Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

Loonytoons

Sorry for your loss MSM x

Got my booking appointment today, i'm 9+6, but it's at home so i'm not expecting much to happen apart from chatting although it will be nice if i can hear a heartbeat

Good luck with yours pigpen and good luck with your scan Skint_Catt

pigpen

jcr16 wrote: »

obviously pigpen i don't know ur full situation, only what you post on here, so i can understand ur concern. but everything happens for a reason. even tho sometimes we really to struggle to understand it, there is always a reason and sometimes were not meant to know or understand why things happen.

Hopefully ur get ur scan date for quite soon tho.

It could be either a good or a bad reason though couldn't it.

Scan will probably be week after next.. and most likely Wednesday or Thursday .. but we'll see..

I was really ill the last few weeks with the baby, my kidneys packed in, my liver started playing up, I couldn't wee more than maybe an egg cup full a day and it was more blood than urine. I had SPD so couldn't walk from about 26 weeks.. but this time I have a small baby to look after and if that lot starts up again I have no idea how we will manage.

I am very concerned about this one.. I still can't believe it has happened.. no period, no warning , nothing.. it just seems very very wrong when so many struggle and would love a child and I then feel guilty for not being happy about it (I'm not unhappy either just generally apathetic and in denial) It all seems very unfair.

Or maybe I am just being a hormonal loon and need to pull myself together and get a grip and be thankful.. :p:p:p

pinkpig08

I'm so sorry to hear your news MSM

furball

Pigpen sorry for popping in tell me to get lost if you like. Am i right in thinking that twice you have lost one of the twins you were carrying. That would have given you 11 children. This is number 10 one less than you would have had. I know you know this better than me and have already done the maths. I would let nature decide. What will be will be. Thinking of you and i know you don't so hugs so huge coping vibes. I was awake ages last night thinking about you and you were the first thing i thought of this morning. Will pop back to usual thread now and mind my own business. Take care.

anderson8

tescos are selling baby clothes off for 50p/£1.
Just letting you ladies know

cedrickerry

Can I join you please ......at last I feel brave enough

I've been through the 2 TTC threads after TTC for years, and am now 6+6 with twins (our ICSI piskies) Had the first scan on Tuesday, all looks fine and now doing my best not to google miscarriage/twin absorption and any other disaster situations. I really need to get positive!

welshpolarbear

cedrickerry wrote: »

Can I join you please ......at last I feel brave enough

I've been through the 2 TTC threads after TTC for years, and am now 6+6 with twins (our ICSI piskies) Had the first scan on Tuesday, all looks fine and now doing my best not to google miscarriage/twin absorption and any other disaster situations. I really need to get positive!

Aww, that's wonderful news ceddrickerrry. After all that time you must be absolutely over the moon (and inshock?) very happy for you.

skint_catt good luck with your scan. Let us all know how you get on.

pigpen - good luck with the booking in. Sorry you are having such confusing feelings. Hope things seem brighter for you soon.

pigpen

furball wrote: »

Pigpen sorry for popping in tell me to get lost if you like. Am i right in thinking that twice you have lost one of the twins you were carrying. That would have given you 11 children. This is number 10 one less than you would have had. I know you know this better than me and have already done the maths. I would let nature decide. What will be will be. Thinking of you and i know you don't so hugs so huge coping vibes. I was awake ages last night thinking about you and you were the first thing i thought of this morning. Will pop back to usual thread now and mind my own business. Take care.

That's one way of looking at it.. thank you

We will survive. there are so many worse things in the world than a a baby. I think this is just such a massive shock I am struggling to get my head round it.. but i will and it'll all work out..

xx

RedwoodBrook

Brrrr. I am cold.

PP - Is a termination out of the question for you? You never know how people feel about these things so though I would ask. How about you get sterilized after this one?

I have been feeling less of the twin vibes today. But more of the girl ones, so i think its just a singleton and a girly at that. (Which means its triplets and they're all boys )

Bought a load of fireworks today for the wedding, yay!

pebblespop

are you getting married redwood? very exciting times if you are!!

i have a girl vibe going on as well - last time i was convinced it would be a boy but never got to find out