O/S Daily Thread Thursday 9th Feb

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Loulou2010 wrote: »

not psychiatric medicine but there is stuff out there that can help lol

lots and lots of chocolate and spoiling helps I think:D

candygirl

Hi guys:hello:
Ok haven't read the thread yet but am really upset and need to vent:mad::mad:Have got Boo 2 quite big pressies for her bday at the end of March, and have told DD what they are, and she seemed ok with it.Today she texted me very early on asking me if i was still getting her a trampoline for her bday, I said "no cos i've got the other stuff", and the trampoline had never even been mentioned before to me.She replied that that was "f*** all", and not to bother, seeing as I got her(DD) "complete tat" for Xmas, and that me and her (DD) shouldn't bother buying for each other any more :oI am on benefits due to ill health at the mo, and did buy DD lots of Soap and Glory stuff as she asked for as well as jewelllery and a scarf.:o
I haven't replied to the text as am still in shock, but she is so unreasonable and hormonal and demanding as most of you already know
When she was preg with Boo I was working and bought the pram cot etc, but this time I am financially screwed but will help her out as best as I can:(:(
HELP!!!!!!!:(:(:(

de1amo

i just offer her some of my mad drugs--maybe i should coat them in choccy!

Julie67

Just to add that I have 4 children and also had 3 miscarriages. All were earlyish about 8 wks. And they were inbetween the healthy pregancies, it was almost as if I could have one healthy pregnancy then a miscarriage then another healthy pregnancy IFYKWIM.
I was never referred, but maybe its because it was a while ago, my youngest is 14 and after him I was sterilised. My heart goes out to you, it's so difficult.:(

Well off to get tea on, will catch up later J x

Loulou2010

candy - are you still having boo at all? maybe just save the presents for when she is with you? then take up your dd on her offer on not buying her pressies anymore. come her birthday she'll probably be wondering where her pressie is....

Loulou2010

de1amo wrote: »

i just offer her some of my mad drugs--maybe i should coat them in choccy!

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

candygirl

Loulou2010 wrote: »

candy - are you still having boo at all? maybe just save the presents for when she is with you? then take up your dd on her offer on not buying her pressies anymore. come her birthday she'll probably be wondering where her pressie is....

Yea I have her now and then, but not as much cos she's not going out with being preg;)She actually said she doesn't want toys all over at her house :cool:so the things i've got her she can keep here anyway:D
Think it's the preg hormones tbh, but she is sooooo demanding and spoilt, it's shocking:eek::eek::eek::eek:I bet you're not like that lulubelle:D still haven't read the thread but (((huggles))) to all the other poorlies n peeds offs today :A
No OSing at all even, got veg lasagnes in :rotfl::rotfl:

Loulou2010

candygirl wrote: »

Yea I have her now and then, but not as much cos she's not going out with being preg;)She actually said she doesn't want toys all over at her house :cool:so the things i've got her she can keep here anyway:D
Think it's the preg hormones tbh, but she is sooooo demanding and spoilt, it's shocking:eek::eek::eek::eek:I bet you're not like that lulubelle still haven't read the thread but (((huggles))) to all the other poorlies n peeds offs today :A
No OSing at all even, got veg lasagnes in :rotfl::rotfl:

:A:A:A :whistle: :rotfl:

Bitsy_Beans

candygirl wrote: »

Hi guys:hello:
Ok haven't read the thread yet but am really upset and need to vent:mad::mad:Have got Boo 2 quite big pressies for her bday at the end of March, and have told DD what they are, and she seemed ok with it.Today she texted me very early on asking me if i was still getting her a trampoline for her bday, I said "no cos i've got the other stuff", and the trampoline had never even been mentioned before to me.She replied that that was "f*** all", and not to bother, seeing as I got her(DD) "complete tat" for Xmas, and that me and her (DD) shouldn't bother buying for each other any more :oI am on benefits due to ill health at the mo, and did buy DD lots of Soap and Glory stuff as she asked for as well as jewelllery and a scarf.:o
I haven't replied to the text as am still in shock, but she is so unreasonable and hormonal and demanding as most of you already know
When she was preg with Boo I was working and bought the pram cot etc, but this time I am financially screwed but will help her out as best as I can:(:(
HELP!!!!!!!:(:(:(

That ain't hormones Candy it's being an ungrateful [censored] :eek:
My first thought is to tell her to jog on but I fear if you do that you'll be penalised by lack of access to Boo
I would perhaps rather calmly point out that you bought items that she specifically requested at Christmas so not sure why she suddenly thinks they are tat and perhaps her suggestion of ceasing to buy presents for each other is a good one.

I know you really miss Boo if you don't see her but OMG you are a saint to put up with an attitude like that. From a grown woman too. She ought to thank her lucky stars she's got a mum like you xx

bramble1

Hi all,

Not posted in a few days, not been feeling it really

We have run out of money as even though i invoiced OH's employer 2 weeks ago he still hasn't paid. So noooo money for bills or travel or food. Have enough till last till sunday, then it's beans on HM toast for us! oh and eggs cause they're free. I'm going to invoice weekly from now on as can't handle this anymore.

Puppy sitting a friends dog this weekend, so will be very busy around here. Going to give the kitchen a once over today, then ask OH to hover tomorrow.

WM needs emptied and filled again.

Dinner is HM kebabs with wraps, salad and rice