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startagain, Starts Again....... Again

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  • startagain_2
    startagain_2 Posts: 2,135 Forumite
    I have come home from a day working with someone who is totally freezing me out whenever she can. I know her little game - she is frightened of the competition and feels threatened by someone who has come into the job older, more experienced, with common sense et al and wants me out. It really is so wearing but like Aesop says when it is part time you can just get your head down and weather it out. I only worked my normal hours today and did no extra. That was more than enough and I wanted to get out into the sunshine with the dog. He is the most sensible thing in my life at the moment. :)

    Thanks Aesop for your kind words and links, I shall read the blog.

    But.... I have received a pm from someone accusing me of being a TROLL! If I wasn't so angry I would be wetting myself laughing at the sheer thought of it . If someone cannot recognise a genuine poster, when they are prepared to write huge amounts about themselves, then they must be plain daft. I joined this forum in 2008 for help with my debts and was nursed through my BR and beyond. So Sad Angel and yellowmonkey have already posted in my diary and know that I one of the good 'uns.

    I don't care if nobody wants to read or post in my diary if they fear my motives, but don't accuse me of something I am not for no reason at all. We are all struggling one way or another with life and what it throws at us and we are here to support and not turn on each other. Just plain crazy..... icon8.gif

    SA
    2011 - New year, New start, New me
    [STRIKE]Planning on [/STRIKE] making my dreams a reality
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    startagain wrote: »

    So Sad Angel and yellowmonkey have already posted in my diary and know that I one of the good 'uns.

    Indeed you are SA, Indeed you are. I wll vouch for that. Tell em to take a hike smiley-taunt005.gifsmiley-kick-butt.gif
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Sa you are lovely. I (think) i know what is going on. I am sure it will be sorted today. Noone thinks you are a troll at all.

    Do not worry please,

    kit.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • startagain_2
    startagain_2 Posts: 2,135 Forumite
    Thanks guys. I think this demonstrates the "behind the scenes" carp that can and does go on here. It is the first time I have been subjected to it and I shall stay here from now on, in my own little diary, minding my own business.
    My God, Undervalued, Underpaid and now Under Interrogation - all in one week. Can I wake up tomorrow please from this bad dream that I seem to be having?
    Hi ym... where did you sneak in from?
    SA
    2011 - New year, New start, New me
    [STRIKE]Planning on [/STRIKE] making my dreams a reality
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    The real world :D

    Trying to spend a bit of time there :o
  • startagain_2
    startagain_2 Posts: 2,135 Forumite
    The real world :D

    Trying to spend a bit of time there :o


    You'll soon get tired of it, we all do..... ;)

    Nice of you to drop in though, appreciate the support, I really do.

    Big hug


    SA
    2011 - New year, New start, New me
    [STRIKE]Planning on [/STRIKE] making my dreams a reality
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    startagain wrote: »
    But.... I have received a pm from someone accusing me of being a TROLL! If I wasn't so angry I would be wetting myself laughing at the sheer thought of it . If someone cannot recognise a genuine poster, when they are prepared to write huge amounts about themselves, then they must be plain daft. I joined this forum in 2008 for help with my debts and was nursed through my BR and beyond. So Sad Angel and yellowmonkey have already posted in my diary and know that I one of the good 'uns.

    I don't care if nobody wants to read or post in my diary if they fear my motives, but don't accuse me of something I am not for no reason at all. We are all struggling one way or another with life and what it throws at us and we are here to support and not turn on each other. Just plain crazy..... icon8.gif

    SA

    I think you should forget the anger and sit there laughing your pants off at the saddo, who found time to PM you that you are a troll, which you OBVIOUSLY are not, instead of trying to HELP SOMEONE by offering constructive advice, a kind listening ear, etc.

    PFT to them! They are so not worth it! Tell them to go and play in the Arms and if that is too tame, tell them to go play on FB!

    Ignore them SA. You are genuine and that is enough for us.

    Oh and by the way mr/mrs accuser, don't bothered reading the diaries if that is the way you feel!
  • startagain_2
    startagain_2 Posts: 2,135 Forumite
    Thanks Aesop,
    I have calmed down now and looking forward to a pizza and an evening in front of the TV. So, if I sign off - don't worry I am not huddled in corner weeping, more likely tucking into a slice of chicken and bacon deep filled and watching Human Planet. I got hooked last week. Those divers were incredible.Now when I get my laptop (Wish list number 4) I will be able to watch TV, eat pizza and post on MSE.... a multitude of pleasures.
    Have a good evening everyone...... hugs to nearly all of you
    SA
    2011 - New year, New start, New me
    [STRIKE]Planning on [/STRIKE] making my dreams a reality
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    enjoy your pizza and TV. I have an evening of ironing and/or ebay to look forward too.... deep joy! x
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I think it was a genuine mistake. They know you are not a troll. They just panicked. It is my fault i said you were friends with everyone. It will be sorted out though dont worry. Pizza yum. I had ham sarnies at worky poos (homemade). Goodnight Start Again and bless you for being so chilled.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
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