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Denied going to company event - same as withholding bonus?

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  • Flyboy152
    Flyboy152 Posts: 17,118 Forumite
    Jowo wrote: »
    Why is she taking it so personally when those requiring to keep the company ticking over were selected at random and it's clear that the company would have wanted to have treated everyone but can't because of operational requirements?
    I would imagine that it is because while their employees are being treated, there will be some who are not. I guess that OP feels it is unfair, that those who will have to work that day, will not be given any consideration. Just a guess though.
    The greater danger, for most of us, lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low and achieving our mark
  • ohdamnit
    ohdamnit Posts: 140 Forumite
    What they should have done in order to be fair was draw lots openly, then those who were left out would be given a voucher for a spa treatment at local salon. That would have been the right thing to do, but they have no obligation.
  • kwaks
    kwaks Posts: 494 Forumite
    Kick up a stink, this will lead to the event being cancelled, all the other staff hating your wife, forcing her out the job. Then she will not "suffer" from missing an event again.
  • Flyboy152
    Flyboy152 Posts: 17,118 Forumite
    kwaks wrote: »
    Kick up a stink, this will lead to the event being cancelled, all the other staff hating your wife, forcing her out the job. Then she will not "suffer" from missing an event again.
    Yeah, because that's what will really happen. :wall:
    The greater danger, for most of us, lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low and achieving our mark
  • Gordon_Hose
    Gordon_Hose Posts: 6,259 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    You never know, she may well get recompense at a later date.
  • Flyboy152
    Flyboy152 Posts: 17,118 Forumite
    You never know, she may well get recompense at a later date.
    In which case that needs to discussed and explained to her. As it has been left at the moment it is creating bad feeling is not going to help with cross team co-operation in the future. Which kind of negates the object of the exercise in the first place.
    The greater danger, for most of us, lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low and achieving our mark
  • Gordon_Hose
    Gordon_Hose Posts: 6,259 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    lol, smacks of spoilt brat jumping up and down in the supermarket cos she got no sweets.

    Seriously. Lots were drawn, she lost out.
  • Hi,

    I remember reading posts just before Christmas about folks wondering how they could 'escape' the staff Christmas function, some of them would've been glad to have lost out in random draw, instead of making up excuses.
  • Jomo
    Jomo Posts: 8,253 Forumite
    Maybe they had more confidence in her work and chose who they considered the strongest candidate to hold the fort?
  • Flyboy152
    Flyboy152 Posts: 17,118 Forumite
    lol, smacks of spoilt brat jumping up and down in the supermarket cos she got no sweets.

    Seriously. Lots were drawn, she lost out.
    And she doesn't have the right to feel a bit pee'd off?
    The greater danger, for most of us, lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low and achieving our mark
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