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The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10
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May :-
= 7 days AF
= 14 days AF
= 21 days AF
= 28 days AF
= 31 days AF
Pregnant Posters =:A
:j = target achieved
Bearacus 16/14:j
Beckseven 13/30
Chloris 17/TF
Darwin's Mum 20/31
eca00 12/29
Fed Up 18/28
Flimsier 3/20
Gien 8/20
Grey Pilgrim 4/30
Happyshopper 16/20
Jo1972 /TF
KarenF1968 14/31
Kdenty 10/TF
Kerry78 6/20
Lala 20/31
Lorna Doone 1/31
Mackeroo 9/23
Maggie 4/12
Maman 9/10
Mari /20
Miss P 9/18
May 10/10:j
Penelopedee 1/2
Phoenix D /31
Rachelww 14/27
RossieCheecks
Rustybucket /22
Shaggy 11/17
Pricey SOS 15/25
Sumsup 19/20
Too Many 10/15
PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck!What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.0 -
20 please Shaggy!
OMG! Been invited for interview on Monday! What a wonderful confidence boost!
Thanks for your support everyone. You're all fantastic!
Lala x
We are all here behind you Lala, keep us posted.Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task
Crazy Clothing Challenge 2015 £48.58/£200 :eek:0 -
Hi all, feeling a tad flat since yesterday, I had a session with my business mentor which was positive on the whole, but highlighted that I still have a bit more business research to carry out. Conflicting priorities abound as ever! A bit of a delay with an item from ebay is causing a bit of consternation. I guess I am just learning the art of patience.
I have got a 2 hour work out with the personal trainer later this morning which will get the endorphins going and then a trawl around a few antique shops with ds2. Hoping for a peaceful drama free weekend.
enjoy your day y'all
DMNothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task
Crazy Clothing Challenge 2015 £48.58/£200 :eek:0 -
Hi Shaggydo. I'm in the same position. I just lost my job because of drinking. Thankfully, I'm apparently a not half bad accountant so my ex-boss will give me a good reference. I resigned - rather than face a disciplinary process.
I can give up with no withdrawal - go without for months - then I relapse. Why? There is a monster within me. Outside of alcohol, I'm such a nice, decent and trustworthy person. Drink turns me into Medusa the Gorgon. I become a really nasty person who even I don't recognise.0 -
14afds please shaggy and 4 for the Snc please bearacus. I'm finding it really easy to be af during the week but unfortunately not at the weekend. dh got back from a week away last night and we managed to put away a bottle and a half of white wine each--that is not sensible drinking is it? Weirdly i feel ok today but with a bit of a funny head. Tonight I will be driving so no hangover tomorrow. Well done on your interview lala-that's brillant news. Well done to all who are af this weekend-I wish I had been last night.HSBC Visa-High interest-£2349.23 Nat West £2605.18
My Overdraft-£1500
Barclaycard-1089.77
Marks and Spencer card- 3331.30 next 92.67
Total was 11066.29 now £10,968.150 -
17 for me please, Shaggy
And I completed the whole challenge, thanks, Bearacus
Have a good Saturday, all
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Credit card debt-£7877.20 (4/3/16)
Car Loan - £21,777 - Now - £12,383.36 Mortgage- £154,315.77
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Hi Shaggydo. I'm in the same position. I just lost my job because of drinking. Thankfully, I'm apparently a not half bad accountant so my ex-boss will give me a good reference. I resigned - rather than face a disciplinary process.
I can give up with no withdrawal - go without for months - then I relapse. Why? There is a monster within me. Outside of alcohol, I'm such a nice, decent and trustworthy person. Drink turns me into Medusa the Gorgon. I become a really nasty person who even I don't recognise.
Hi Halt,
Sorry to hear ou lost you job due to drinking, alcohol is a great taker, can take lots from us and gives us nothing in return. Have you tried AA? Do your relapses get worse and worse. That was mt experience when I thought it had gor really bad, I relapsed and things gor even worse!! I have been sober for over a year now with the support of AA and my life is really unbeilavable and I do not crave drinking atall
Hope you find support from this thread!
JgSober and Fabulous 4/1/10
Maintaing 10 stone since 22/3/110 -
Jeffgeorge - Lovely post :T Well done on all your achievements xx
AF for me tonight please Shaggy x
Going to have a lovely bath and then off to bed for me x
Night all x
bearacus x
NW-£0 Cap one-£76 HSBC small-£359.51 (0% Aug16) HSBC car- £3511.46 (0%Oct17) HX car/baby- £2731.57 (0%Nov16) HX -£1198.66 (0% Jul16) Argos- £50(BNPLMay)
Credit card debt-£7877.20 (4/3/16)
Car Loan - £21,777 - Now - £12,383.36 Mortgage- £154,315.77
LLoyds loan- paid 28/1/11 LLoyds O/D paid 9/9/10
New LBM- £ 28/2/20160 -
Hello everyone, AF here again today, had a lovely picnic and games with DH's family, lots of wine flowing but not into me! So, 21 please Shaggy. I've decided to try to keep AF at least until next Friday, but am going away for half term so not likely to have the willpower then!
Good luck with the interview Lala.
Have a great Sunday all
S x0
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