Mooloo's New Home, New Year and New Start part 3

Savvy_Sue

Oh, it's not without your permission. If you don't give permission, they assume you're lying and refuse the claim!

It may not be actual lie detection software. It's technically Voice Risk Analysis. Couple of articles here and here.

jackieglasgow

Thanks Sue, I think I've heard it all now! Good Grief!

Savvy_sewing

Oh my god really?
I think that its a complete sham, we have to pay extortionate insurance cover, and then they weedle out of it at every opportunity!.
I shall tell Biggest tomorrow, to see what she can do.
They said Lack of evidence? Also that as it had an imobiliser it wasnt possible to have been stolen, but yesterday at the various garages that we visited, they all said that it was possible to steal them, depending on what they wanted the car for etc etc. That it is possible to by pass the emobilisers.! Anyway, on the good news front we found her another car yesterday, between my Dad and I, she settled for a Citreon. She will collect it tomorrow. My Dad is paying for it. I was going to help her with a banger, but my Mum told my Dad that "he had better come back with a decent car, as she didnt want her great, granddaughter being driven around in a banger!". Bless her.
Poor Dad, he is surrounded by us women, he doesnt have a leg to stand on!
And luckily for me, I didnt have to spend my savings as yet.! (I am trying to get the money together for the disaster funds again, after using it all over the move etc, and of course the chunk of it, is from the backpay I got!).

Biggest of Mooloo loved the baby tights I made, and I will probably search for more thin/soft jersey amongst my stash of fabrics and clothing and make her some in various sizes. But it will not be tomorrow, as I am taking twin2 to see her solicitor, as the report from the psychologist is finished. (Fingers crossed we get a good report!).

gizmo111

Poor Dad, he is surrounded by us women, he doesnt have a leg to stand on!

Reminds me of my dad - he had no chance! Bless him.

minimoneysaver

I hope you have had a good day Mooloo.

Savvy_sewing

Stressed day. Alas. Report on Twin2's psyhcological test. Not good. Emotional morning at solicitors, and then spent the rest of the day reading 103 pges of the report. But I am having DS and Twin1 babysitting tonight, and I am going to have a meal with BF. So I will update properly tomorrow.
Hope to see Molly tomorrow and hve a bit of a mooch in Bicester. Fingers crossed that happens.
Molly hope your day with the group was not too bad.
Hugs Moo

gizmo111

Mooloo wrote: »

Stressed day. Alas. Report on Twin2's psyhcological test. Not good. Emotional morning at solicitors, and then spent the rest of the day reading 103 pges of the report. But I am having DS and Twin1 babysitting tonight, and I am going to have a meal with BF. So I will update properly tomorrow.
Hope to see Molly tomorrow and hve a bit of a mooch in Bicester. Fingers crossed that happens.
Molly hope your day with the group was not too bad.
Hugs Moo

Sorry to hear that but it was kind of what I expected, some psyhcologists an be very harsh and unfortuneatly the court will see them as the expert opinion and go with that.

Savvy_sewing

gizmo111 wrote: »

Sorry to hear that but it was kind of what I expected, some psyhcologists an be very harsh and unfortuneatly the court will see them as the expert opinion and go with that.

Yes I feel that we have lost the case now. The worst part of it for Twin2 is that they will cease the contact, but of course that will not be until the final court case in May. I was so gutted that they are now pointing out her learning difficulties as major really, with a low verbal IQ and are asking the local GP to support her depression, and access Adult services for her ADHD., Although they have no record of her Autism? Seems very strange to me.
Bless her she was unconsoleable. Alas it reminded me of my sisters grief when our little angel died at 8 months old. I didnt really know what to do or to say.
I have given her back her report and she is to call the doctors immeditely, and I suggested she allows the doctor to see the report, without waiting to access it via the courts or how ever it would be released.
The report on the father of DGS1 was very damming, and he will also be ruled out of the equasion, as is his parents, due to thier resentment of the authorites, and the fact that thier record of caring for the father was on the at risk register.
So there is a silver lining for the boys, to be adopted together is the recommendations, with Letterbox access?
But it is not the same for the family.
I lay awake in the early hours,once again, trying to imagine, the ability to care for the boys as well as DGD, but as we hve gone over this so many times. I am not able to. It would be too much for me.

Twin1 didnt sign the letter of authority for me yet, and has still to go to the solicitors. Thursday I think it is now.!

It is a difficult subject as obviously Twin2 is now envious of her and the fact that she still gets to see her daughter, but she will not be able to see her boys.

This Thursday is my day to take her to visit. It will be bitter sweet.
I have told her to make as many memories as she can of them, and that when they are older we have all this side of the families history and my Dad has even remastered the home video's onto DVD so they will have a record stored somewhere.

jackieglasgow

Oh Mooloo I am so sorry to hear this, it was what we had all suspected would happen, but that doesn't make it any easier for you all. At least the boys will know they were loved, and she never chose to lose them, but her circumstances meant they maybe had a better chance elsewhere, and as you said, they will be together, which will be good for them. xxx

Kittikins

Oh Mooloo, I'm so sorry for you and your family, you have done everything you possibly could, big hugs xx