September 2012 Brides and Grooms

bubbles0169

:eek:had a nightmare:( OH waited for me to get to the bottom of the aisle, said well be back soon, went off with his best man and usher:mad: i waited and waited for him to come back, everyone started leaving, everyone left:(, left me on my own in the church and waited for me to come out,:o i legged it out the back and ended up in the pet shop buying guinea pig food:cool:

were not even getting married in a church and i know hed never leave me at the 'alter' he likes his bits too much;) and we havent got guinea pigs:think:

White_Sapphire

Ah yes, the wedding nightmare - already had one ofthose! In mine I found myself on mywedding day with nothingready, not even a dress, then suddenly I was attheback of church, which by the way was full of people I don't know, in casual clothes trying to change into some monstrosity of a dress cos that's all that could be found!! Bizarre. They're very common apparently, but I'm hoping I don't get many more :eek:

x

nuttymummy

pmsl....not the only one on nightmares!!! ive only had one so far....and the same as u....hope to not have more!!

mine was very similar to your fiona with the fact nothing was ready! LOL

natc

:rotfl:the dreaded wedding nightmares!!! Had a few of those already :eek:

Had one similar to you Fiona, nothing ready, no wedding dress, everyone waiting at the church, not wedding car to take me....etc etc....wake up in a cold sweat!! they are awful.

I was up last night until 11.30 on the laptop looking at wedding reception venues!!! Like i have said before, OH is adamant he wants the Golf Club, but with the problem with the access for step bro (only way up and down is for 4 blokes to carry him in his chair) its making me re think, im worried that we have only chosen this place as its the only one we really liked so far....I keep panicking thinking im not going to find a venue I really do like and wont regret using!!! Dont know whats bloody wrong with me!

Loving all the invitation ideas

The ring thing I mentioned a few pages back, the bracelet i got for 21st has hardly been worn, and I cant imagine wearing it again in the future, but would be a shame to sell it or weigh it in, itsquite a thick bracelet 18ct, so think it would make a ring without having to use anymore gold....hopefully anyway. I think ill get some prices on that.

bubbles0169

have you checked all the ones listed in the dewsbury area using directgov civil venue map natc?
i would post a link but it keeps saying their server is down but you can still live search

White_Sapphire

Natalie, have your dad and step mum been to visit the golf club yet? Cos if they are happy with it in terms of access, your step bro is happy to be carried upstairs and can get everywhere when he's there etc, then you're fine, as you both like it. If they're not satisfied with it then your H2B will have to understand that it's unsuitable for a member of your family and you will have to find somewhere else because it's not fair for any guest to be excluded from any part of your wedding due to access issues. He can't insist on a venue regardless of that, whatever issues and upset there have been on that side of the family. I personally would say not to stress yourself out with finding another venue until your dad and stepmum have passed their judgment on it on your stepbro's behalf.

Really hope you get it sorted soon, and I'm really sorry that you've been caught in themiddle of it. xx

natc

bubbles0169 wrote: »

have you checked all the ones listed in the dewsbury area using directgov civil venue map natc?
i would post a link but it keeps saying their server is down but you can still live search

Hi Tracey,

Yes checked that site and many others....:wall: Im getting fed up of looking, just want to get somewhere we both like booked and get on with the rest of it ike everyone else

Hi Fiona, they said they were going to take him during this week but havent heaerd from them, which is always the case....I will end up having to ring them next week to see how it went, and they will prob have ot gone yet....

Fed up of being int he middle and close to just bu**ering off and getting married in gretna green.

Its harder as my OH, mum and Step dad think i shouldnt not book the place because of one person, esp as my step bro doesnt really get involved, or really have a conversation when we see him, but I think part of that is because he is embarrased at being in a wheelchair and is hard to get a relationship going with him...but im with you on this Fiona, shouldnt exclude one person, i think if was someone on their side of the family their opinion would change... IYKWIM...!!!

Oh families....whod have them!!!

Scotsbride

White_Sapphire wrote: »

Tracey, I've had a thought about your pom poms - can you not make them to the point where they're ready to be unfolded, but store them in their folded state? Then you can get them done before things get too hectic but they won't flatten by being stored opened up?

Can you make them like woolen pompoms but with paper rafffeea (excuss spelling) and stop at the point where you need to cut around the cardbord circles

Scotsbride

nuttymummy wrote: »

me too! im DYING to do an invite ..i have it planned out in my head what im doing!! i bet you do too? LOL

but i know if i make just one...i will want to make them all ha ha

Is that a bad thing?

Scotsbride

White_Sapphire wrote: »

Sweeeeeet!!!:T

And yes,I will be making MASSIVE amounts of mess - it's all part of the fun!

no one makes more than me!