100 months to turn the money situation round

elantan

yeah he would have to squizz he has been on them since jan now ( i think) so he would have to go to the lower dose again then have one one day miss one day have one one day miss one etc etc till he slowly worked his way off them ... sometimes he says himself the they aint working he would be better off on smarties and other times he is just desperate for them to work he thinks he needs more ... i'm of the belief of dont flog a dead horse ... but then thats me and my opinion

redsquirrel80

I'm sure I've said to you before that I wish doctors would explore other options first, but they don't have the time/ money. Hope he gets something positive from them later.

elantan

the cynic in me also thinks about all those drug companies offering freebies ...i reckon drs really dont work for the people .... but for the drug companies ...... but then i am a cynic lol

hypno06

Also, if he is saying that they won't work, or they aren't working, then he won't get any benefit from them because he is continually talking in the negative, which as we all know just grows into more negativity.

I've never taken such things, personally, so can't comment much, but you know I like a holistic approach too where possible.

Good luck x

elantan

yeah i know and agree with what your saying hypno ... i think its the dark clouds and thoughts that he is still having and the physical reactions that are making him say they aint working .... but he is quite a pessimistic person as well so ...

i think he also wants everything dealt with then and there no waiting around .... no patience ... he is struggling to understand that it took him more than 20 years to get to where he is ... so he cant expect the situation to be sorted in less than a month

elantan

ooooo and in good news ... i just did a wee inspection of the garden pulled out a few bits of grass but spotted the carrots that i had planted 4 weeks ago have started to pop through the soil ... happiness is an active garden yay

redsquirrel80

Hooray for carrots! :T

elantan

well today has been a kinda slow day for me ... havnt done much except sleep ... since the last lot of night shifts i have had trouble sleeping ... i think it could be because i was awake for 7 nights in a row so had put myself into a pattern and now i am back to working again

hubby is still getting angry moments with his tablets he is also disorientated and aggitated so things could be better there ...

i did start packing my case eventually ... but still have a long way to go ... good job we dont go away for a wee while yet ... sold a book on amazon so gonna half the money to debt and savings when it arrives

thats about it really nothing much happening hope everyone is good

elantan

oh on the money front we still have the £46 we are one day closer to the 15th and i drove to work on fumes ... so will be driving home on fumes also with the intention of filling up today (friday) i am planning on putting £20 into the car and seeing how long that will last ( fingers crossed it will last till the 15th)

Flee_2

Good luck elantan. I am doing the £20 fuel to last a week today, though mine is petrol and I know it will not last.
Hope you husband starts to pull through.