just looking for someone to blame, I think.

I would suggest the "blame" as you put it, lies entirely with you.

I am still undecided if you are more stupid than despicable or the other way round.

I don't think what you said that on the 1st assessment if I had told them we were earning £3,200pm net - surely they would have expected her to pay toward the £734.00 housing costs?

Or have I been through all of this for nothing

Deadbeat dad extraordinaire

I sincerely hope that your child will never catch wind of your selfish, tightfisted and Mercenary behaviour.



Out of a weekly wage of £700 you paid 86.00 which is roughly 12% of your pay. You really are scum. Truly contemptible.

Just pay what you owe. And stop bleating, you have managed to avoid paying your dues, it really is time now to grow up and face your responsibilities. And stop blaming everybody but yourself.

DX2

:rotfl: How could you possibly think that comment was racist, your comment made no sense so I simply asked you to translate it into proper English so I am able to read it, since you aimed it at me.

As I can see you still didn't understand which part I wanted translating, I thought it was pretty simple as I deleted the rest of your post and only left the part I wanted translated.

infant2801 wrote: »

Oh, you're really scraping the bottom of the barrel now, dear lady....not being a ittle bit racist are you?

You can see it was obviously a mistake/typing error - nothing to do with the Queens english.

I am from an english speaking country and served the UK Queen and country for 40yrs...of which I am very, very proud:)

I was only looking for an answer to CSA1: Carer Allowance/Family Premium.

yerblues10

I apologise for not starting a new thread but I'd be interested to hear what you folks think of my situation. I appreciate that some of you will disagree with what I did and believe me I did not take the decision lightly.

I split with my wife when my daughter was four. We had an amicable arrangement financially considering the split was anything but, with her going off with another man. I was paying all the child-minding fees as we were both full time employed, amounting to about £300 a month.
I then received a letter from the CSA and she admitted it was because a friend of hers told her she would get alot more money. I disputed the amount of £400 p/m but paid it.
I was made redundant a year or so later and moved back to the town where my parents lived. I saw my daughter one full weekend every fortnight. Then my ex didnt turn up to drop my daughter off.
I got a call from my parents asking me to go see them they had something to talk about. They produced a letter from my ex and adoption consent papers for my ex's new husband to adopt my daughter. My parents said they thought it was for the best to give my daughter stability. I spent 2 weeks in turmoil trying to decide if saying no was being selfish and eventually decided it was probably in her best interests.
Both my parents died within 4 months of each other 3 years ago, my father first. No sooner had my mother died than I received a letter from the CSA saying that I owed arrears and they had reassessed me at £400 p/m. I was absolutely gobsmacked. I called them immediately and told them my daughter had been adopted. They called my ex who told them 'we never actually went through with it'.

The CSA have taken me to court 60 miles from my home and the court ruled that I was liable for arrears although the amount could not be specified. When I call them sometimes it's £9k, other times it's £7k, other times its £14k. I went to my MP and explained the situation and he wrote to some top man and requested a reassessment of my case, that came back that I had to pay. 'Your daughter was not adopted therefore you are liable'. I said that being the case there should be no arrears and it should be a new claim on the new system, they said no my old case is open and still ongoing. I asked why they had not pursued me and informed me arrears was accruing, they said they didn't know where I was, even though my ex had my address from letters I was writing to my daughter and she had contact with my parents.
I have lost out on all those years with my daughter believing I was doing the best for her, not to get out of paying. I am paying £150 p/m arrears on top of the maintenance of £400, my daughter doesn't want to know me and I hear that this guy's done everything he can to get out of paying.

DUTR

yerblues10 wrote: »

I apologise for not starting a new thread but I'd be interested to hear what you folks think of my situation. I appreciate that some of you will disagree with what I did and believe me I did not take the decision lightly.

I split with my wife when my daughter was four. We had an amicable arrangement financially considering the split was anything but, with her going off with another man. I was paying all the child-minding fees as we were both full time employed, amounting to about £300 a month.
I then received a letter from the CSA and she admitted it was because a friend of hers told her she would get alot more money. I disputed the amount of £400 p/m but paid it.
I was made redundant a year or so later and moved back to the town where my parents lived. I saw my daughter one full weekend every fortnight. Then my ex didnt turn up to drop my daughter off.
I got a call from my parents asking me to go see them they had something to talk about. They produced a letter from my ex and adoption consent papers for my ex's new husband to adopt my daughter. My parents said they thought it was for the best to give my daughter stability. I spent 2 weeks in turmoil trying to decide if saying no was being selfish and eventually decided it was probably in her best interests.
Both my parents died within 4 months of each other 3 years ago, my father first. No sooner had my mother died than I received a letter from the CSA saying that I owed arrears and they had reassessed me at £400 p/m. I was absolutely gobsmacked. I called them immediately and told them my daughter had been adopted. They called my ex who told them 'we never actually went through with it'.

The CSA have taken me to court 60 miles from my home and the court ruled that I was liable for arrears although the amount could not be specified. When I call them sometimes it's £9k, other times it's £7k, other times its £14k. I went to my MP and explained the situation and he wrote to some top man and requested a reassessment of my case, that came back that I had to pay. 'Your daughter was not adopted therefore you are liable'. I said that being the case there should be no arrears and it should be a new claim on the new system, they said no my old case is open and still ongoing. I asked why they had not pursued me and informed me arrears was accruing, they said they didn't know where I was, even though my ex had my address from letters I was writing to my daughter and she had contact with my parents.
I have lost out on all those years with my daughter believing I was doing the best for her, not to get out of paying. I am paying £150 p/m arrears on top of the maintenance of £400, my daughter doesn't want to know me and I hear that this guy's done everything he can to get out of paying.

Start a new thread rather than hijack this one

infant2801

DX2 wrote: »

Would you be so kind to translate that into English please, thanks kindly

Comm'on you are telling me I am non english speaking, I've lived and worked in this country all my working life, got 40 ord years PAYE and paid the tax to the Gov at 40% and maintenance required for my child...

What an english speaking NRP who has started his own bizzy, can't get it off the ground for the 1st year or 2..., no profit this year...but he's a good daddy, he's starting his own business to make life better for the child.....my children will just have to starve for the first year....oh no - not to worry the're is the sugar daddy...he will maintain them and take over my responsibilities....the lovely Mr Gordan Brown but now Mr David Cameron........ but thats OK as long as you're showing your paying a fiver a week for your child..............

DX2

infant2801 wrote: »

Why because do people if they have'nt got an answer to my queries or don't understand CSA1 just leave it at that?

^^^^ Translated into english means that, Wow Random.

infant2801 wrote: »

Comm'on you are telling me I am non english speaking, I've lived and worked in this country all my working life, got 40 ord years PAYE and paid the tax to the Gov at 40% and maintenance required for my child...

What an english speaking NRP who has started his own bizzy, can't get it off the ground for the 1st year or 2..., no profit this year...but he's a good daddy, he's starting his own business to make life better for the child.....my children will just have to starve for the first year....oh no - not to worry the're is the sugar daddy...he will maintain them and take over my responsibilities....the lovely Mr Gordan Brown but now Mr David Cameron........ but thats OK as long as you're showing your paying a fiver a week for your child..............

kelloggs36

????????? I don't understand either DX2.

AnxiousMum

LOL - this guy has a little too much time on his hands I think - and given his age, I'm thinking the username is more descriptive of his behaviour rather than 'interests' or anything similar.
Meanwhile, there is a PWC somewhere (well, possibly! - if she does exist) who has a wonderful son, who will eventually receive what they are entitled to by way of CSA, and who has a relationship that money just can't buy - that between a parent and a child.....now where does deviant behaviour pay?????

infant2801

DX2 wrote: »

Would you be so kind to translate that into English please, thanks kindly

What you haven't go the initiative to work out what that sentence meant?

My 10yr old is doing his Y6 exams having to use his 'skill' to solve more complicated questions than that;)

Probably why you do not work and rely on US taxpayers.
(and that means us not the United States).

infant2801

AnxiousMum wrote: »

LOL - this guy has a little too much time on his hands I think - and given his age, I'm thinking the username is more descriptive of his behaviour rather than 'interests' or anything similar.
Meanwhile, there is a PWC somewhere (well, possibly! - if she does exist) who has a wonderful son, who will eventually receive what they are entitled to by way of CSA, and who has a relationship that money just can't buy - that between a parent and a child.....now where does deviant behaviour pay?????

I think you need to look at the 'post' count of yourself and other usernames to see who has too much time on their hands...

I'm allowed to spend 'my time' how I please because I have paid my dues to this Government and he sends me my £15,000pa pension to show his gratitude.;)