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The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10

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  • Bad_Weather
    Bad_Weather Posts: 427 Forumite
    *subscribes*

    Hey guys! Just quick note that i couldn't have came across this thread at a better time. Recent thoughts and this are a sign!

    Everyone has their reasons...not to put a dampner but mines is solely as my family is RIDDLED with alcoholics, i mean i've never heard of there being so many in one family (from both sides). My mum, two uncles (one died), 1 aunt, 2 grans and 2 cousins (one unfortunately died of liver failure directly to do with drink aged 30). I don't have a big family so it obvious is a family trait.

    I don't need it, i'm just as much fun on redbull. And it'll be cheaper if i can drive. And i won't be hungover. Work out on Saturday mornings. There are no issues with me (well god i hope not) i think i got out young enough. Plus i'm crazy into sport and no-one in my family is.

    It will be hard at first but IM IN!!! I love red wine, not any other drinks...just red wine. Am i showing signs of a future alcoholic by loving red wine so much??? This genuinely concerns me...maybe stupidly...but when you've got a family the nick of mines these things play on your mind!

    I probably drink most friday/saturday nights and the odd midweek drink...out for dinner...really bad day etc.

    SO except for pre-meditated special occasions i'm AFF IT!! No more Friday night post work drinks! :(

    So i'll get up to speed on the rules and get involved...well if i'm allowed :D
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    One more SNC AFD for me please Bearacus.

    HAPPY-WEDNESDAY.gif?t=1247044704

    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 27 July 2011 at 6:36AM
    Polly_M wrote: »
    Today is day 2 and I am aiming for 31 days AF.

    welcomewagon.gif Polly and Bad weather

    You can join our August AF challenge if you like?
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    July :-

    Yay.png= 7 Days

    dance2.gif = 14 days AF

    smiley-faces7.gif = 21 days AF

    Smiley-ange.png = 28 days AF

    pan-10-10-smiley-...-airsoft-1851527.gif = 31 days AF

    :j = target achieved


    Bearacus
    23/TF
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    Beckseven 18/22 Yay.pngdance2.gif
    Candy Girl 8/14 Yay.png
    Chloris 11/TF Yay.png
    FedUp 19/TF Yay.pngdance2.gif

    Flimsier 2/TF
    Happyshopper 15/20 Yay.pngdance2.gif
    Kdenty 16/30 Yay.pngdance2.gif
    Mackeroo 10/16 Yay.png
    Maman 12/10 Yay.png :j
    May 8/9 Yay.png
    Penelopedee 14/16 Yay.pngdance2.gif

    Possie Flump 5/16
    PrettyKitty 8/14
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    Rachel 13/18 Yay.png
    Shaggy 17/17 Yay.pngdance2.gif :j

    Totally Inzane 6/10
    Pricey SOS 21/25 Yay.pngdance2.gifsmiley-faces7.gif
    WBF 12/15 Yay.png
    Yoemma 15/TF Yay.pngdance2.gif




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 29 July 2011 at 7:43AM
    Roll up roll up set those targets for August!

    target.jpg
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    AUGUST!

    Where did that year go.....
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    July :-

    smiley-vault-character-014.gif = 7 Days

    4-smiley-thumbsup-double.gif = 14 days AF

    sunny_smiley.gif = 21 days AF

    Smiley-ange.png = 28 days AF

    pan-10-10-smiley-...-airsoft-1851527.gif = 31 days AF

    :j = target achieved


    Bearacus


    Beckseven


    Candy Girl


    Chloris


    FedUp


    Flimsier


    Happyshopper


    Kdenty


    Mackeroo


    Maman


    May


    Penelopedee


    Possie Flump

    PrettyKitty


    Rachel


    Shaggy
    /17


    Totally Inzane

    Pricey SOS


    WBF
    /13

    Yoemma





    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Bad_Weather
    Bad_Weather Posts: 427 Forumite
    shaggydoo wrote: »
    welcomewagon.gif Polly and Bad weather

    You can join our August AF challenge if you like?

    Welcome wagon - LOVE IT!

    Im in!!!

    BUT got my sisters hen weekends (x2) SO there will be 5 days out straight away!

    So im in for 26 days!!! Ill check out what icon that gets me! :D
  • Polly_M
    Polly_M Posts: 9 Forumite
    Good morning Shaggy

    I'd like to jump on board for a full 31 days in August. I have two reasons for this one the obvious health benefits but also it will help me to lose weight (we have a weekend away at the end of August).

    Thank you so much to everyone for such a lovely welcome and all your messages of support.

    Well day 3 is here and still AF. The fizziness is going and I it's great not waking up hungover.

    Wishing everyone a great day.

    Polly x
  • Morning All & welcome Badweather :)

    1 more AF please Shaggy & 1 more for the SNC please Bearacus

    I was very close to reaching for the 2 cans of beer lurking in the bottom of my fridge last night, due to feeling stressed with wedding plans (OH has a habbit of leaving EVERYTHING to the last minute, when I need organisation & structure).

    August Target is 12 AF days (our wedding & a long weekend away following it are at the end of Aug, which won't be AF) please Shaggy

    I hope everyone has a wonderful day & hugs to anyone in need of one :)
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