determined to be debtfree!

mandz1

I would love to move to america. Dont know how my wobbly belly will fit in with all the skinny people in LA though. may have to look at the big parts of america that dr christian goes on about on supersize v superskinny.

Hope you feel better soon

abba1772

wow america how exciting....never thought about moving aborad but i think its something that should defo be explored after all america is the land of opportunity

hillside777

Sorry to read that you have been poorly.

It's about time you were feeling 100% high as you've had your fair share of illness.

Hope you feel on top of the world tomorrow.

debtfreewannabe321

thank you for all your replies. I just
wrote a huge reply which as it does on here sometimes has disappeared!

I'm back to feeling fed up after my husband has yet again taken the mick by leaving me with at least 8 washes of clothes/bedding. a living room to scrub clean. A kitchen that needs the same. Recycling that apparantly has a home on the side- he couldn't even be bothered to throw it outside the back door in the green bin. A kids room that needs sorting out (they've yet again emptied their wardrobe this morning) and our room that also needs doing. I am feeling like a door mat today and not happy about it and i still feel ill, can feel another migraine coming on but hey i'm not allowed to be ill so i best crack on before he cracks the whip on me.:(

Skint_but_Optimistic

You seem very low, I hope your stomach has settled down.

I hope you can talk to your husband and get some help with things. They can be infuriating at times.

xx we are looking at france at the moment, its where alot of our work is. x

debtfreewannabe321

Skint_but_Optimistic wrote: »

You seem very low, I hope your stomach has settled down.

I hope you can talk to your husband and get some help with things. They can be infuriating at times.

xx we are looking at france at the moment, its where alot of our work is. x

france sounds lovely my french is a bad gcse standard though so not sure i could move to a foreign speaking country


As for my dh i have tried calling him to no avail. I've now issued orders *via text* that i want him to move out and into the block. What is the betting he just ignores it. Then we have to have a whole huge row over it. *sigh* I've a sneaking suspicion he's been engineering this argument for me to blow up so that i do throw him out. His bonus is due next week so then without me to say what i think we should spend it on (DEBT or savings) he can now do with it as he pleases. Totally hacked off. I know this isn't really the right place to vent my fury but nowhere else to do it

debtfreewannabe321

good news is i have 35 nsd under my belt as of today. (bad news kinda outshadows this though)!

Skint_but_Optimistic

Alwways look on the bright side though!

debtfreewannabe321

Skint_but_Optimistic wrote: »

Alwways look on the bright side though!

yep xx

Well since 6am i've got a fair bit done.

• Stripped ds2 bed
• stripped my bed
• put away 6 washes of clothes
• done 3 more washes of clothes & bed linen
• Hoovered up & downstairs
• Tidied front room
• Tidied kitchen and done 4 lots of washing up
• got dinner out freezer
• sorted out the recycling & finally put out for bin men
• tidied garden and moved stuff about (didn't make a diffference garden still ridiculously small!)

Still to do:

• make my bed
• make ds bed
• make dinner
• wash up after
• talk to dh
• get an early night as still feeling a bit poorly

Checked bank also and there is nothing due out that i can see until monday now when the last dd goes out before payday. On monday we are due £46 in child benefit though so that will cover it and we should be able to get some food for the week.

I'm keeping myself busy but i feel utterly fed up and just want to stop & cry. Anyway off to finish some jobs. no rest for the wicked!

abba1772

so sorry you're feeling so down hunni xxx

any reply from the texts you sent him?? some men think if your a stay at home mum we sit on our bums all day and do nothing...how wrong they are!!!!

hope you feel better soon hunni xx