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Three children? Do you pay CM to the other two?
I hope not....one is 42 and the other 39...both well to do Officers' for past 22 years, well one is almost complete the other a few more years.............nearly 100 years of UK military service between us....how proud I am. Maybe the 'little' chap can make it to 100.
When I see you all moaning about benefits and cuts and how the foreigners are coming here and taking 'our' jobs, it makes me crease up.
I think half of you don't know anything different that ben culture.0 -
Up yours sweetheartinfant2801 wrote: »I hope not....one is 42 and the other 39...both well to do Officers' for past 22 years, well one is almost complete the other a few more years.............nearly 100 years of UK military service between us....how proud I am. Maybe the 'little' chap can make it to 100.
When I see you all moaning about benefits and cuts and how the foreigners are coming here and taking 'our' jobs, it makes me crease up.
I think half of you don't know anything different that ben culture.
Never been on benefits - and this isn't the benefits board, it's the child support board 0 -
AnxiousMum wrote: »Up yours sweetheart Never been on benefits - and this isn't the benefits board, it's the child support board
Never, so having half dozen children you never received Child Tax Credits and Child Benefit.
Can I please ask:-
Why would you have three more children after the financial security of your first two children was not stable?
Why would you have three children to a man who you were not married too, I am still in utter shock after having 1 child out of wedlock.
Why would you have three children to a man when you were married to someone else?
Why would you want to be included in 'Mr AnxiousMum's' inheritance, when you are not his wife anymore............quite happily breeding more and more children in delight....let Mr Anxious also live his life.....
Canadian regulations state 'man has to provide only until ex-wife becomes married again or co-habits with a partner....which is obviously what you are doing with all these babes your're producing or are you claiming as One Parent family?
Seems to me like your looking to make your 'adult' children's father pay for the next poor little brood that you've hade, as their father can't!
You need to just hope and pray father in Canada does not 'wise up' and do a runner to the province of Quebec...or simply get a forwarding mailbox address....and if you know Canada like you say you do...no need to explain.0 -
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infant2801 wrote: »Never, so having half dozen children you never received Child Tax Credits and Child Benefit.
Can I please ask:-
Why would you have three more children after the financial security of your first two children was not stable?
Why is the financial security of my first two children not stable? I've always worked to provide for them, and it wasn't till recently that their father stopped the child support which he is now currently up to date with, due to the fact that the Canadian system doesn't put up with deadbeat dads.
Why would you have three children to a man who you were not married too, I am still in utter shock after having 1 child out of wedlock. Not that it's any of your business, but my partner didn't have children and we wanted to have children together - both working, could afford it....what great gift to my other two than more brothers to ensure they have family around as they get older? I'd rather my kids had more family than gadgets And you were in shock because you were screwing around on your partner.....you don't go into shock about having a child when you have planned it together as a couple
Why would you have three children to a man when you were married to someone else? It's not like I've got ten kids to ten different guys is it? lol - I'm living MY life....not letting him hold me back in any way - and I haven't divorced him as if he decides to do a default on child support for our two children, then by being divorced and using the Canadian child support system, it would be very expensive for me to get it rectified and teh kids would be the ones to lose out. Now, if he was trustworthy enough to ensure he would help provide for our children, then I wouldn't have to worry about that would I?
Why would you want to be included in 'Mr AnxiousMum's' inheritance, when you are not his wife anymore............quite happily breeding more and more children in delight....let Mr Anxious also live his life.....hmmm, if you are going to refer to things, you should probably learn to read them correctly in the first place. Under our separation, I'm 100% entitled to half of his inheritance - did I go for it? No....as it was not my family member other than by marriage, I didn't feel that was right. However, had he not come through with the child support, yes, I would've taken that option to ensure that our CHILDREN got what they were entitled to. Have I gone for half the inheritance? No....so what's your point?
Canadian regulations state 'man has to provide only until ex-wife becomes married again or co-habits with a partner....which is obviously what you are doing with all these babes your're producing or are you claiming as One Parent family? lol again, read properly and comprehend what you are reading. What you quote above is for 'spousal maintenance', as I have always worked, I've never needed spousal maintenance. In fact, in child support law, he's financially responsible as long as the child is financially dependent - unfortunately for him, my one son is now embarking on a 7 year university course on his way to a medical degree - so another six years at least for him. Again, get your facts right....
Seems to me like your looking to make your 'adult' children's father pay for the next poor little brood that you've hade, as their father can't! Really? well, again something you have wrong.....all child support received now goes into a joint account with my son - and this money is his to use through university - after all, with year 4 university he's going to have to cough up £9K - as no student loans for tuition are available for the first year of medicine after a BioMed degree - I don't take a penny of his child support monies - they are for his education, along with what I also contribute each month.
You need to just hope and pray father in Canada does not 'wise up' and do a runner to the province of Quebec...or simply get a forwarding mailbox address....and if you know Canada like you say you do...no need to explain.
LOL - and if you knew their father you'd know there's not a chance in hell of him upping and moving to Quebec - couldn't even order a beer in French Forwarding mail box? Can do so if he wants - wouldn't be an issue - as I said earlier, the Canadian maintenance enforcement system doesn't let them away with it - it'd take more htan a forwarding mailbox address to get away from them.
so.....had a busy day doing some research on me eh? lol - too funny that you found it interesting enough! Just too bad you were incapable of actually comprehending what you read!0 -
Originally Posted by infant2801
Never, so having half dozen children you never received Child Tax Credits and Child Benefit.
Can I please ask:-
Why would you have three more children after the financial security of your first two children was not stable?
Why is the financial security of my first two children not stable? I've always worked to provide for them, and it wasn't till recently that their father stopped the child support which he is now currently up to date with, due to the fact that the Canadian system doesn't put up with deadbeat dads.
Why would you have three children to a man who you were not married too, I am still in utter shock after having 1 child out of wedlock. Not that it's any of your business, but my partner didn't have children and we wanted to have children together - both working, could afford it....what great gift to my other two than more brothers to ensure they have family around as they get older? I'd rather my kids had more family than gadgets And you were in shock because you were screwing around on your partner.....you don't go into shock about having a child when you have planned it together as a couple
Why would you have three children to a man when you were married to someone else? It's not like I've got ten kids to ten different guys is it? lol - I'm living MY life....not letting him hold me back in any way - and I haven't divorced him as if he decides to do a default on child support for our two children, then by being divorced and using the Canadian child support system, it would be very expensive for me to get it rectified and teh kids would be the ones to lose out. Now, if he was trustworthy enough to ensure he would help provide for our children, then I wouldn't have to worry about that would I?
Why would you want to be included in 'Mr AnxiousMum's' inheritance, when you are not his wife anymore............quite happily breeding more and more children in delight....let Mr Anxious also live his life.....hmmm, if you are going to refer to things, you should probably learn to read them correctly in the first place. Under our separation, I'm 100% entitled to half of his inheritance - did I go for it? No....as it was not my family member other than by marriage, I didn't feel that was right. However, had he not come through with the child support, yes, I would've taken that option to ensure that our CHILDREN got what they were entitled to. Have I gone for half the inheritance? No....so what's your point?
Canadian regulations state 'man has to provide only until ex-wife becomes married again or co-habits with a partner....which is obviously what you are doing with all these babes your're producing or are you claiming as One Parent family? lol again, read properly and comprehend what you are reading. What you quote above is for 'spousal maintenance', as I have always worked, I've never needed spousal maintenance. In fact, in child support law, he's financially responsible as long as the child is financially dependent - unfortunately for him, my one son is now embarking on a 7 year university course on his way to a medical degree - so another six years at least for him. Again, get your facts right....
Seems to me like your looking to make your 'adult' children's father pay for the next poor little brood that you've hade, as their father can't! Really? well, again something you have wrong.....all child support received now goes into a joint account with my son - and this money is his to use through university - after all, with year 4 university he's going to have to cough up £9K - as no student loans for tuition are available for the first year of medicine after a BioMed degree - I don't take a penny of his child support monies - they are for his education, along with what I also contribute each month.
You need to just hope and pray father in Canada does not 'wise up' and do a runner to the province of Quebec...or simply get a forwarding mailbox address....and if you know Canada like you say you do...no need to explain.
Originally Posted by infant2801
Never, so having half dozen children you never received Child Tax Credits and Child Benefit.
Can I please ask:-
Why would you have three more children after the financial security of your first two children was not stable?
Why is the financial security of my first two children not stable? I've always worked to provide for them, and it wasn't till recently that their father stopped the child support which he is now currently up to date with, due to the fact that the Canadian system doesn't put up with deadbeat dads.
Why would you have three children to a man who you were not married too, I am still in utter shock after having 1 child out of wedlock. Not that it's any of your business, but my partner didn't have children and we wanted to have children together - both working, could afford it....what great gift to my other two than more brothers to ensure they have family around as they get older? I'd rather my kids had more family than gadgets And you were in shock because you were screwing around on your partner.....you don't go into shock about having a child when you have planned it together as a couple
Why would you have three children to a man when you were married to someone else? It's not like I've got ten kids to ten different guys is it? lol - I'm living MY life....not letting him hold me back in any way - and I haven't divorced him as if he decides to do a default on child support for our two children, then by being divorced and using the Canadian child support system, it would be very expensive for me to get it rectified and teh kids would be the ones to lose out. Now, if he was trustworthy enough to ensure he would help provide for our children, then I wouldn't have to worry about that would I?
Why would you want to be included in 'Mr AnxiousMum's' inheritance, when you are not his wife anymore............quite happily breeding more and more children in delight....let Mr Anxious also live his life.....hmmm, if you are going to refer to things, you should probably learn to read them correctly in the first place. Under our separation, I'm 100% entitled to half of his inheritance - did I go for it? No....as it was not my family member other than by marriage, I didn't feel that was right. However, had he not come through with the child support, yes, I would've taken that option to ensure that our CHILDREN got what they were entitled to. Have I gone for half the inheritance? No....so what's your point?
Canadian regulations state 'man has to provide only until ex-wife becomes married again or co-habits with a partner....which is obviously what you are doing with all these babes your're producing or are you claiming as One Parent family? lol again, read properly and comprehend what you are reading. What you quote above is for 'spousal maintenance', as I have always worked, I've never needed spousal maintenance. In fact, in child support law, he's financially responsible as long as the child is financially dependent - unfortunately for him, my one son is now embarking on a 7 year university course on his way to a medical degree - so another six years at least for him. Again, get your facts right....
Seems to me like your looking to make your 'adult' children's father pay for the next poor little brood that you've hade, as their father can't! Really? well, again something you have wrong.....all child support received now goes into a joint account with my son - and this money is his to use through university - after all, with year 4 university he's going to have to cough up £9K - as no student loans for tuition are available for the first year of medicine after a BioMed degree - I don't take a penny of his child support monies - they are for his education, along with what I also contribute each month.
You need to just hope and pray father in Canada does not 'wise up' and do a runner to the province of Quebec...or simply get a forwarding mailbox address....and if you know Canada like you say you do...no need to explain.
LOL - and if you knew their father you'd know there's not a chance in hell of him upping and moving to Quebec - couldn't even order a beer in French Forwarding mail box? Can do so if he wants - wouldn't be an issue - as I said earlier, the Canadian maintenance enforcement system doesn't let them away with it - it'd take more htan a forwarding mailbox address to get away from them.
so.....had a busy day doing some research on me eh? lol - too funny that you found it interesting enough! Just too bad you were incapable of actually comprehending what you read!
Last edited by AnxiousMum; Yesterday at 11:38 PM.
Originally Posted by infant2801
Never, so having half dozen children you never received Child Tax Credits and Child Benefit.
Can I please ask:-
Why would you have three more children after the financial security of your first two children was not stable?
Why is the financial security of my first two children not stable? I've always worked to provide for them, and it wasn't till recently that their father stopped the child support which he is now currently up to date with, due to the fact that the Canadian system doesn't put up with deadbeat dads.
Why would you have three children to a man who you were not married too, I am still in utter shock after having 1 child out of wedlock. Not that it's any of your business, but my partner didn't have children and we wanted to have children together - both working, could afford it....what great gift to my other two than more brothers to ensure they have family around as they get older? I'd rather my kids had more family than gadgets And you were in shock because you were screwing around on your partner.....you don't go into shock about having a child when you have planned it together as a couple
Why would you have three children to a man when you were married to someone else? It's not like I've got ten kids to ten different guys is it? lol - I'm living MY life....not letting him hold me back in any way - and I haven't divorced him as if he decides to do a default on child support for our two children, then by being divorced and using the Canadian child support system, it would be very expensive for me to get it rectified and teh kids would be the ones to lose out. Now, if he was trustworthy enough to ensure he would help provide for our children, then I wouldn't have to worry about that would I?
Why would you want to be included in 'Mr AnxiousMum's' inheritance, when you are not his wife anymore............quite happily breeding more and more children in delight....let Mr Anxious also live his life.....hmmm, if you are going to refer to things, you should probably learn to read them correctly in the first place. Under our separation, I'm 100% entitled to half of his inheritance - did I go for it? No....as it was not my family member other than by marriage, I didn't feel that was right. However, had he not come through with the child support, yes, I would've taken that option to ensure that our CHILDREN got what they were entitled to. Have I gone for half the inheritance? No....so what's your point?
Canadian regulations state 'man has to provide only until ex-wife becomes married again or co-habits with a partner....which is obviously what you are doing with all these babes your're producing or are you claiming as One Parent family? lol again, read properly and comprehend what you are reading. What you quote above is for 'spousal maintenance', as I have always worked, I've never needed spousal maintenance. In fact, in child support law, he's financially responsible as long as the child is financially dependent - unfortunately for him, my one son is now embarking on a 7 year university course on his way to a medical degree - so another six years at least for him. Again, get your facts right....
Seems to me like your looking to make your 'adult' children's father pay for the next poor little brood that you've hade, as their father can't! Really? well, again something you have wrong.....all child support received now goes into a joint account with my son - and this money is his to use through university - after all, with year 4 university he's going to have to cough up £9K - as no student loans for tuition are available for the first year of medicine after a BioMed degree - I don't take a penny of his child support monies - they are for his education, along with what I also contribute each month.
You need to just hope and pray father in Canada does not 'wise up' and do a runner to the province of Quebec...or simply get a forwarding mailbox address....and if you know Canada like you say you do...no need to explain.
LOL - and if you knew their father you'd know there's not a chance in hell of him upping and moving to Quebec - couldn't even order a beer in French Forwarding mail box? Can do so if he wants - wouldn't be an issue - as I said earlier, the Canadian maintenance enforcement system doesn't let them away with it - it'd take more htan a forwarding mailbox address to get away from them.
so.....had a busy day doing some research on me eh? lol - too funny that you found it interesting enough! Just too bad you were incapable of actually comprehending what you read!0 -
lol - you cut and paste all that so you could throw in a couple of smiley faces.....twice? What a waste of bandwidth.....0
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AnxiousMum wrote: »lol - you cut and paste all that so you could throw in a couple of smiley faces.....twice? What a waste of bandwidth.....
No smiley faces from me????
To be continued/.......;)0
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