Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

Jenjenf21

Hey all! Have my scan tomorrow and I'm so nervous and scared! Terrified something will be wrong and I'm fed up with my family or husband saying it will be fine don't worry! Argh!!!

Millie2008_2

(thank god for acupressure bands - more later- hugs to anyone in need xx )

Nephthys

Morning! Walby, don't worry about the detachment thing. I did that the whole way through my pregnancy with DS as I was terrified of things going wrong. Didn't stop me connecting with him when he was born. Didn't get that whole rush of love thing that people talk about but know I would put myself in front of a bus for him if I had to IYKWIM. Minted is right - its a personal thing and how you cope is how you cope and nothing to do with anyone else!

Jenjef - am totally with you there! Am getting really panicky now however, what will be will be (so I tell myself). DH keeps telling me it will be fine tomorrow but I am trying to stay realistic (or detached, whatever word is appropriate!).

Millie - am very jealous that the bands are working for you. i got them and they did nothing for me!

Tattoo_ - sorry you feel rubbish. Totally sympathise and am very envious of your veg out day. Would love one of those!

roversbabe

Walby - I was like that with my first, I didn't want to get excited, especially with my fertility issues. I just couldn't really believe what was happening. I just felt completely detached the whole way through until he was in my arms.
Scan on Thursday, nervous but excited at the same time. Still having pains in my lower abdomen so just hope its all OK.

morocha

Ohh so much sadness in this thread at the moment. I am so sorry many of you can not enjoy the pregnancy fully. I was telling people that i was pregnant as soon as i found out. I enjoyed my pregnancy and decided names before the 12 mark, worried about things going wrong but no more than normal. I had no clue about MC or anything.
This time is different, having read lots of threads here, i know things happen wheter you are prepared or not. I try to keep my PG to myself and close family till week 12. The rest of the family like the nana keep annoying me, like last week, i told my oh's aunty and my oh had a go at me, asking me why then i have told him not to tell anybody and here i am telling people... i said she agreed to keep it a secret. His nana then started saying... I dont know why are hidding it, be happy about it and tell everyone. I was so upset. This baby was planned but i know things can go wrong. I am pretty much optimistic but still want to keep a secret till 12 wks.

Millie2008_2

Back, survived meeting and feel much less icky since I put the bands on. It might be psychological, but I don't care as I am far more functional than I was this morning!

I can't wait til my scan. I am "bonding" with the baby, or rather bonding with the idea of the baby and all it entails, but I am applying a degree of caution, as if anything goes wrong, I don't want to be *too* attached, if that makes sense. I have told a select few on a need to know basis

Tattoo- hope you are enjoying your veg day

Is anyone else yawning lots? I was yawning through that meeting, kept trying to cover it up/apologise/blaming tiredness

roversbabe

Yep - I'm constantly yawning, I feel absolutely shattered all of the time and can't help myself

AllyS

Hi all

Sorry to hear about the losses on here recently, hope everyone is getting the support you need and that you will be back soon xx

my symptoms have come back a little, sickness is in waves now, which is probably better as I am not feeling sick all day, but luckily the waves have come and gone at home at the moment, I have no idea what is going to happen when I am out and about!!

Had some more bleeding, but it is strange and more watery than a period (almost has if I have cut myself) and then goes brown and then stops. I am not getting any discomfort or pain so I am just crossing everything and hoping for the best!! Have my booking in appt on Monday, so hopefully she will be lovely and we can have a chat about it all.

I can emphasise with the tiredness, I have even had people worry about my health, because apparently I look awful at the moment!

zcrat41

I'm shattered too.
I had a cold 2 weeks ago that made me feel awful but I've got over now. Then oh had it and I've only gone and caught the blimmin thing off him again now haven't i?!

Going to head home soon and I think will be going straight to bed and trying for a 12 hour marathon sleep.

God knows how I'll cope at harvest when I'll still have a good 6 hours work in front of me at this time of day!

Millie2008_2

Ally- fingers crossed for your scan! I had my boss, who doesn't know say "are you ok?" earlier, in a tone that suggested I don't look ok! Oops!

Just got home and I am chilling in bed with a cuppa and some bread and butter!?! I took my wrist bands off about 20 mins ago, forgot about them for. While, then just now started to feel icky again, so they are back in place! I tend to be a bit of a cynic with things like this, but I am happy with them!