Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

pigpen

I have my booking tomorrow so will be handing him the scan date and that'll do!

Sorry to hear it is not good news for you.. it is just one blip though.. give it a few weeks and try again.. You'll get there! And from someone who has been there.. go for the ERPC.. it is so much simpler and less traumatic, over and done in a few hours whereas you could be bleeding heavily for months otherwise and still have to have the ERPC done..

Sequeena

moneysavingmamma I am so sorry hun xx

mirrorimage0

so sorry to hear moneysavingmomma huge hugs, im with pigpen go with the ERPC i bleed for days before they offered me then hd to have a bloodtransfusion as kept passing out all the time before and after. i was the same as you at the time i was not going to have any more for definate, was not going through that again, it took us a while but two yrs later we decided to try again. x

good luck in what ever you decide and give yourself time to heal. x

RedwoodBrook

MSM, I am so sorry. I actually thought about you today and hoped everything would be alright.

I know words, empty or not, are of little solice right now. You sould like you have a lovely little boy so try to focus on him. I got through it by being grateful for what I had.

All the very best, RWB.

portsmouthali

So so sorry for your loss MSM. Thinking of you xx

Flower08

Really sorry to hear that MSM, thinking of you, look after yourself xx

RedwoodBrook

Pigpen - I didn't want to tag this onto the above post.

Its a house we would be renting, not buying. Firstly, I dont want a mortgage. We have zero debt and I would like to keep it that way. Fortunate really as no mortgage company would look at us - OH has a mortgage already with his ex and has just moved jobs. I started as self-employed last year and although I make a good wage, my accounts are less than a year old. Thirdly, my parents are getting on a bit and need to start spending their money before me and my brothers loose ££££ in inheritance tax. So they may well buy us a house in the future. It was discussed after Felix died to give me a 'focus' but didn't really see anything we liked.

If we were buying, I would snap this place up in a flash though. My parents are very good at DIY and my dad is a retired builder so knows what he's doing! I would much prefer to buy a shell than have someone elses nice decor that I have to rip out.

Anyway, enough rambling.

pigpen

renting is a different kettle of fish.. I thought you were buying.. sorry

IamJen

Oh, MSM I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that you get better treatment these next few, difficult days. Is your fella able to spend some time with you at home? I thought of you today, as I was scheduling my own scan in a few weeks. Please take care!

Welcome snagglepuss!

welshpolarbear

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Hi,

Had my scan, no heartbeat. measured 8weeks. Haven't decided on ERPC yet. Hospital were useless, leaving me with pg women all talking births & kicks!

Thanks for the fun & help, don't think I'll be back, too much hassle this baby malarky. DS is enough work for me!

Good luck, PigPen - copy and paste your post when you tell OH & PM me please! I'm following that story!

xxx xxx

Oh moneysavingmamma, I am so sorry to hear your news. I really feel for you. Thinking of you hun x